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Offered council house in a not very good area?

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rhinnq · 04/11/2025 19:41

I got a call today from the council to advise me that I have been offered a property.

The property isn't in a very good area to be honest and the rent is on level with a private rent.

I am not sure if I should take it.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Seymour5 · 06/11/2025 11:31

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:22

I think you’ll find thatcher (and others) “ruined” it with no replacement for right to buy

Not exactly. There were places in the north in the 1990s that had more social housing than they needed. Lots of demolition was going on too. As a housing worker back then, I, and colleagues, assumed the Blair government would remove it. They didn’t, and much was sold on, by the original purchasers, to private landlords.

More recently, Scotland, in 2016, and Wales in 2019, have abolished RTB, but England hasn’t? Of it’s time, it was a great opportunity for people with decent incomes on the better estates, to bag a bargain! It wasn’t particularly fair, unless someone had been fortunate enough to be in that position. Now, it’s very difficult to get any social housing without being classed as a priority, as the majority of lettings are based on need, not waiting time.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 06/11/2025 11:11

I read your update. A victorian house?? Take. It.

The area will improve and until then, keep yourself to yourself 🙄

CosySeason · 06/11/2025 11:07

Depends how much I needed somewhere to live. Living in a rough area is mentally draining.

Thistlewoman · 06/11/2025 10:50

rhinnq · 06/11/2025 10:30

Update:
We visited the area last night and it was quite bad.
A lot of homeless people just walking past begging for money.

OH swore he saw a rat rummaging through some of the bin bags that had been ripped/torn.
Rubbish everywhere.

I spoke to one of the neighbours and she was very forthcoming.
There are a lot of thefts and burglaries on the street and the street is full of HMO.
She also mentioned there is a lot of ASB on the road as well as the area having a massive drug problem.

She said the last tenant was lovely single mother and had issue after issue and in the end had to move back to her parents as she couldn't stand living there anymore.

The rent is quite expensive, it's an old Victorian house with no parking and is on level with the private rents around here.

My own rent at the moment is £100 cheaper.

Given that information it definitely doesn't sound like the kind of place you would want to be in, relax in, want to raise your children in. I think the private rental option may well be better for you. Is there any point in sharing your info/concerns with the Housing Dept at the Council so they can understand your viewpoint? Good luck OP.

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 10:48

rhinnq · 06/11/2025 10:30

Update:
We visited the area last night and it was quite bad.
A lot of homeless people just walking past begging for money.

OH swore he saw a rat rummaging through some of the bin bags that had been ripped/torn.
Rubbish everywhere.

I spoke to one of the neighbours and she was very forthcoming.
There are a lot of thefts and burglaries on the street and the street is full of HMO.
She also mentioned there is a lot of ASB on the road as well as the area having a massive drug problem.

She said the last tenant was lovely single mother and had issue after issue and in the end had to move back to her parents as she couldn't stand living there anymore.

The rent is quite expensive, it's an old Victorian house with no parking and is on level with the private rents around here.

My own rent at the moment is £100 cheaper.

That does sound really bad.

I feel like the cons of moving definitely outweigh the pros. I know you feel isolated where you currently are but feeling safe is important, especially with children and I wouldn't want my children around that.

dcthatsme · 06/11/2025 10:48

rhinnq · 06/11/2025 10:30

Update:
We visited the area last night and it was quite bad.
A lot of homeless people just walking past begging for money.

OH swore he saw a rat rummaging through some of the bin bags that had been ripped/torn.
Rubbish everywhere.

I spoke to one of the neighbours and she was very forthcoming.
There are a lot of thefts and burglaries on the street and the street is full of HMO.
She also mentioned there is a lot of ASB on the road as well as the area having a massive drug problem.

She said the last tenant was lovely single mother and had issue after issue and in the end had to move back to her parents as she couldn't stand living there anymore.

The rent is quite expensive, it's an old Victorian house with no parking and is on level with the private rents around here.

My own rent at the moment is £100 cheaper.

Could you do as another poster suggested and go and talk to a housing officer. Explain your misgivings and say you won't feel safe and ask if you could be considered for another property. If they say no, they say no but at least you've tried.

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 10:47

rhinnq · 06/11/2025 10:30

Update:
We visited the area last night and it was quite bad.
A lot of homeless people just walking past begging for money.

OH swore he saw a rat rummaging through some of the bin bags that had been ripped/torn.
Rubbish everywhere.

I spoke to one of the neighbours and she was very forthcoming.
There are a lot of thefts and burglaries on the street and the street is full of HMO.
She also mentioned there is a lot of ASB on the road as well as the area having a massive drug problem.

She said the last tenant was lovely single mother and had issue after issue and in the end had to move back to her parents as she couldn't stand living there anymore.

The rent is quite expensive, it's an old Victorian house with no parking and is on level with the private rents around here.

My own rent at the moment is £100 cheaper.

