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Cost of living or prioritising the wrong things 🤔

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Sbrown32 · 02/11/2025 15:46

Firstly, this is not to offend anyone, I just find it a interesting debate that I recently came across and wanted to know others opinions on this.

Is it the cost of living or are we prioritising the wrong things?

When I came across this, the woman who was discussing this topic had some really good points (in my opinion), back in the day, we prioritised differently, we didn't have a takeaway each week (guilty of this myself tbh), food deliveries on our phone, we didn't grab a coffee on the way to work every morning, family trips out to the cinema or nights out used to be a treat not a given etc

I am pregnant with my first, and looking at ways we can cut down on spending whilst I am on MAT leave, when I really looked into my spending habits I have realised that I do a lot of these myself, I get a coffee each morning usually with a breakfast meal deal of some sort, we have a takeaway each week and we spend a lot on going out, date nights, cinema trips and going to nice places to eat etc.

I haven't decided myself if I fully agree with this or not yet so please be respectful.

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SapphireOpal · 02/11/2025 15:49

I think it's a bit of both tbh.

Some people do whinge about the cost of living while dropping money on takeaways, coffees etc. However lots of people are genuinely struggling to afford to eat.

Comedycook · 02/11/2025 15:49

I don't really do those things. Can't remember the last time I bought a takeaway coffee. But even if we did, we live in a developed country in 2025.... Buying a hot drink shouldn't be beyond reach.