Wow - came back to the thread and it seems to have got a little heated. I’m not trying to get involved in a pile on, I don’t think posters should bring personal insults into it.
I admit though I’m finding it a little frustrating that the OP is still missing the point that the premise in her original post is wrong.
(At least on Mumsnet anyway, if the OP has people in her real life who are making this complaint differently then fair enough)
The vast majority of people on MN who have a specific moan about a holiday with kids being just parenting in a different location, is because their experience on that holiday gave them no relief from all the normal parts of life - they were still shopping for food, cooking, cleaning, washing clothes and towels, tidying up after multiple family members etc, cleaning bathrooms.
OP - you had a an actual holiday because as you said yourself - someone else was making the bed, cooking your food, cleaning up after cooking your food, presumably cleaning your room and bathroom each day, replacing your towels.
In addition you have a supportive spouse, an easy baby who goes to sleep at a reasonable hour so that you could have lovely grown up time with your spouse.
It sounds absolutely lovely - there’s no post on Mumsnet of someone having your holiday experience and complaining about it being just parenting in a different location.
So where are all these scaremongering posts?
People on your thread have talked about different challenges they have faced but everyone has mostly said it was still worth it over the course of many holidays - some being great, some being absolute horrors for reasons beyond their control and everything in between.
I do know I have read the occasional post on MN where posters are in despair about their holiday and wish they’d not bothered but all those posts involve something bad happening for the poster.