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Has anyone manifested a romantic partner or is it all nonsense to you?

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cokez · 31/10/2025 10:07

Just that really?
please tell me your experiences or if none, why you think it’s rubbish.
I’ve manifested financial surprises, gave up smoking and drinking and a healthy body.
The most recent intention I have is to enjoy a romantic relationship again in middle age.
Aibu to think this is possible when it involves human relationship rather than a ‘thing’ or an’action’?

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RhaenysRocks · 31/10/2025 10:52

In my limited understanding of it is that it means setting out to achieve something..is what people have done forever. Want X job, train for it and apply. Want friends or a partner, put yourself in social situations and make yourself appealing. Want a financial boost, look at organising your finances, seeking promotion or whatever. Sitting there wishing...no.

Agix · 31/10/2025 10:36

Yes, I did. Multiple times.. Didn't get it right until the last one hah.

I'm not going to go into a LOT of detail of it all as I am well aware it sounds absolutely bonkers. I do tell my husband that I manifested him coming into my life... He does think I'm bonkers, thankfully he likes that about me haha. He thinks its sweet.

Just make sure you think fully what you want. Don't half ass it, else you'll get someone half-assed walk into your life. Or "not quite right" - i.e exactly what you thought you wanted, but he has commitment issues because you didn't specify you wanted someone committed lol.

So, be detailed and thorough! And you're not dreaming up a man of course, you're opening yourself up to walking into his life or into yours... So when opportunities to meet people start happening, take them. Even if you usually wouldn't. That's it working!

PinkPanther57 · 31/10/2025 10:20

I know those who’ve done it & written lists. It’s not magic, just very clear intention.

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