Oh op I’m sorry that’s a real shame.
before you turn it down. Please read my longer post upthread. I’ve been renting for the entirety of my childrens lives. It’s got so much worse, rent increases and not being able to be part of the community. Swallowing 40% rent increases so my children can go to the same school as their siblings and friends due to catchments. Affordability checks make it all so much worse now.

im not saying take the property. Just don’t immediately turn it down without thoughts or a long term plan

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 10:46

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 10:41

your absolutely right to do that and I envy your housing position so much. Feeling settled and secure in housing is everything

It really is.

I felt the same when I was in my private rental, it's such a horrible feeling but I also never begrudged anyone for staying in secure housing because like I said, why wouldn't they?

I hope you can feel settled and secure at some point xx.

Bwitched1 · 06/11/2025 10:44

rhinnq · 06/11/2025 10:30

Update:
We visited the area last night and it was quite bad.
A lot of homeless people just walking past begging for money.

OH swore he saw a rat rummaging through some of the bin bags that had been ripped/torn.
Rubbish everywhere.

I spoke to one of the neighbours and she was very forthcoming.
There are a lot of thefts and burglaries on the street and the street is full of HMO.
She also mentioned there is a lot of ASB on the road as well as the area having a massive drug problem.

She said the last tenant was lovely single mother and had issue after issue and in the end had to move back to her parents as she couldn't stand living there anymore.

The rent is quite expensive, it's an old Victorian house with no parking and is on level with the private rents around here.

My own rent at the moment is £100 cheaper.

What happens if you turn it down? The state of the country housing situation at the moment is imagine you are at risk of homelessness so do you get the option to turn it down

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 10:41

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 09:57

Yep. It's such an awful position to be in and no one is going to opt to risk going through that if they have an alternative.

I was told when they gave me the keys that it was mine for as long as I wanted it and I will absolutely be staying put without any guilt. It isn't my fault that there aren't enough council properties.

your absolutely right to do that and I envy your housing position so much. Feeling settled and secure in housing is everything

Crudd99 · 06/11/2025 10:31

In my area the ' bad' areas are now improving because people who would of in the past refused a house in those areas are taking them. The days of picking and choosing areas is now over.

rhinnq · 06/11/2025 10:30

Update:
We visited the area last night and it was quite bad.
A lot of homeless people just walking past begging for money.

OH swore he saw a rat rummaging through some of the bin bags that had been ripped/torn.
Rubbish everywhere.

I spoke to one of the neighbours and she was very forthcoming.
There are a lot of thefts and burglaries on the street and the street is full of HMO.
She also mentioned there is a lot of ASB on the road as well as the area having a massive drug problem.

She said the last tenant was lovely single mother and had issue after issue and in the end had to move back to her parents as she couldn't stand living there anymore.

The rent is quite expensive, it's an old Victorian house with no parking and is on level with the private rents around here.

My own rent at the moment is £100 cheaper.

OP posts:
Catpiece · 06/11/2025 10:24

x2boys · 06/11/2025 10:17

You dont care really though do you ?
You have secure housing you just think people who csnt affor, to buy shouldn't be afforded the same privilege
It always makes me laugh posters on,here who think private renting is preferable to social housing ,
Yes it might be in a better area ( sometimes) and the fixtures and fittings look nice
But at least Social housing is secure .

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

x2boys · 06/11/2025 10:17

FlyMeSomewhere · 06/11/2025 09:34

Get your facts straight! I am the one telling people not to take council houses as a lifestyle choice because it saves you money! I am the one saying leave the houses for people that really need it! People who need a leg up to get their life on track! I seem to be the only one here caring about people that have nowhere to live and can't afford to rent and have many, many years to wait because greedy folk who can afford not be in council housing are too greedy! It's you looking down on those people and saying fuck em, they can do without. How many millions of homes do you expect councils to build just so people can be greedy and save on rent!

You dont care really though do you ?
You have secure housing you just think people who csnt affor, to buy shouldn't be afforded the same privilege
It always makes me laugh posters on,here who think private renting is preferable to social housing ,
Yes it might be in a better area ( sometimes) and the fixtures and fittings look nice
But at least Social housing is secure .

x2boys · 06/11/2025 10:09

FlyMeSomewhere · 06/11/2025 09:03

People with pride? Who don't want to rely on the system! People who don't want to live in a rough area! Personally, I'd rather have my mortgage but whatever. But nobody should complain about lack of housing when people are taking it all out of greed rather than need. As I said on another post, sit back & think who that greed impacts, homeless, people facing homelessness due to job loss, people fleeing domestic violence with no one to turn to etc.

So you think you can tell people what to do even though you have no idea how the system works 🤔

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 09:57

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:39

Completely. We had 6 weeks to move last time. We had no idea the landlord was selling up. Just got that letter on a Friday. It was horrific.

Yep. It's such an awful position to be in and no one is going to opt to risk going through that if they have an alternative.

I was told when they gave me the keys that it was mine for as long as I wanted it and I will absolutely be staying put without any guilt. It isn't my fault that there aren't enough council properties.

