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A genuine question for royalists.

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Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 11:45

I am a republican. I believe that absolute power can only end in disaster. Trump appears to want absolute power. Boris Johnson tried it (proroguing of parliament, amongst other things.)
Please can you tell me why you think (ignoring the Windsors self-destructive present tendencies), having a head of state who is in position only by accident of birth is a good thing?

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FuckRealityBringMeABook · 01/11/2025 07:08

They do. They meddle with laws all the time behind the scenes to get themselves nice little exemptions from things like environmental and equality legislation. Us plebs just aren't told about it.

WhiteCold · 31/10/2025 22:26

I don't think there would be much difference if the country became a republic. The royals hardly interfere with everyday matters so they.

Bedheadbeachbum · 31/10/2025 22:21

I think we forget the powerful effect our monarchy has in other countries which helps us out. The way Trump views the monarchy is useful to us for example and King Charles used that recently to assist good relations with them on his recent visit. Look at how just how much the Queen was regarded and mourned worldwide.

They are an asset, we can't always see that because we are too close them But they have this global effect.

I love that we have a royal family - we've had Kings and Queen's going back to Saxon times, this is our heritage and history in front of us and part of our national identity.

AliceMaforethought · 31/10/2025 21:16

Nobody has given a single good argument for the Monarchy. I hope to see it gone in my lifetime. Bunch of mediocre grifters.

AliceMaforethought · 31/10/2025 21:15

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 31/10/2025 12:28

If you want a Republic, it's probably a good time to see what happened in Nepal recently. France is also a good place to look, they're on their 6th Republic.

Some people in the Royal Family are entitled sleazebags, but you have to admit there has been no such instability.

To even consider doing away with a constitutional monarch like that of what we have is to erase thousands of years of history. When Tony Blair came along, he stripped as much as he could to European-ise us, and now we have David Lammy.....

I prefer stability, I'm a Royalist, plus Princess Catherine is gorgeous.

Just my two pennies.

What on earth does Princess Catherine being (in your opinion, not mine!) 'gorgeous' have to do with anything!?

Fifthtimelucky · 31/10/2025 17:08

KoiTetra · 31/10/2025 12:19

My view on why I prefer monarchy over republic:

  1. I do not trust anyone who chooses to put themselves forward for a position with that much power and prestige - Those born into the role with no choice are in my view more likely to put the nation before self interest.
  2. The royal family contribute economically to the UK. It is hard to find exact figures but the majority of studies agree that the royal family are net contributors to the UK economy via tourism etc. Yes people would still come to see palaces etc without them but not on the same scale, you will never convince me that there will be as much interest in a historic relic as there is in a working palace.
  3. I do not trust the British public to vote for anyone decent. Look at our history of MP's and PM's they are shocking, the general public are shocking at picking leaders.
  4. As Trump has shown an elected leader with enough support and desire can override checks and balances and take more and more power. How would republicans (who as a generalisation tend to be left wing / left leaning) feel if Farage was voted in as President and begun to dismantle the checks put in to limit his power?
  5. I agree with your statement absolute power results in disaster, this is why our current system works. The King has very little real power.

I think there are some very good points here.

If we were starting from scratch, a monarchy is not what I would expect us to come up with, but we are not starting from scratch and, on the whole, I think our present arrangements do us pretty well.

I feel a similar way about The House of Lords.

LolWhotzit · 31/10/2025 17:04

ExpressCheckout · 31/10/2025 14:01

Bless. The monarchy didn’t loot the nation, they just inherited a few castles and a lifetime of being publicly admonished by people who think reading one Guardian article makes them constitutional experts.

Enjoy your day Flowers

That's a weirdly rude and lazy assumption to make about my post.

RapunzelHadExtensions · 31/10/2025 16:47

What I hate is when it's reported as 'Charles will pay for Andrew to be moved to Sandringham' for example. I always think - 'Urrr... No, WE will'.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 31/10/2025 16:41

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 16:32

The trouble @EuclidianGeometryFan , is when those who do hold hereditary positions of state become ‘grubby and self serving’. The late queen’s lobbying of the Scottish govt to avoid environmental rules and charges, very dodgy cash donations to Charles’ charities, tax avoidance strategies, treatment of tenants on Duchy estates. It just goes on and on…before we even start on the alleged cover up’s surrounding Andrew. And we can’t vote them out.

