To think man I’m dating was wrong to ask this? Or is it ‘normal’ these days and I’m just prudish

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GabbyK · 31/10/2025 14:23

Man I’ve been on 6/7 dates with and all going well.

I was at a works do last night, posh hotel so dressed up. Sent him a photo of me once I’d got ready.

He replied ‘where’s the money shot’

I asked what he meant and he said ‘your tits obviously’

I haven’t dated for years so don’t know if this is just how things are now..but was I wrong to be taken aback?

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NoArmaniNoPunani · 31/10/2025 14:27

I thought the money shot was a porn term for seeing the man jizz. Never heard it for boobs. Either way it's gross

BeenThereBackThen · 31/10/2025 14:27

So no ‘you look lovely’, ‘you’re gorgeous’ or anything similar?
Straight into vulgar joke about money shot?

I would lose quite a bit of respect to this man. It shows what’s on his mind really.

No doubt he will explain it away as him having an ‘edgy’ sense of humour.

Meh, I would be disappointed.

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/10/2025 14:26

Yes, it can be 'normal'. But we don't have to date 'normal'. And women rewarding these arseholes isn't a good idea.

BlueIndigoScarlet · 31/10/2025 14:26

That would be the end of that for me. I’d have broken things off with him immediately.

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 31/10/2025 14:26

Before we rush to conclusions - is he an ornithologist?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 31/10/2025 14:25

Er - no, that's absolutely vile.
It would make me stop dating him.
What a disrespectful thing to say.
🤮

FrostAtMidnight · 31/10/2025 14:25

Are you dating Jay from the Inbetweeners?

Cannedlaughter · 31/10/2025 14:25

It’s only normal with idiots, at that stage in a relationship.

Sweetbeansandmochi · 31/10/2025 14:25

I wouldn’t have known what he meant either.

Clementine12 · 31/10/2025 14:25

That would give me the instant ick

Arlanymor · 31/10/2025 14:23

It's normal for some men. But not the men I would want to date.

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