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Anyone like to reconsider what they posted about the train attack on Saturday night?

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margegunderson · 03/11/2025 10:48

There were (to my mind) some horrific posts claiming that it MUST be a terrorist attack, demanding information on the attacker’s race and motivations NOW, shouting about Starmer censorship and picking fights with anyone suggesting it might not be cut and dried and to wait for more information. Hideously racist as well.
If that was you - any reflections today? What will you do if there’s a next time?

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Savemydrink · 03/11/2025 13:29

The current National Terror Threat Level in UK is set as SUBSTANTIAL.

This means that a terrorist event is likely.

Who do we expect this threat to come from?

I'm guessing its not the Catholics, or the Quakers, or the Jews, or sikhs

so, when the police and government hold back on details, it stands to reason that people will guess who the perpetrators are, and let’s face it, they are usually right.

Back in the 70’s during the troubles in Ireland. If a bomb went off, nobody ever said “oh I bet it was football hooligans” they universally said, probably IRA, and they would be right.

same thing these days, just a different gang.

HereAreYourOptions · 03/11/2025 13:26

margegunderson · 03/11/2025 13:16

Absolutely is not what I think. But why are people so quick to jump to judgement and believe there’s a conspiracy? Why immediately decide it must be something to do with asylum seekers or immigrants?
I don’t have the answers more than anyone else does. I agree there’s a worrying number of knife attacks now, and that’s a trend that needs some urgent investigation. And we could use a thoughtful national debate about some of these issues.
But thank you for engaging.

So what was the point of your post here? Did you really expect people who were spouting off on Saturday to come here and give us all their 'reflections'?

KimberleyClark · 03/11/2025 13:24

I don’t think anyone ever described the actions of Michael Ryan, Thomas Hamilton.or Raul Moat as terrorism. Then again, they were white.

Genevieva · 03/11/2025 13:20

margegunderson · 03/11/2025 13:16

Absolutely is not what I think. But why are people so quick to jump to judgement and believe there’s a conspiracy? Why immediately decide it must be something to do with asylum seekers or immigrants?
I don’t have the answers more than anyone else does. I agree there’s a worrying number of knife attacks now, and that’s a trend that needs some urgent investigation. And we could use a thoughtful national debate about some of these issues.
But thank you for engaging.

I think we need to look at knife attacks and drug use. Drugs seem to have been decriminalised with any parliamentary discussion, let alone act of parliament. Cannabis is too often described as a benign hippy love drug, when it can cause severe psychiatric health problems. Whether that is in anyway relevant to this case, I wouldn't like to speculate, but I can smell the cannabis in the streets in the nearest major city. There was even a man smoking a joint under and oak tree at the weekend. Harmless, yes, but indicative of how ubiquitous illegal drugs are.

margegunderson · 03/11/2025 13:16

HereAreYourOptions · 03/11/2025 11:43

Yes OP, you are so much better than those awful people. This post has definitely put them all in their place. Well done.

Absolutely is not what I think. But why are people so quick to jump to judgement and believe there’s a conspiracy? Why immediately decide it must be something to do with asylum seekers or immigrants?
I don’t have the answers more than anyone else does. I agree there’s a worrying number of knife attacks now, and that’s a trend that needs some urgent investigation. And we could use a thoughtful national debate about some of these issues.
But thank you for engaging.

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Genevieva · 03/11/2025 13:16

JHound · 03/11/2025 13:12

He did not have jihadi manuals. He had ONE Al Qaeda manual and also had information on the IRA. He seems to have been obsessed with violence in general not beholden to any one ideology. You are engaging in the same kind of misinformation referred to in OP.

Al Qaeda is a jihadi organisation. The IRA also produced unsavoury literature. I think we are agreeing with each other. He as obsessed with violence, not wedded to one ideology, so was allowed to slip through the net because of the narrow definitions used to deem whether he was of interest to a certain part of our state bureaucracy.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/11/2025 13:14

I had to stop reading the threads the other day because they were making me feel sick.

Sadly, none of the racists will reflect on how wrong they were, let alone apologise for their behaviour. Most of them are probably still in denial about the facts and thinking it's all part of some grand conspiracy/cover-up.

We need to stop thinking of these people as reasonable and rational human beings. They are fuelled by hatred and prejudice, and facts don't matter to them.

ChipDaleRescueRangers · 03/11/2025 13:12

They do it after every incident. They did it after Liverpool and again this weekend. They all go quiet when the truth comes out, or you get the complete racists/loonies that say the security services and police are lying about the perpetrator. I have seen that already that one of the witnesses worked for the security services when interviewed on sky news.

Its just horrific.

IdaGlossop · 03/11/2025 13:12

Netcurtainnelly · 03/11/2025 13:07

When you go round stabbing people on a train its definitely a terror attack.

