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Anyone like to reconsider what they posted about the train attack on Saturday night?

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margegunderson · 03/11/2025 10:48

There were (to my mind) some horrific posts claiming that it MUST be a terrorist attack, demanding information on the attacker’s race and motivations NOW, shouting about Starmer censorship and picking fights with anyone suggesting it might not be cut and dried and to wait for more information. Hideously racist as well.
If that was you - any reflections today? What will you do if there’s a next time?

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bookworm14 · 03/11/2025 12:57

We were never told it was being treated as a terrorist incident as far as I’m aware. At one point we were told that counter terror police were providing assistance, but not that they actually thought it was terrorism.

PandoraSocks · 03/11/2025 12:57

Genevieva · 03/11/2025 12:54

I think it is still a bit soon for any speculation. We were told yesterday that it was being treated as a terrorist incident, but then later we were told that it wasn't one. This is simply because we seem to define terrorism as having to have some sort of organised ideological foundation - political or religious. I am not sure that holds water. It was certainly a terrorising activity, which begs the question whether our definition is too narrow.

All violent crime is a terrorising activity, including domestic violence. There is a clear difference between terrorising activity and terrorism. This was not the latter.

Genevieva · 03/11/2025 12:54

I think it is still a bit soon for any speculation. We were told yesterday that it was being treated as a terrorist incident, but then later we were told that it wasn't one. This is simply because we seem to define terrorism as having to have some sort of organised ideological foundation - political or religious. I am not sure that holds water. It was certainly a terrorising activity, which begs the question whether our definition is too narrow.

starofthecountydown · 03/11/2025 12:53

I don’t know how to vote. I think YABU to expect anyone with blatantly racist views to reflect on their words. I live in NI. We have peace. But the real views in some people’s heads which often make it onto the anonymous cesspool that is social media are very scary indeed. There are people out there who thrive on hatred. Pathetic Neanderthals who need to feel part of a gang to give their lives meaning. It could take generations to make a dent in that sort of ignorance.

FoxRedPuppy · 03/11/2025 12:52

Randomlygeneratedname · 03/11/2025 11:04

I didn't see the threads and I didn't partake in guessing anything about he attackers. Like the poster above, I can imagine what was said so there's no point finding the threads just to be offended.

I don't understand why this isn't an act of terror though. Why do the people have to be from a different place / certain religion for it to be terrorism. In my opinion an act of terror should something which makes people scared to live their normal lives. Getting on a train is as normal as it gets really and now people have to worry about mass stabbings. No idea what the answer is but I can almost guarantee, somewhere down the line, the internet is to blame.

@Randomlygeneratedname its because to be officially an act of terror there has to be an ideology behind it. Someone in a mental health crisis, or even an angry rampage isn’t terrorism in terms of the official definition.

That definition is important as it guides the types of resources and response, such as the threat level being increased

PinkCrab · 03/11/2025 12:52

Randomlygeneratedname · 03/11/2025 11:04

I didn't see the threads and I didn't partake in guessing anything about he attackers. Like the poster above, I can imagine what was said so there's no point finding the threads just to be offended.

I don't understand why this isn't an act of terror though. Why do the people have to be from a different place / certain religion for it to be terrorism. In my opinion an act of terror should something which makes people scared to live their normal lives. Getting on a train is as normal as it gets really and now people have to worry about mass stabbings. No idea what the answer is but I can almost guarantee, somewhere down the line, the internet is to blame.

The legal definition of terrorism requires the act (of which there are a fixed number of ‘acts’ for the purpose of this definition) to be for the purpose of advancing a political, religious, racial or ideological cause. You don’t have to be ‘from a different place or of a certain religion’. You can be from anywhere and be trying to advance any political, religious, racial or ideological cause. Until we have concrete evidence about the persons motivation for this attack, it cannot be considered to be terrorism. People being scared to live their normal lives is a consequence of terrorism, but you cannot use this to define whether an act is terrorism or not because it can’t be measured and different crimes and actions will affect everyone differently. Witnessing or being involved in any crime can change the way you live your life.

nixon1976 · 03/11/2025 12:50

Bagsintheboot · 03/11/2025 11:06

I actually think MNHQ really needs to get a handle on this and make sure their talk guidelines against misinformation, racism / general hate speech and enforced. Additionally the police asked for people not to speculate and yet MNHQ let multiple threads of speculation and the aforementioned misinformation etc stand.