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That is for government to sort out, not a reason to abolish monarchy.
Lobbying should be ignored, tax rules tightened, Duchy estates abolished, etc.. All within parliament's power.

If a monarch is considered totally unsuitable, they can be "forced to abdicate" by parliament, e.g. Edward 8th.

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 16:32

The trouble @EuclidianGeometryFan , is when those who do hold hereditary positions of state become ‘grubby and self serving’. The late queen’s lobbying of the Scottish govt to avoid environmental rules and charges, very dodgy cash donations to Charles’ charities, tax avoidance strategies, treatment of tenants on Duchy estates. It just goes on and on…before we even start on the alleged cover up’s surrounding Andrew. And we can’t vote them out.

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EuclidianGeometryFan · 31/10/2025 16:22

coldiris · 31/10/2025 13:19

Definitely against any unelected power in any sort of sense.

Which is why having a hereditary monarch and royal family is great - as long as they don't actually have any political power.

It stops anyone else getting into the role of head of state and trying to exercise power (e.g. Cromwell).

EuclidianGeometryFan · 31/10/2025 16:18

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 12:08

Well, semantics aside, @JamesClyman , you’ve not really answered my question. Why do you think ‘it’s the finest system of government ever devised?’.

And, as a republican, I’ve often thought perhaps we don’t need a separate head of state at all.

Your answer is rather aggressive. Plenty of people are asking these sorts of questions at the moment. And not all politicians are second rate.

The advantage of the separate head of state is that it means the prime minister is not it. It keeps the PM out of the 'top' role. It keeps grubby self-serving politicians out of the dignity and ceremony of state occasions.
People who want power and status are usually the least fit to have it.
Yes, not all politicians are "second-rate", but we don't want a politician in what is essentially a non-political role.

snowlaser · 31/10/2025 15:52

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 31/10/2025 15:49

But they do hold a level of consistency and continuity for the country. The Queen for example was the consistent through 15 prime ministers.

This is a bit disingenuous given Charles is not likely to be on the throne for more than a decade at most.

Charles is already on his 3rd Prime Minister. If he reigns for 10 years (2032) he looks likely to see at least 1 more. If Reform win that means the government would have seen three different parties in power during his reign.

So whatever your political views the monarchy is for sure more stable.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 31/10/2025 15:49

But they do hold a level of consistency and continuity for the country. The Queen for example was the consistent through 15 prime ministers.

This is a bit disingenuous given Charles is not likely to be on the throne for more than a decade at most.

Marmaladelover · 31/10/2025 15:45

Because if we didn’t, we might end up with either Simon Cowell or Tony Blair ( voting British public ) - not sure who would be worse!

I used to think the Irish used to choose. Presidents well but the latest was much more political and I don’t like her politics or gender views . Don’t think you can really get a non political president tbf.

sosorryimnotsorry · 31/10/2025 15:32

I think as a Brit it is easy to underestimate how the royal family and the monarch is viewed by the rest of the world. We sort of take for granted the soft power that they hold. The monarch holds next to no power politically and are neutral. But they do hold a level of consistency and continuity for the country. The Queen for example was the consistent through 15 prime ministers. Whilst being politically neutral she was the consistent confidant throughout. I don’t think the power of that symbolically should be underestimated.

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 31/10/2025 15:21

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 15:03

Totally agree, @CatHairEveryWhereNow , but my question on this particular thread was why do monarchists agree so wholeheartedly with an hereditary head of state? (Chesterton’s Fence?).
My views are on the table, clearly, but ultimately I believe in respectful debate and not shouting into an echo chamber.
As for realistic alternatives, people do talk a lot about the Irish system of government and that’s certainly something I shall endeavour to find more about, but I think that’s for a different thread.

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Because it is the status quo in this country and no-one showed them anything substantially better for this country (yet).

That true I think for monachists - it's what they know and apparently love - and true for many more people like me not really royalist but very much not republicans.

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 15:10

A civil war and interregnum are definitely something I don’t want repeated, but I think democracy has moved on a bit (even the Diggers might approve to a degree!) in the last 400 years.

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Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 15:03

Totally agree, @CatHairEveryWhereNow , but my question on this particular thread was why do monarchists agree so wholeheartedly with an hereditary head of state? (Chesterton’s Fence?).
My views are on the table, clearly, but ultimately I believe in respectful debate and not shouting into an echo chamber.
As for realistic alternatives, people do talk a lot about the Irish system of government and that’s certainly something I shall endeavour to find more about, but I think that’s for a different thread.