Catpiece · 06/11/2025 09:43

FlyMeSomewhere · 06/11/2025 09:34

Get your facts straight! I am the one telling people not to take council houses as a lifestyle choice because it saves you money! I am the one saying leave the houses for people that really need it! People who need a leg up to get their life on track! I seem to be the only one here caring about people that have nowhere to live and can't afford to rent and have many, many years to wait because greedy folk who can afford not be in council housing are too greedy! It's you looking down on those people and saying fuck em, they can do without. How many millions of homes do you expect councils to build just so people can be greedy and save on rent!

You don’t really care though. You just fancy kicking the hornets nest. I’ve seen it all before on here. I’d say you’d be the first to protest if there were plans to build loads of council houses near you, you know, to house the needy, feckless, those being let out of prison, people with poor mental health.

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:39

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 09:30

Or getting turfed out because the landlord has decided to sell and scrambling around in a panic hoping you can find something else you can afford.

I simply don't believe those who say it's what they would do, especially if they have secure housing themselves.

Of course people are going to put their children first and stay in secure housing.

Completely. We had 6 weeks to move last time. We had no idea the landlord was selling up. Just got that letter on a Friday. It was horrific.

FlyMeSomewhere · 06/11/2025 09:34

Catpiece · 06/11/2025 09:09

You’ve got your mortgage. You’re not in the “system”. Tenancies are for life. Plus you need people to pick on and look down on. I don’t know why you’re butting in.

Get your facts straight! I am the one telling people not to take council houses as a lifestyle choice because it saves you money! I am the one saying leave the houses for people that really need it! People who need a leg up to get their life on track! I seem to be the only one here caring about people that have nowhere to live and can't afford to rent and have many, many years to wait because greedy folk who can afford not be in council housing are too greedy! It's you looking down on those people and saying fuck em, they can do without. How many millions of homes do you expect councils to build just so people can be greedy and save on rent!

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 09:30

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:24

You’d be completely mad to do that. Risk your kids not being able to go to the same school as their friends.
risk siblings getting split up because you’ve been forced to move
40% rent increase with a months notice
not being able to have pets or paint your children’s bedroom.
not be able to plant a plant in the garden and see it flower.

Or getting turfed out because the landlord has decided to sell and scrambling around in a panic hoping you can find something else you can afford.

I simply don't believe those who say it's what they would do, especially if they have secure housing themselves.

Of course people are going to put their children first and stay in secure housing.

Workingoutthetruth · 06/11/2025 09:27

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:22

I think you’ll find thatcher (and others) “ruined” it with no replacement for right to buy

I am saying there should be tighter controls not that we need more council houses. The 'grabby' should not qualify (it is THEIR problem to sort out not everyone else). This is the only way we can get rid of this mentality. At the moment the system encourages it.

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:24

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 09:19

The lack of social housing isn't the fault of social housing tenants.

Not many people are going to willingly give up secure properties for their children for an unsecure rented property. Especially if they know that a mortgage will always be out of their reach and it's their only way of ensuring their child has a secure home.

You’d be completely mad to do that. Risk your kids not being able to go to the same school as their friends.
risk siblings getting split up because you’ve been forced to move
40% rent increase with a months notice
not being able to have pets or paint your children’s bedroom.
not be able to plant a plant in the garden and see it flower.

FallingIntoAutumn · 06/11/2025 09:22

Workingoutthetruth · 06/11/2025 09:13

No. I am saying council houses always used to be for low wage decent hard working people.

Now they are taken by the entitled and lazy. People who have kids they blatantly can't afford. Women who choose loser partners. No planning and foresight and understanding that everyone experiences their 'rainy day' Throw in DV, MH and 'working around' benefit rules and kerching!! Shameless and grabby.

These people have ruined it for those who genuinely need council housing not to mention the legalised theft from the taxpayer.

I think you’ll find thatcher (and others) “ruined” it with no replacement for right to buy

Kirbert2 · 06/11/2025 09:19

FlyMeSomewhere · 06/11/2025 09:03

People with pride? Who don't want to rely on the system! People who don't want to live in a rough area! Personally, I'd rather have my mortgage but whatever. But nobody should complain about lack of housing when people are taking it all out of greed rather than need. As I said on another post, sit back & think who that greed impacts, homeless, people facing homelessness due to job loss, people fleeing domestic violence with no one to turn to etc.

The lack of social housing isn't the fault of social housing tenants.

Not many people are going to willingly give up secure properties for their children for an unsecure rented property. Especially if they know that a mortgage will always be out of their reach and it's their only way of ensuring their child has a secure home.

Catpiece · 06/11/2025 09:15

Workingoutthetruth · 06/11/2025 09:13

No. I am saying council houses always used to be for low wage decent hard working people.

Now they are taken by the entitled and lazy. People who have kids they blatantly can't afford. Women who choose loser partners. No planning and foresight and understanding that everyone experiences their 'rainy day' Throw in DV, MH and 'working around' benefit rules and kerching!! Shameless and grabby.

These people have ruined it for those who genuinely need council housing not to mention the legalised theft from the taxpayer.

Possibly, in certain areas, yes. That’s not the entire social housing population though. I think you’re focusing on stereotypes