No, it's not. Not everything that is terrifying is a terror attack. It is motive that defines a terror attack. Random violence doesn't count.

JHound · 03/11/2025 13:12

Genevieva · 03/11/2025 13:08

You may be right that it is that simple, but I still wonder whether we are missing something with regards to those who are a clear threat to public safety because of a likelihood that they will terrorise people. For example, the Southport murderer was deemed not to be a terrorism threat, despite jihadi manuals, because he had a variety of different literature from a variety of different unsavoury sources and wasn't ideologically committed to one of them. Consequently, he was able to slip through the net as not a terrorist threat, when he was clearly a terrorising threat. Even those who commit dreadful acts on behalf of terrorist organisations are often recruited because they are already susceptible in some way. There is a chicken and egg relationship between the two. There is no evidence that Valdo Calocane was ideologically linked to anything, yet despite a known psychiatric history, he had been allowed to get away with being in public without taking his medication. It should not take a triple murder for him to be prevented from terrorising the public with knives. Yesterday's attacker apparently stabbed someone in the face on the DLR on Friday, but was free to terrorise again.

He did not have jihadi manuals. He had ONE Al Qaeda manual and also had information on the IRA. He seems to have been obsessed with violence in general not beholden to any one ideology. You are engaging in the same kind of misinformation referred to in OP.

Vinorosso74 · 03/11/2025 13:11

DurhamDurham · 03/11/2025 12:01

The whole thread was full of rubbish. The op who took it upon herself to blame “shitty Newcastle fans” who are apparently known for this type of behaviour should apologise.

It’s not ok to blame any community/individual without the facts and that includes Football fans.

Yes! I'm a Geordie and Newcastle supporter who lives in London (I don't go to matches now) so I am slightly biased in that Newcastle fans are not shitty but it was the most ludicrous comment.
Oh, it was in response to me they made that comment. Ridiculous.

bookworm14 · 03/11/2025 13:11

Netcurtainnelly · 03/11/2025 13:07

When you go round stabbing people on a train its definitely a terror attack.

No it isn’t, unless you’re doing it in the service of a political or religious ideology. Terrorism doesn’t simply mean ‘causing terror’.

Dandeliontea123 · 03/11/2025 13:10

I didn’t post anything. I waited for the police update on TV and I came off social media because so many people were acting as judge and jury and using this as an excuse to be racist towards a range of minorities.

JHound · 03/11/2025 13:10

Randomlygeneratedname · 03/11/2025 11:04

I didn't see the threads and I didn't partake in guessing anything about he attackers. Like the poster above, I can imagine what was said so there's no point finding the threads just to be offended.

I don't understand why this isn't an act of terror though. Why do the people have to be from a different place / certain religion for it to be terrorism. In my opinion an act of terror should something which makes people scared to live their normal lives. Getting on a train is as normal as it gets really and now people have to worry about mass stabbings. No idea what the answer is but I can almost guarantee, somewhere down the line, the internet is to blame.

Did you view the Plymouth shooting as an act of terror? Or the man in Liverpool who drove his car into pedestrians or all the US school shootings?

The reality is in order for something to be a terror incident it needs to fit specific criteria (a main one that it is in service of a political ideology.)

Some loon on a train who wanted suicide by cop does not really fit that definition.

I agree people knee jerk put everything into the terror bucket if the individual is of a certain national origin / race but that does not mean the official definition of a terror incident should change.

Genevieva · 03/11/2025 13:08

PandoraSocks · 03/11/2025 12:57

All violent crime is a terrorising activity, including domestic violence. There is a clear difference between terrorising activity and terrorism. This was not the latter.

You may be right that it is that simple, but I still wonder whether we are missing something with regards to those who are a clear threat to public safety because of a likelihood that they will terrorise people. For example, the Southport murderer was deemed not to be a terrorism threat, despite jihadi manuals, because he had a variety of different literature from a variety of different unsavoury sources and wasn't ideologically committed to one of them. Consequently, he was able to slip through the net as not a terrorist threat, when he was clearly a terrorising threat. Even those who commit dreadful acts on behalf of terrorist organisations are often recruited because they are already susceptible in some way. There is a chicken and egg relationship between the two. There is no evidence that Valdo Calocane was ideologically linked to anything, yet despite a known psychiatric history, he had been allowed to get away with being in public without taking his medication. It should not take a triple murder for him to be prevented from terrorising the public with knives. Yesterday's attacker apparently stabbed someone in the face on the DLR on Friday, but was free to terrorise again.

Libellousness · 03/11/2025 13:08

Lilactimes · 03/11/2025 13:02

@Libellousness - just a quick Google if massive stabbing attacks brings up many including April 24 Marcus Monzo who killed a young black child, but was in fact white.

Colour has nothing to do with it and it is WRONG to mention this and is not a common denominator.
The definition of terrorism has been laid out by others which was interesting - or it’s a case of evil versus mental health issues.