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flutterbat · 31/10/2025 15:03

This might be slightly off topic but why are we waisting money we could be using to help Gaza and to feed starving children on tearing down a perfectly fine part of the White House. People are DYING for reasons that could easily be fixed if Trump actually cared about this country and being president wasn't just some game for him. Poor babies are starving and he's building a ballroom because "Trump says the White House needs a large entertaining space" this just isn't nessary infact its the opposite, its harmful.

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 31/10/2025 14:57

we were told last week that Andrew’s honours and titles couldn’t be removed because of the political upheaval.

Also don't know who told you that becuase it doesn't have any poltcial implications at all - and it has sort of been done before - with Letter Patent of 1917 though this does go further and frankly is a very welcome development and I wish if it's true William wanted it done from the off they'd listened to him more.

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 31/10/2025 14:55

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 13:17

Well, @CatHairEveryWhereNow , we were told last week that Andrew’s honours and titles couldn’t be removed because of the political upheaval..and it’s now been done overnight! So of course it could be done.

And I’m not suggesting another bloody referendum, which I think would be akin to a revolution, but a planned, long-term event. With a definite ‘clear goal’. There are plenty of democratic alternatives to what we have now, widely discussed by people far cleverer than me.

I actually think the ‘it can’t be done’ argument holds far less weight than the history/tradition argument.

We need the monarch - that's the bit we actually need. That the bit that has a role in our government.

Wider royal family is not really needed at all - they do "charity" roles and support the monarch but honestly we could easily do away with them. TBF Anna and Edward have refused titles for their kids and Willaim floating idea titles may be only start being used for working royals - so think getting rid of wider family roles is slowly happening anyway.

The logic of Chesterton's Fence says that you should not do away with a law, practice or social custom without first considering why it exists ie is it doing something useful and is the thing replacing it better.

So yes I'd like to know what actually is the altervative - how much it would cost - not look there's a squirrel - or it will be fine.

The reason I mention Brexit clearly not becuase of the referendum - it becuase no-one wanted to say exactly what the outcome was or look at costs and downsides and it has cost us. Though I image if you want to change how the country governed in such a huge way a referendum or a huge vote for a party clearly saying that's their main prupose - would be the way to go as voting public should get to have a say.

But we can clearly do it get rid of the monarch bit- we did once already - Interregnum - where as I mentioned we ended up with a worse system - with even less oversight than before to point we invited Charles II back to be our King.

So I'd like to know what is better and why and why it's worth the upset and cost - have a convincing argument there and most people like me who are well it's okay at the moment there are worse systems might actually get on board with a republic.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 31/10/2025 14:51

One reason they need to be above reproach - not guaranteed in their family as we have seen recently, but the chances are better in a hereditary monarchy with a high reputation, than they would be with an elected head of state with who-knows-what skeletons in their closet that could bring reputatonal ruin to them and disrepute to public life

How on earth are the chances better?

Tutorpuzzle · 31/10/2025 14:48

Trump, like all democratic presidents, can be voted out @GreenCandleWax . He may struggle, but his family won’t be in power in the next century.

I am not a constitutionalist, but, especially at the moment, I believe the system of a hereditary head of state needs debate.

Almost without exception, the comments on this thread have been respectful and interesting (thank you to all posters)and I think this is just the sort of wider discussion we need.

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RedTagAlan · 31/10/2025 14:45

As a Brit, I like the UK system over ones with political head of state because it is untested in democratic times.

That is, the King can sack Parliament, and at the same time, Parliament can sack the King. But the King can't sack Parliament and take over.

So it is potentially a system in tension in the event of any dangerous scenario. If either side oversteps the mark, there is a panic button that can be pressed.

And this is untested because we do not have a written constitution. Although the late Queen did sack the Australian government once (without knowing apparently), and a few others.

It's untested because we do not actually know the limits of power, because , again, no written constitution. The Brit Armed forces, police, court, civil service etc, pledge allegiance to the King, but it is Parliament who run them, and more importantly, fund them. But at the same time, all is done in the name of the King.

And I think if this was tested to the max, it would result in a total collapse,. It is just too dangerous for either side to push too far.

It is, to me anyway, a pretty solid ultimate check and balance.

Both sides only have legitimacy because of the other.