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Why do people put their Xmas trees etc up now then take them down Boxing Day

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Beon · 01/11/2025 12:17

If they say that they are sick n tired of the sight of them or find it difficult to clean around them.

Don’t put the tree up early then!

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Flyingintotheunknown · 01/11/2025 19:34

stargirl1701 · 01/11/2025 19:26

It is bizarre. They don’t do Easter Egg hunts in February which is analogous.

Ours goes up on Christmas Eve and comes down at Epiphany. It is traditional to keep it up until Candlemas in February.

Don’t go giving people any ideas 😂
Shops are already displaying Easter eggs on shelves as soon as Christmas is over these days

steff13 · 01/11/2025 19:33

It is bizarre. They don’t do Easter Egg hunts in February which is analogous.

Doing an Easter Egg hunt is analogous to opening Christmas gifts. Which most people don't do until Christmas, regardless of how early they decorate.

TheZanyZebra · 01/11/2025 19:29

LindorDoubleChoc · 01/11/2025 19:21

And then your children stop wanting to do panto and Father Christmas or even spend Christmas with you. Perhaps at that stage people adjust from making it all one long child-centred hype.

we had a life before having children, we'll just have the same life back once they grow up. But it's true, before children, December was just one big party after another 😂

Christmas illuminations, Christmas lights, Christmas markets, December city breaks, it really doesn't need to be child-centred, it's just more difficult to do when you have kids and frankly should have priority.

It was also easier to get rid of the tree on Boxing Day before children

stargirl1701 · 01/11/2025 19:26

It is bizarre. They don’t do Easter Egg hunts in February which is analogous.

Ours goes up on Christmas Eve and comes down at Epiphany. It is traditional to keep it up until Candlemas in February.

LindorDoubleChoc · 01/11/2025 19:21

TheZanyZebra · 01/11/2025 18:06

It really wouldn't. Every country doesn't celebrate "boxing day" for a start, so most people don't even know about it.

Christmas is one day. Most of us still have a full month of "Christmas related " events, Christmas do, kids many many Christmas parties, the nativity, Panto, the Grotto, Christmas lights... leading on to Christmas.

Then we have a big party for Christmas Eve, then Christmas Day. When that's done, time to move on, we've done Christmas 😂

Even if traditionally it lasts longer, most people go back to work, kids go back to school, and it would feel weird for many of us to still have the old Christmas decorations. Time to move on!

And then your children stop wanting to do panto and Father Christmas or even spend Christmas with you. Perhaps at that stage people adjust from making it all one long child-centred hype.

LindorDoubleChoc · 01/11/2025 19:15

Hotpolishcloth · 01/11/2025 15:53

We put it up about the 14th December and take it down on 28th/29th. Christmas, for me, is done then. I honestly couldn't imagine having a Christmas tree up for 2 months.

But if you took it down on 6th January (traditional date) it would have only been up for 3 weeks.

TheZanyZebra · 01/11/2025 18:06

youalright · 01/11/2025 17:12

Im just surprised how many people aren't celebrating Christmas still on boxing day. It would be like going on holiday to Spain packing your suitcase 2 months in advanced posting about it all over social media repeatedly telling everyone how excited you are about your holiday and then catching a flight home the next day or worse the evening you've arrived.

It really wouldn't. Every country doesn't celebrate "boxing day" for a start, so most people don't even know about it.

Christmas is one day. Most of us still have a full month of "Christmas related " events, Christmas do, kids many many Christmas parties, the nativity, Panto, the Grotto, Christmas lights... leading on to Christmas.

Then we have a big party for Christmas Eve, then Christmas Day. When that's done, time to move on, we've done Christmas 😂

Even if traditionally it lasts longer, most people go back to work, kids go back to school, and it would feel weird for many of us to still have the old Christmas decorations. Time to move on!

KnickerlessParsons · 01/11/2025 17:39

The 12 days of Christmas are after Christmas, not before. And certainly not in November.

x2boys · 01/11/2025 17:25

youalright · 01/11/2025 17:12

Im just surprised how many people aren't celebrating Christmas still on boxing day. It would be like going on holiday to Spain packing your suitcase 2 months in advanced posting about it all over social media repeatedly telling everyone how excited you are about your holiday and then catching a flight home the next day or worse the evening you've arrived.

We always used to have a big Xmas party at my paternal grandparents on Boxing day when I was a kid
It's a bit different now because it's my oldest sons birthday, but it's still part of the Xmas period!

Flyingintotheunknown · 01/11/2025 17:21

youalright · 01/11/2025 17:12

Im just surprised how many people aren't celebrating Christmas still on boxing day. It would be like going on holiday to Spain packing your suitcase 2 months in advanced posting about it all over social media repeatedly telling everyone how excited you are about your holiday and then catching a flight home the next day or worse the evening you've arrived.

We try to celebrate Boxing Day like a 2nd Xmas day. However, for some reason it just never feels quite the same as Xmas day. It feels a bit like an anticlimax, slightly depressing and the build up has gone with adverts on the telly advertising January sales rather than Xmas stuff. The whole market just seems to want to rush everyone along to the next thing straight away. But yes we do celebrate Boxing Day, we don’t class Xmas as being ‘over’ and we just make the most of it.

youalright · 01/11/2025 17:12

Im just surprised how many people aren't celebrating Christmas still on boxing day. It would be like going on holiday to Spain packing your suitcase 2 months in advanced posting about it all over social media repeatedly telling everyone how excited you are about your holiday and then catching a flight home the next day or worse the evening you've arrived.