I really don't know why this isn't being addressed. Was it because it's a weekend and it happened late at night, meaning less moderation? With a site as big as MN, it's really not acceptable to have such light-touch moderation and to rely solely on user reports.

There are still, today, a few posters going on about Islamic takeovers and power plots to get into govt and frankly it's disgraceful that MN haven't got hold of this.

I 100% agree. Appalling

Scandalicious · 03/11/2025 12:49

HRTQueen · 03/11/2025 11:05

Yes I was wrong I jumped to the conclusion that it was a terrorist attack when it was reported that two men randomly attacked people in a train

We are at risk from terrorist attacks such as these and the concern is very real. While I hold up my hands to say I was wrong, for myself it is not a right wing agenda that I am trying to push though I am sure some on here would like to accuse me of this

Well it’s not an unreasonable line of thought you had, because for two people to be involved suggests some kind of agenda or wider group. Any profiler would say the same.

Tundeira · 03/11/2025 12:48

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You forgot to consider the impact of social exclusion, including racial discrimination (Rudakabana). Rudakabana is autistic and obsessions are a common component of autism. Unfortunately his was violence. It is also possible that as first-generation immigrants his parents did not know how to get Rudakabana the help he needed. That’s difficult enough for people who’ve always lived here and have an extensive social network to advise them.

Blanketfull · 03/11/2025 12:47

I didn't post anything. When I heard two people had been arrested, my heart sank thinking it must be terror related and imagining the things that would be said about certain communities.

I had dinner with some friends last night and got a lot of "let me guess, I bet they were..."

They were disappointed to learn their prejudices were wrong. These are reasonably bright people, who I've liked and respected for a long time. Something has gone very badly wrong recently 😪

bittertwisted · 03/11/2025 12:44

Two things struck me about that post - a vocal Jewish Mumsnetter who has claimed on other threads she doesn’t hate Muslims….. openly convinced the attacker was a Muslim, accompanied by vile, racist comments about muslims

secondly the truly mindless football fans comments. As a Liverpool fan I’ve had that sort of bollocks all my life and it gave me the rage.

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 03/11/2025 12:43

PastaAllaNorma · 03/11/2025 12:23

That's something that will come up at trial, not initial reporting. Quite obviously, someone's mental health status is private unless it is part of their defence.

However, eye witnesses say he was shouting "kill me" to the police, which isn't exactly the hallmark of a balanced mind. Neither is stabbing 10 strangers.

Sure but the PP stated that ‘he was suffering delusions’ - sounded like they had read that somewhere. I was asking where they’d seen that. Unless they’re just speculating.
Which would be ironic.

Allmarbleslost · 03/11/2025 12:43

The racists have gone very quiet on my local Facebook pages after some disgusting comments after the event. I must have thankfully missed the comments you're referring to on here

Ablondiebutagoody · 03/11/2025 12:40

Given the way that the attack unfolded, I think that marauding terrorist attack seemed like a reasonable assumption. The emergency services felt the same.

But I don't understand the desire to attempt to fill in the blanks in such a rush on social media.

Tangwystl · 03/11/2025 12:37

The majority of them won’t reflect - to do so requires the ability to think and that seems to be a quality sadly lacking in many. Much easier to leap to conclusions, salivating and apportioning blame before any facts are known.
What a sad way to live life

PandoraSocks · 03/11/2025 12:30

saraclara · 03/11/2025 12:18

I appreciate that MNHQ doesn't want to be accused of preventing free speech, but those two threads were horrific. It horrified me that so many people were stirring up hatred to such an awful degree. The overt racism was horrible to see, and there should have been many, many deletions if Mumsnet police were to police their own rules.

I agree. Also, not once did MNHQ go onto the threads to calm things down. They should have.

AhWeNoss · 03/11/2025 12:27

localnotail · 03/11/2025 12:11

I'm still seeing a lot of crap on FB where people say its all Starmer and Khan's fault (somehow), calling for deportations and elections and spewing hatred and disinformation. These people are wither bots or so insane they can't read/ dont want to accept anything that does not support their grim world view. I doubt any of those will reflect on anything.

I actually think the majority of the worst posters across all social media are paid bots - either from far east, China or Russia working to destabilise our country.

