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Why do people put their Xmas trees etc up now then take them down Boxing Day

414 replies

Beon · 01/11/2025 12:17

If they say that they are sick n tired of the sight of them or find it difficult to clean around them.

Don’t put the tree up early then!

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Pancakeflipper · 01/11/2025 14:45

Irrationally makes me roll my eyes.
I have images of people dusting their baubles.

We have a real tree, get it early Dec and have it outside until about 12 days before Christmas. Comes down New Year.

user65342 · 01/11/2025 14:45

I personally put my tree up and take it down earlier than most people because I want to. I love the run-up to Christmas but once the day is over it’s done.

RealReginaPhalange · 01/11/2025 14:44

I take mine down on the 27th or 29th usually

QuietLifeNoDrama · 01/11/2025 14:42

It’s because the run up to to Christmas is the most exciting bit. All the magic and anticipation is created in the build up to the day. People want to prolong that feeling so they put it up early. Very few people are excited about their tree on 28th December (arbitrary date) but any date prior to Christmas is still filled with excitement.

cottonwoolie · 01/11/2025 14:41

We celebrate that’s partying time

I love parties but think they benefit from decorations. We usually go to a neighbours NYE party & it would be weird to me for the tree etc to not be there.

MondeoFan · 01/11/2025 14:40

Mine goes up mid December (14/15/16 then comes down on 1st Jan as I like everything to be clean and clutter free ready for my daughters birthday on 4th Jan

cottonwoolie · 01/11/2025 14:38

We celebrate the Christmas period from Sinterklaas to Boxing Day.

Now that is a different tradition, I love the shoe stockings!

ChocolateCinderToffee · 01/11/2025 14:38

I feel that the anticipation is what makes Christmas special. That's why Christmas Eve is my favourite time and has been since I was quite small. If you start too soon, by the time it gets there, you're jaded.

PracticalPixie · 01/11/2025 14:37

I think this has only started because most people now have fake trees. We have always had a real tree so usually put it up in mid-December.

However, last year my allergies were so bad I ended up getting rid of the real tree before Christmas and getting a fake one! Think I'll still put it up halfway through December though. Couldn't care less what other people do with their Christmas trees though, so i voted YABU!

I am so excited for Christmas and despite not putting up any decorations yet, I am definitely going to be doing some Christmassy things soon.

Sideorderofchips · 01/11/2025 14:37

Because they want to? What difference does this make to you?

Gingernessy · 01/11/2025 14:36

Beon · 01/11/2025 12:17

If they say that they are sick n tired of the sight of them or find it difficult to clean around them.

Don’t put the tree up early then!

For some people the run up is the fun bit and the day itself.
Once it gets to Boxing day its over and done with especially for those who are back to work

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 14:36

Annoyeddd · 01/11/2025 14:24

But you celebrate Christmas 🤔. Advent is the preparation for Christmas, lent is the preparation for the down of good Friday followed by the up of Easter and presume Eid is the natural follow on from Ramadan.

We put our decorations up once school holidays finish - most come down on 12th night and a few things are left until Candlemas.

We celebrate that’s partying time🥂🎁🥳🎉

WeeGeeBored · 01/11/2025 14:35

Because it cheers them up. And we all need cheering up right now, don’t we?

FreyjaOfTheNorth · 01/11/2025 14:35

Newsflash! Some people do things differently. You don’t necessarily have to agree with them, just accept that we all do things our own way.

topcat2014 · 01/11/2025 14:34

youalright · 01/11/2025 12:26

I don't know but it irrationally pisses me of to.

Perfectly rational

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 01/11/2025 14:33

cramptramp · 01/11/2025 12:25

Obviously they can do it when they want but I always feel sorry for the children of parents who do this. One of my favourite memories of childhood Christmas was the excitement when the tree went up the week before, because it meant Christmas Day was nearly here. I loved getting up on dark mornings and going downstairs to see the twinkling lights. That excitement is lost for children when the tree goes up too early. I also think that for a lot of parents it’s so they can put it on SM.

No, when I was a child (and until I was precisely 27), I was excited about Christmas from September and couldn't wait to put up the decorations (my job from being very young because I insisted!). I loved them and felt really sad when I had to put them away....I'd put them away really carefully, thinking about how excited I'd be to see them the following year.

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 14:32

Seawolves · 01/11/2025 14:28

You can feel sorry for my child but not because the tree is going up early, it's going up because we have been told that this is likely to be his last Christmas. He's 5. We have been told to do the things we want to do with him in the next six months because after that he's unlikely to have the strength to enjoy them. I am sure people will drive past the house, see the tree up and make judgements but what they won't know is that inside our house is a child on borrowed time.

I hope you give your special little boy an amazing Christmas celebration and make it last as many days as can.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 01/11/2025 14:32

I totally agree. It’s nuts.

ThankYouNigel · 01/11/2025 14:32

I agree in the sense I prefer to have ours up longer after so our children can enjoy it for the whole Xmas hols (we host over NY too). So we put ours up first week of Dec then take it down end of Xmas hols. If I got sick of it I’d rather put it up mid-Dec/closer to Xmas and still have it up longer after. Doesn’t bother me what others do though.

cottonwoolie · 01/11/2025 14:32

@Parker231 I wouldn't class them as different traditions!

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 14:31

ConnieHeart · 01/11/2025 14:30

No but what i said still stands. It's still Christmas until 6 Jan

We celebrate the Christmas period from Sinterklaas to Boxing Day.

ConnieHeart · 01/11/2025 14:30

Parker231 · 01/11/2025 13:15

Every one has different opinions and traditions - there isn’t a right or wrong - it’s up to individual families. Is that a problem?

No but what i said still stands. It's still Christmas until 6 Jan

CremeBruhlee · 01/11/2025 14:30

We tend to put it up the 3rd weekend of November as our villages local Christmas events start the first weekend of December (along with all the kids clubs and school Christmas parties and events) and the weekend before is a close family members birthday.

I really enjoy making it a lazy day with Christmas music and snacks and decorating the whole house. We wouldn’t have as much time once Dec hits. The kids LOVE it!

I don’t take them down Boxing Day but do take them down before new year because we have time off work and all enjoy the fresh start element to New Year and tend to enjoy decluttering and finding new places for new gifts for Christmas.

Same as others have said though that I’m not bored of it but it fits better for us

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 01/11/2025 14:29

I think it’s to do with the way shops, advertising etc approach each season.

It’s like there always has to be a season on at any given time - we can’t have any “ordinary”
periods of time.

And the result seems to be that Christmas has been brought forward almost to join with Halloween (which itself seems to need a season these days!)

Exemptfromcontent · 01/11/2025 14:29

I don’t put mine up now but I do put it up fairly early (second week of November usually) because I love Christmas time, the kids find it exciting - but DDs birthday is NYE. So I tend to take our tree down on the 27th/28th so we can have a few days of ‘normal’ before her birthday. My mums birthday is the day before and she grew up hating her birthday as it was strongly linked to Christmas, joint gifts, Christmas wrapping on birthday presents ect.. and having read a lot of the same opinions online I want to try and make DDs birthday her special day and not Christmas related 🤣