so me and my freind have been freinds for about 4 years she started dating somebody a couple of years ago only once have me and my freind met up without her gf being present ive always let it go because i dont like confrontation and i knew it would only open a can of worms if i said anything but over the last few weeks its got worse if my freinds gf has something planned with a freind of hers or family member me and my freind will arrange something her gf will then cancel her plans and come with us so last thursday i spoke to her about it saying me and my freind should be able to make plans without her always being there at first said we were all freinds and thats why she always wanted to go with us i said no sorry im freinds with your gf weve been freinds since before you started dating your gf should be able to spend time with her freinds without her gf always having to be there she accused me of picking on her then accused me of bad mouthing her freinds which wasnt true its her thats being doing that saying that theres a couple shes freind with who dont make a good couple she makes fun of the way one of them walks behind her back etc but shes went back and told her freinds its been me thats doing this then today she played victim on the bus i heard them both on bus didnt speak to each other but she tried to make out she was scared to walk past me when getting off as if i would have done something to her although i didnt even look at them i only knew they were on bus because i heard theyre voices ive never been violant shes never saw me being violant even we we argued i didnt verbally abuse her or threaten her