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To think it’s a bit unreasonable that children have to have fruit for school snack.

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MyLittleLove1 · 03/11/2025 07:27

DD’s school have sent a reminder that parents must send their children to school with a fruit snack for morning break. They will not be allowed to have anything else. This is to encourage healthy eating. I do understand this, but my daughter has breakfast at 7 as she is starving when she wakes up, and feel that a piece of fruit isn’t really that substantial for a snack. She would normally have fruit and a snack like some malt loaf. I feel a little against this also because there is so much to having a healthy diet. Many foods are healthy and make a great, filling snack. Why are we being policed on this? Or am I BU?

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ContentedAlpaca · 03/11/2025 09:12

Fruit is a rubbish snack. It's just sugar plus a bit of fibre and will spike their blood sugar leaving them more hungry after. A protein snack would be much better.
What does she have for breakfast? I would try to incorporate more protein into that in the hope it sustained her for longer.

People talk about feeling hunger being healthy but I recall walking home for lunch and feeling so weak with hunger that I could have cried.

TheCurious0range · 03/11/2025 09:10

DS' school insists on fruit and provides it i think it's great. Could she have something different for breakfast if she's getting hungry so quickly? DS had a big bowl of porridge this morning with some almond butter stirred in, dollop of greek yoghurt on top with slices of peach. He eats a bigger breakfast than I do.

As an aside until this term DS' school didn't allow packed lunches for infants, the school dinners are free and good, always a meat/fish and a veggie choice plus something simple like pasta with tomato based sauce or jacket with cheese and beans as well as sandwich and wrap options plus a salad bar.

So many parents complained they've now allowed packed lunches and we're already getting letters reminding parents that a mars bar isn't a healthy snack (and similar)
This is a state school with just under 40% pupil premium students it has a very mixed demographic due to a large catchment area, so you'd think it would be good for some of the families to have a free healthy lunch option. What I find interesting is it's largely the families from the more expensive part of town still using the free lunches.

Kirbert2 · 03/11/2025 09:09

Katemax82 · 03/11/2025 08:44

To everyone thinking it's ott giving kids snacks often they obviously don't have kids with anorexia or autism with severe food issues. My son is like a skeleton despite me constantly giving him snacks and trying to get him to eat. If his school added restrictions I'd have to remove him. Also my daughter has to be made to eat snacks as she would happily starve herself. The eating disorder service drum into her that there are no bad foods, just foods that are not as healthy as others but she should still have " treat" foods every day

Edited

Yep.

My son is under a dietician due to his limited diet and snacks are essential for him.

ButtonMushrooms · 03/11/2025 09:06

SoSoLong · 03/11/2025 07:59

An apple is what, about 30p? A banana is less. You wouldn't be able to buy a packet of crisps or small bar of chocolate for that. Unless the snack is one digestive, that would be cheaper.

Say you have three kids. An apple a day for each of them would be £4.50 per week. Or you could buy 2 packs of biscuits for less than £1 and share them out over the week.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 03/11/2025 09:06

childofthe607080s · 03/11/2025 09:01

Fruit sugars are fine for kids inside whole fruit for some reason

It’s the fibre in whole fruit that slows down absorption of sugar. Obviously it varies so a firm banana is starchy and fibrous will release sugar slower ghan a really ripe one.

Ficklebricks · 03/11/2025 09:06

Our school says the same thing but then they provide toast, crumpets or ice lollies in hot weather for a small fee at breaktime. So clearly they aren't that bothered about it being fruit!

Doingtheboxerbeat · 03/11/2025 09:05

BufferingAgain · 03/11/2025 08:58

We seem to have half the adults in country having to take injections to put limits on themselves. I blame the UPF manufacturers for this. Having a few healthy limits as a kid doesn’t seem like such a bad thing. I’m sure they would count things like carrots sticks and red peppers if you wanted to stick a few of them in too?

This thread is depressing and I can see why we are the way we are. If we can't start the good habits at this young age, then we don't stand a chance.

TomatoSandwiches · 03/11/2025 09:04

We only ever had a carton of room temp milk in primary, tuck shop full of shite at middle and secondary!

Op, what is your DD having for breakfast? She really shouldn't be feeling ravenous before lunch.

childofthe607080s · 03/11/2025 09:01

Fruit sugars are fine for kids inside whole fruit for some reason

Femalemachinest · 03/11/2025 09:01

Whyherewego · 03/11/2025 07:38

My DS won't touch fruit either. No SEN or autism. Cannot stand fleshy seeded stuff including tomatoes.
He will eat any and all veg at 18 and is 6ft tall and well built! So it's done him no harm.
Healthy snack of course that's a good rule. Insisting it has to be fruit specifically. Nope

I was going to say the same thing. Im not a fruit person, never had been. But I was the child that got excited when I saw we had sprouts. I love veg.

