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Would you go to Canada for a week during child's GCSE exams?

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Dramatic · 31/10/2025 17:28

DH's friend lives in Canada. He is getting married next June and has invited me and DH. We have 4 kids, ages will be 19, 16, 14 and 6.

I don't know this friend well at all, met him once at a party and barely said two words to him so I'm not too fussed if I miss the wedding but I would love to go to Canada.

My 16yo would be in the middle of her GCSEs and so I'd told DH I don't think I can leave her during such a stressful time, our youngest DD has also never been left for more than one night.

He says they'll be fine and I should go, they'd be looked after by grandparents and eldest DD. We don't usually have the opportunity for long haul holidays. Would you go?

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Frynye · 31/10/2025 17:30

Absolutely depends on the child. I would have been fine to leave as quite self motivated, my brother on the other hand!
ALso check the dates as the exams may be nearly over by the time you want to go

cornflourblue · 31/10/2025 17:30

No I wouldn't

Octavia64 · 31/10/2025 17:29

No.

absolutely no

IAmKerplunk · 31/10/2025 17:29

No

Dramatic · 31/10/2025 17:29

Also to add, DH will be going either way.

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Superhansrantowindsor · 31/10/2025 17:29

No.