Mentioning colour is racist.
XY chromosome seems to be the main link from what I can see of all these attacks.

He was white but not British.

Netcurtainnelly · 03/11/2025 13:07

When you go round stabbing people on a train its definitely a terror attack.

isitmyturn · 03/11/2025 13:04

IdaGlossop · 03/11/2025 12:18

I don't think the police did give out wrong information. A terrorist attack has to involve committing acts of violence in support of a cause. The police must therefore have ascertained that ghis attack didn't involve a cause.

The police arrested two people though one turned out to be an innocent bystander. So it's true they didn't technically give out wrong information.

It was the fact that the reports were of two people arrested that made me wonder how it could not be terrorism. One person - lots of possibilities from mental health to domestic violence.
Two people - suggests some level of planning or organisation.

Lilactimes · 03/11/2025 13:04

Lilactimes · 03/11/2025 13:02

@Libellousness - just a quick Google if massive stabbing attacks brings up many including April 24 Marcus Monzo who killed a young black child, but was in fact white.

Colour has nothing to do with it and it is WRONG to mention this and is not a common denominator.
The definition of terrorism has been laid out by others which was interesting - or it’s a case of evil versus mental health issues.

Mentioning colour is racist.
XY chromosome seems to be the main link from what I can see of all these attacks.

Ok - have just seen the comment I was referring to has been deleted as racist. Good.

JHound · 03/11/2025 13:03

margegunderson · 03/11/2025 10:48

There were (to my mind) some horrific posts claiming that it MUST be a terrorist attack, demanding information on the attacker’s race and motivations NOW, shouting about Starmer censorship and picking fights with anyone suggesting it might not be cut and dried and to wait for more information. Hideously racist as well.
If that was you - any reflections today? What will you do if there’s a next time?

Some MNers were very strident that it was two asylum seekers that did it and it was a terror atrocity.

I wonder if they are still stridently insisting that’s the case?

hairbearbunches · 03/11/2025 13:03

localnotail · 03/11/2025 12:12

If you read the news they did say eye witnesses referred to one person. The other guy got arrested because he probably was travelling with the nutter/ sitting next to him.

I think the other guy got arrested simply because he was black too. Which is not a good look for the police.

IdaGlossop · 03/11/2025 13:02

Tundeira · 03/11/2025 12:48

You forgot to consider the impact of social exclusion, including racial discrimination (Rudakabana). Rudakabana is autistic and obsessions are a common component of autism. Unfortunately his was violence. It is also possible that as first-generation immigrants his parents did not know how to get Rudakabana the help he needed. That’s difficult enough for people who’ve always lived here and have an extensive social network to advise them.

The head teacher of Rudakabana's school has said she was asked by social workers when he transferred to her school to modify her notes about him. She had said she had never met a pupil so preoccupied with violence. The social workers were unhappy about a black boy being stereotyped. This sounds like the same dynamic as the one at work in rape gangs, and an unintended consequence of multiculturalism.

Lilactimes · 03/11/2025 13:02

Tundeira · 03/11/2025 12:48

You forgot to consider the impact of social exclusion, including racial discrimination (Rudakabana). Rudakabana is autistic and obsessions are a common component of autism. Unfortunately his was violence. It is also possible that as first-generation immigrants his parents did not know how to get Rudakabana the help he needed. That’s difficult enough for people who’ve always lived here and have an extensive social network to advise them.

@Libellousness - just a quick Google if massive stabbing attacks brings up many including April 24 Marcus Monzo who killed a young black child, but was in fact white.

Colour has nothing to do with it and it is WRONG to mention this and is not a common denominator.
The definition of terrorism has been laid out by others which was interesting - or it’s a case of evil versus mental health issues.

Mentioning colour is racist.
XY chromosome seems to be the main link from what I can see of all these attacks.

HostaCentral · 03/11/2025 13:00

I didn't see the posts, so this is my first comment.

I don't think you can blame people for considering a terrorist attack. The incident was attended by terror police, and they were involved until such time as it was clear, and they have now declared it not to be.

So, it's the default with our front line too, in this sort of incident, to look at all possibilities.

bittertwisted · 03/11/2025 12:58

Tundeira · 03/11/2025 12:48

You forgot to consider the impact of social exclusion, including racial discrimination (Rudakabana). Rudakabana is autistic and obsessions are a common component of autism. Unfortunately his was violence. It is also possible that as first-generation immigrants his parents did not know how to get Rudakabana the help he needed. That’s difficult enough for people who’ve always lived here and have an extensive social network to advise them.

Exactly, I’ve faced this battle when my DS was little, it’s brutal and incredibly complex
add in the potential for parents for whom English may be a second language., lack of any adequate services for child mental health support in this country, and some perceived shame around men admitting to mental health issues