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Is this a concerning amount of bruises?

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MummaHud · 29/10/2025 19:17

My daughter is 5 and she is always ON the go, it’s been half term and she’s like the Duracell bunny…

she has no other symptoms but I always worry bruises like this are something to be worried about? AIBU worrying?

Is this a concerning amount of bruises?
Is this a concerning amount of bruises?
Is this a concerning amount of bruises?
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labtest57 · 31/10/2025 23:51

My daughter was diagnosed with leukaemia when she was 4. She had no bruises at diagnosis, just leg pain. Shes almost 19 now.

nocoolnamesleft · 30/10/2025 23:10

That looks normal for an active child? Unless there are more, in unusual locations?

SwingTheMonkey · 30/10/2025 23:07

LotsOfSmallThings · 29/10/2025 21:59

Ah she’s fine now thank you - a few long and gruelling years of treatment but we were incredibly lucky, she’s a trooper and came through with no lasting issues and no apparent side effects, finished treatment nearly 2 years ago now and no relapses or problems since. But I see people post with worries re bruises on children fairly often and I’m happy to share photos if it helps people feel reassured that their little ones are just standard busy/clumsy kids. As you can see, when it’s indicative of a problem it’s pretty unequivocal - there’s no way DD’s bruising could have been put down to regular kid stuff.

Thank you so much for being brave enough to share these photos, it really is such a help to those of us with health anxiety. I’m so pleased to hear your daughter is doing well and wish her continued good health.

SwingTheMonkey · 30/10/2025 23:03

MummaHud · 29/10/2025 21:29

I’m not worried about what she’s doing or who she is with. I’m worried about Blood disorders & scary things like that…. Not anything else. I have health anxiety ( which I don’t need to be told about myself, I’m already under the GP for medication), so I naturally worry about scary health things, after my extremely premature poorly baby & health scares myself in the past.

I hope you’ve been reassured op. I’ve had exactly the same concerns as you as a fellow health anxiety sufferer. I have improved over time so there is hope!

MumChp · 30/10/2025 22:58

No it's quite normal for that age.

Kirbert2 · 30/10/2025 22:58

LotsOfSmallThings · 29/10/2025 21:38

For you OP and anyone else worried re leukaemia - this is DD’s bruises the day before & the day she was diagnosed. Very, very different from normal childhood bumps and bruises!

Yep. You can definitely tell the difference. Thanks for sharing.

I hope she's doing well now. My son had lymphoma last year, it's such an awful thing to go through. xx

Kirbert2 · 30/10/2025 22:55

I wouldn't be concerned about leukemia in this case without any other symptoms. Other symptoms would be popping up too such as unexplained fevers, tiredness, bleeding gums etc.

LotsOfSmallThings · 30/10/2025 22:55

MummaHud · 30/10/2025 22:47

Oh bless her, I am so sorry if my post was insensitive.. but your little girl sounds so incredible.. and I am over the moon she is doing well xxxxx

No no not insensitive at all! I just know it’s a really common worry re bruises on kids and just wanted to try and put your mind at ease!

Ineffable23 · 30/10/2025 22:50

I used to count my bruises as a child and remember regularly counting 20+

So I wouldn't be worrying just because of plenty of bruises I don't think, as long as they are generally in "normal" places.

MummaHud · 30/10/2025 22:47

LotsOfSmallThings · 29/10/2025 21:38

For you OP and anyone else worried re leukaemia - this is DD’s bruises the day before & the day she was diagnosed. Very, very different from normal childhood bumps and bruises!

Oh bless her, I am so sorry if my post was insensitive.. but your little girl sounds so incredible.. and I am over the moon she is doing well xxxxx

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BauhausOfEliott · 30/10/2025 11:31

Totally normal.

Wingingit73 · 30/10/2025 11:18

I think my legs were exactly like that for years. They're in typical places too

Starlight40 · 30/10/2025 07:43

I would say this is normal. The bruises are where I would expect them to be.x

StillAGoth · 30/10/2025 07:42

OP, brusies are completely normal.

