To ask where would be an option to move to?

Let people leave if they want to. We still have freedom of movement, I think.
I have left and come back a few times.

@Wheretogotonow I think you have to be realistic about this - work is a priority - does your h do anything’s that’s fantastically useful elsewhere and in short supply because it doesn’t sound like you could look at nomad visa/ self employed options - and believe me they come with complications too -
Certainly in the EU unless you have European citizenship your H won’t be a priority unless it’s ‘real’ shortage occupation - because they prioritise other EU citizens - far less hassle and often a ready supply

so I think what he does is a real biggie because the easiest way is location transfer and sponsorship

as you don’t work it is all going to be job dependent - same applies for most places you are likely to be interested in by the way, even if non EU

Stop looking at social media and the news. Your "lot" will suddenly start feeling a lot better without 90% of the tory backed press telling you that you're living in a hell hole.

The UK is still one of the best countries on the planet to live in. Every country has its problems and the grass is not usually greener.

I can’t believe money is tight when you’re a top 1% family! How do you think the remaining 99% manage?
I wouldn’t go to NZ - I have been reading about how they’re in a massive economic downturn and everyone is leaving to go to Australia as it’s better. Having lived in both for a short while I tend to agree with them - NZ is boring AF - beautiful, but too small and parochial. At least Australia is a bit more buzzy (Sydney & Melbourne at least) If you’re fluent in German and French I’d stay in Europe personally if you can get the visas (do you have EU passports?) - so much more to do and easier to get to other countries for work/ holidays etc

Your husband is a top 1% earner. How can you be so skint?

Because you don't think Australia is experiencing price inflation too?

You seem to approach this in a reacting manner rather than a proactive logical way. It's not just about escaping but also where you can build your life what will give you a better lifestyle for your family. Money is only one aspect.

Like many, you might realise life is not so bad in Britain after all...

Germany as you speak German? I know a couple of people who have moved there and love it. They both work in tech with a large phone company.

How do your children feel about moving? I know mine would hate to leave their friends and grandparents but everyone is different.
We are considering moving to Ireland where DH is from. Lower taxes but higher costs so will be fairly even economically. But the sense of commuinity, safety, values feels much better than where we are now.
New Zealand would be my other option if not so far away. Tolerant of others, beautiful landscapes, outdoor living. Have you been there for an extended period to get a feel for it

Dubai

In case anyone cares , whenever tax increases are considered the impact of people moving away to hang onto cash is always considered so that the net effect should be positive

its fascinating that there are towns on the Scottish border , less than a mile from English towns , yet higher paying tax people live in the Scottish town - not everyone is motivated by greed and selfishness I guess . Not everyone is happy that people freeze and die of mould in one of the richest countries in the world

• My husband is a top 1% earner.

• I don’t currently work (child care around school) but I have a master’s degree so can look to go back into work.

• We own a 3-bed semi-detached house with a mortgage, in an expensive area due to my husband’s job we need this location.

• We pay privately for healthcare and for our children’s schooling.

• We don’t receive benefits (or receive reduced child benefit).

• We consider ourselves community-focused—we volunteer, are involved locally, and have nice children.

If he can work in Australia then off you pop

although why he can’t live in a cheaper house in the uk but can do the same job for the same wages in Australia is beyond me

Take a look at the housing prices in near the economic areas in Australia or New Zealand and then take a good look at the cost of groceries etc... and it might not work out as much as an economic win as you think.

Are you under 40? Does your DH have an in demand profession, a company may sponsor him, but getting the whole family over is another matter entirely.

Middle east is probably your best bet depending on age, sector, medical history as it's a bit easier to grab a visa, but whether it's better is entirely personal opinion.

Then go.

But may I just advise that you get your own job, relying on your husband is risky. You might not be married forever, try to have your own money and income.

A thinly disguised Labour bashing thread. All the hits. High tax, tax on private education, feeling unsafe, etc

Well to work in London means big mortgage and probably also commuting time and costs