BufferingAgain · 03/11/2025 08:58

We seem to have half the adults in country having to take injections to put limits on themselves. I blame the UPF manufacturers for this. Having a few healthy limits as a kid doesn’t seem like such a bad thing. I’m sure they would count things like carrots sticks and red peppers if you wanted to stick a few of them in too?

ToffeePennie · 03/11/2025 08:57

Katemax82 · 03/11/2025 08:42

If this was my kids school I'd remove them!

Trust me, the militant snacks are not the reason I am trying to remove them!

Zanatdy · 03/11/2025 08:54

Give her a bigger breakfast or snack on way. Makes sense to keep it to fruit.

froth567 · 03/11/2025 08:54

Malt loaf is basically cake though - if you look at Soreen the second ingredient is sugar. Why would you give cake everyday as a snack?

Girasoli · 03/11/2025 08:53

Our school let you give fruit, veg, or crackers. I quite often give the DC a packet of mini breadsticks. They usually have breakfast around 6.30 at home, then go to breakfast club but don't always eat again.

I'd pack her a really big banana I your shoes.

Nearly50omg · 03/11/2025 08:53

Fruit is mainly sugar and so is malt loaf so would suggest finding an alternative

Slightyamusedandsilly · 03/11/2025 08:52

HardyWeinbergEquation · 03/11/2025 07:28

Give her a snack to eat on the way to school?

This. Breakfast at 7. The stodgy snack in the car just before going into school. Banana for breaktime.

That should be plenty for any person, child or adult until 12.30ish.

Tdcp · 03/11/2025 08:51

Our primary has had a 10am fruit snack for years though this year they have implemented a quarter of a bagel for kids that can't bring in fruit. It's never been an issue for us but I can see why it would be for some.

childofthe607080s · 03/11/2025 08:50

people don’t need to eat every 2hrs - it may be different with someone who has an eating disorder in which case you can talk to the school

sugars will surge and drop rapidly with poor diet however so be a little careful with breakfast

caringcarer · 03/11/2025 08:50

Give her a bigger breakfast. Include some protein such as an egg. Give her a protein flapjack bar to eat on way to school. Large banana for school snack at break time.

childofthe607080s · 03/11/2025 08:49

A banana is a filling and healthy snack

we never had snacks at school until 6th form when a tuck shop was installled

malt loaf is high in salt and sugar and seems to be a UPF so not healthy

if you cut the UPF from her diet she may find she gets less starving

although I was always hungry I somehow survived and thrived

Katemax82 · 03/11/2025 08:48

Peridoteage · 03/11/2025 08:42

My daughters eating disorder therapist said you need a snack after 2 hours to keep your blood sugar levels from dropping too much

Is that a medical doctor? Because honestly a child's blood sugar levels shouldn't drop to unhealthy levels that fast if you are eating properly. My daughter's under an endocrinologist for a growth related condition and we've never been told to have snacks constantly.

The eating disorder service is part of East Kent hospitals. The staff are fully qualified

pinkstripeycat · 03/11/2025 08:48

curious79 · 03/11/2025 07:31

She doesn’t even need a snack - it’s good to let kids learn feelings of hunger

franky having a piece of fruit is fantastic and something I wish my kids’ schools had enforced

I agree. When I was a child we never had snacks at all.
When my kids were little (and they’re only 18 & 19 now) also didn’t have snacks at school. It was breakfast, lunch (depending on the year group was as early as 11.30am) and then wait until 4.30pm for evening meal. They’d be really hungry then. They would sometimes save something from their packed lunch for afternoon break but that was their decision.

BallerinaRadio · 03/11/2025 08:48

Katemax82 · 03/11/2025 08:42

If this was my kids school I'd remove them!

Because they're only allowed fruit as a snack? That is mental.

ToffeePennie · 03/11/2025 08:48

moorishmangoes · 03/11/2025 08:28

Is this for real? If so, it’s absolutely bonkers!

Absolutely. It’s the primary school. Since they won the eco award they have implemented an “easy to follow regime that allows us to have the best impact on our environment and our bodies” according to the leaflet we got.
Basically because banana skins rot away, along with apple cores, there’s no plastic so the waste can be put into the schools compost heap. The berries and grapes are harder, but we have been asked to put them in recyclable cardboard containers and same for cucumbers….its mental. The wrappers of the granola bars are cardboard type ones too, so it’s all recyclable and part of the schools eco ethos…

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