Oh everything is Khan’s fault. A Muslim will maybe shoplift on the other side of the country and posters will still find a way to blame Khan.

Underthinker · 03/11/2025 12:27

I didn't speculate.
I thought it would either be terror or mental health related, both were reasonable possibilities. The fact that there were 2 arrests added some weight to the terrorism hypothesis.
It was never likely to be football fans though as the first few pages of that thread seemed to be pushing.

AhWeNoss · 03/11/2025 12:26

Those threads were absolutely awful and too many posters were proudly sharing their racist views and Muslim hate. Funny how the popularity of the threads died down once it turned out it wasn’t a Muslim migrant.

The stories that some posters came up with to justify their hate was crazy. Awful awful people.

PastaAllaNorma · 03/11/2025 12:23

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 03/11/2025 12:20

Has it been confirmed that he was suffering mental health issues? Where is that please, only seen the BBC latest saying he’s been charged but doesn’t mention motivation.

That's something that will come up at trial, not initial reporting. Quite obviously, someone's mental health status is private unless it is part of their defence.

However, eye witnesses say he was shouting "kill me" to the police, which isn't exactly the hallmark of a balanced mind. Neither is stabbing 10 strangers.

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 03/11/2025 12:20

Hoppinggreen · 03/11/2025 11:10

I am sure it was Terrifying but there is an actual definition of a Terror attack - it is designed to instill terror and this was just one very unwell individual suffering from delusions.
My sympathy is 100% with the victims of course and the perpetrator needs to be punished and kept somewhere he can't hurt anyone else (and treated appropriately) but it wasn't Terrorism

Has it been confirmed that he was suffering mental health issues? Where is that please, only seen the BBC latest saying he’s been charged but doesn’t mention motivation.

Vinorosso74 · 03/11/2025 12:19

It was disgusting. People sitting behind the anonymity of the internet spouting evil and toxic crap.
Drives me mad when people come up with theories and speculation like that too.
I posted yesterday morning that thoughts should be with the injured, their families and those on that train rather than speculating. Someone jumped on that saying I was trying to deflect. The thread was full by the time I saw that and a lot more information had been made public. Ridiculous.

saraclara · 03/11/2025 12:18

I appreciate that MNHQ doesn't want to be accused of preventing free speech, but those two threads were horrific. It horrified me that so many people were stirring up hatred to such an awful degree. The overt racism was horrible to see, and there should have been many, many deletions if Mumsnet police were to police their own rules.

IdaGlossop · 03/11/2025 12:18

isitmyturn · 03/11/2025 12:11

I didn't see any threads or SM but DH and I discussed it. We couldn't fathom out why two people would be running rampage if it wasn't a terrorist attack. One nut case, yes, easy to explain, but two together?
Obviously it wasn't two but we didn't know that and the police gave out wrong information.

I don't think the police did give out wrong information. A terrorist attack has to involve committing acts of violence in support of a cause. The police must therefore have ascertained that ghis attack didn't involve a cause.

Kbroughton · 03/11/2025 12:16

Randomlygeneratedname · 03/11/2025 11:04

I didn't see the threads and I didn't partake in guessing anything about he attackers. Like the poster above, I can imagine what was said so there's no point finding the threads just to be offended.

I don't understand why this isn't an act of terror though. Why do the people have to be from a different place / certain religion for it to be terrorism. In my opinion an act of terror should something which makes people scared to live their normal lives. Getting on a train is as normal as it gets really and now people have to worry about mass stabbings. No idea what the answer is but I can almost guarantee, somewhere down the line, the internet is to blame.

I have seen a lot of questions around this. Terrorism does not mean inciting terror. All violent events incite terror in one way or another. Terrorism definition (UK) is;

as the use or threat of one or more [of the] actions [listed below], and where they are designed to influence the government, or an international governmental organisation or to intimidate the public. The use or threat must also be for the purpose of advancing a political, religious, racial or ideological cause.

For more details: Terrorism | The Crown Prosecution Service

Terrorism | The Crown Prosecution Service

https://www.cps.gov.uk/types-crime/terrorism#:~:text=Learn%20how%20the%20%EE%80%80UK%EE%80%81%20%EE%80%80defines%EE%80%81%20%EE%80%80terrorism%EE%80%81,