Abracadabra12345 · 01/11/2025 16:41

I love autumn too much to hijack it. Autumn is squeezed out early enough as it is

I also love Christmas but not until December

BarbaraKirksKaftan · 01/11/2025 15:54

I won’t put my tree up till the last weekend in November. Once Xmas day is over I’m done with Christmas and I would feel the same way if the tree had been up 4 weeks or 4 days.

Hotpolishcloth · 01/11/2025 15:53

We put it up about the 14th December and take it down on 28th/29th. Christmas, for me, is done then. I honestly couldn't imagine having a Christmas tree up for 2 months.

LittleMyLabyrinth · 01/11/2025 15:51

We put up our tree a few days before Xmas Eve (so there isn't the stress of putting it up at the last minute) and leave it up until Candlemas (yes that is 2nd February!). November is for Hallowtide, Bonfire Night, and Thanksgiving. First part of December is for Advent/Christmas preparations. Second half of December and January is for all the merry Christmas vibes, mostly in the 12 Days and then a lesser version until Old 12th Night, then it tapers off even more until Candlemas. Feel free to think we're mad but it makes January jolly and not depressing 🤷‍♀️

Makemydaypunk · 01/11/2025 15:48

Personally I do find it slightly irritating when people post on facebook after they’ve put their tree up the day after Halloween then post again on Boxing Day saying they’ve taken it down because they were sick of the sight of it. Then the following year they do it again. If they want to decorate their house early fair enough but why post on facebook about it then tell everyone they are sick of the sight of it by Boxing Day? It does come across as a bit pathetic and attention seeking.

Agree, it’s the same on here every year, who can be the first to start a thread saying they have taken their decorations down by 11.59pm on Christmas Day, it’s weirdly become quite the competition on who has done it first 🥇

FellowSuffereroftheAbsurd · 01/11/2025 15:46

I can see if people are actively complaining about something like that, which they actively chose, why people would question that and find it annoying.

I find some do that, and can be loud about it, while many others are just coming up with a reason when being asked why they do things that others view as different. I imagine some of the latter may become the former if they get fed up with being asked, others I find just avoid the topic.

I can't recall when my parents took their tree down or when it went up, though my mother did a lot of advent and Christmas traditions, largely blurring them all together. I do recall my maternal grandparents, who were very devout Christians, never put up a tree. They had a decorative tree statuette that went up on the stand the TV was in and that was it for decorations - presents were passed out from their chairs. I always thought it was because of my grandmother's disability and preferring peace/clear space - but never really thought to ask, never thought it was my business really. I loved that little statue probably the most in that time.

I do dislike cutting Hallowtide short - it doesn't end until after the evening on the 2nd of November - and would really prefer if Christmas would at least wait until at least after Remembrance Day or even better the start of Advent, but I know it makes some happy to move straight from Halloween to Christmas and as long as they don't expect of it me, more power to them.

TheZanyZebra · 01/11/2025 15:41

ChocolateCinderToffee · 01/11/2025 15:30

Where did I suggest that people can't take their decorations down when they want? I said Christmas isn't over on Boxing Day.

Why are you keen to start an argument? Go and troll someone else, dear.

of course Christmas is over on Boxing Day. That's the whole point.
Celebrate until Easter if you like, no one is stopping you, but don't tell people they must keep on with Christmas once the day has past.

Differentforgirls · 01/11/2025 15:41

TheZanyZebra · 01/11/2025 15:23

I always get rid of my tree and decorations on boxing day, even if it's only been there for 3 days, so bit of a waste, might as well put it early.

I can't understand the point of Christmas decorations after Christmas, how does that affect you?

I can't put the tree up until December though, or it will be completely dead by Christmas 😂

Poor tree.

Seymour5 · 01/11/2025 15:36

I grew up in Scotland, 1950s. As well as Christmas the Festive Season meant parties and get togethers over the New Year. The sparkle of a Christmas tree and decorations felt part of it. No one ever put their trees up before mid December, and they were taken down early January. That's sort of stuck with me.

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 15:33

ChocolateCinderToffee · 01/11/2025 15:30

Where did I suggest that people can't take their decorations down when they want? I said Christmas isn't over on Boxing Day.

Why are you keen to start an argument? Go and troll someone else, dear.

For our family we consider the Christmas holiday over on Boxing Day - it’s back to work time for many.

Flyingintotheunknown · 01/11/2025 15:32

ChocolateCinderToffee · 01/11/2025 15:30

Where did I suggest that people can't take their decorations down when they want? I said Christmas isn't over on Boxing Day.

Why are you keen to start an argument? Go and troll someone else, dear.

Same poster has just tried to start an argument with me too. Some people are just argumentative and come on MN purely to start arguments.

Differentforgirls · 01/11/2025 15:32

I put mine up 12 days before (13th D) and take it down 12 days after (6th J). No idea why. Probably because my mum did it that way.

Flyingintotheunknown · 01/11/2025 15:31

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 15:28

Doesn’t mean you have to believe it to enjoy parties, presents, family time, lots of food and drinks. That’s what Christmas means to our family.

And that’s not what I’ve said. I was saying that the whole meaning of Christmas has been taken away from it and now it’s all commercialised. Yet go back to the 80s and it was completely different.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 01/11/2025 15:30

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 14:15

Do you not accept that some people want to take their Christmas decorations down earlier than you? Neither is right or wrong.

Where did I suggest that people can't take their decorations down when they want? I said Christmas isn't over on Boxing Day.

Why are you keen to start an argument? Go and troll someone else, dear.

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