Yes, bruises can be a symptom of something more serious but not all bruises are equal. Once they are yellow/green, they are old bruises and healing.

LotsOfSmallThings has very kindly shown you examples of her daughter's leukemia related bruising and you can see that your daughter's bruises look nothing like that. The shape, location and colour of some of her bruising was, as she said, very obviously not caused by bumping into something.

That is also different to a large bruise developing on an adult's thigh without obvious cause.

Bruises on skin in bony areas, such as knees and shins) is, as others have said, normal and comes from just bumping into things, falling over etc and don't even need much impact in children. Some people do bruise more easily than others.

I used to be covered in bruises after a night dancing in a mosh pit which I always equate with childen running around in a playground!

I was also 'covered in bruises' (including soft areas) as a child but that was a result of being hit at home.

If you are really worried, speak to your GP for reassurance (after all, opinions on a MN thread does not equal a medical diagnosis) but bruises on knees or shins, no where else (particularly soft areas), with no other symptoms and, tbh, I wouldn't even have wondered if I should be worried when mine were children.

But also, bruises on soft areas do happen I had a cracking bruise on my thigh a few months ago after walking into the corner of a table in the classroom! Sometimes, I notice a bruise and have no recollection of walking into a table but assume I must have done.

Bruising like your daughter's wouldn't concern me.

MrsPrendergast · 30/10/2025 07:41

Do you have health anxiety, OP?

Edit -I've just seen that you do. Apologies

Maybe get some help with your anxiety? Talking therapy might help

Anditstartedagain · 30/10/2025 07:34

Now the photo has loaded. Compared to my kids and friends, I would say that’s well lower than average number of bruises.

millymollymoomoo · 30/10/2025 07:33

Totally normal on shins and knees. My kids always has far more than that

mumoftwo99x · 30/10/2025 07:20

Very normal - my DS has way more including his arm/elbow too. He’s just recovered from a black eye which he got from running headfirst into the school metal gate during playtime 😩

Brbreeze · 30/10/2025 07:16

I read this last night when the photo hadn’t loaded and expected it to be much worse. I’m 35 and my legs are covered in considerably more bruises than that at the moment 😂
I would say that’s completely normal and very similar to my three year-old.

PortSalutPlease · 29/10/2025 22:53

That really just looks like normal bruising. My legs look like that right now and I’m pretty sure DS’s do too.

uglyfeet · 29/10/2025 22:14

No you are right to be worried. 2 weeks a massive bruise grew on my top thigh.

2 weeks later I was fighting necrosis fasciitis.

Today 6 months on I still learn about nf.

LotsOfSmallThings · 29/10/2025 21:59

TheZanyZebra · 29/10/2025 21:45

Poor thing, that does look bad and would worry any parent.

Very brave of you to share, I hope she's ok today.

Ah she’s fine now thank you - a few long and gruelling years of treatment but we were incredibly lucky, she’s a trooper and came through with no lasting issues and no apparent side effects, finished treatment nearly 2 years ago now and no relapses or problems since. But I see people post with worries re bruises on children fairly often and I’m happy to share photos if it helps people feel reassured that their little ones are just standard busy/clumsy kids. As you can see, when it’s indicative of a problem it’s pretty unequivocal - there’s no way DD’s bruising could have been put down to regular kid stuff.

TheZanyZebra · 29/10/2025 21:45

LotsOfSmallThings · 29/10/2025 21:38

For you OP and anyone else worried re leukaemia - this is DD’s bruises the day before & the day she was diagnosed. Very, very different from normal childhood bumps and bruises!

Poor thing, that does look bad and would worry any parent.

Very brave of you to share, I hope she's ok today.

LotsOfSmallThings · 29/10/2025 21:38

For you OP and anyone else worried re leukaemia - this is DD’s bruises the day before & the day she was diagnosed. Very, very different from normal childhood bumps and bruises!

Is this a concerning amount of bruises?
Is this a concerning amount of bruises?
Is this a concerning amount of bruises?
TheZanyZebra · 29/10/2025 21:35

MummaHud · 29/10/2025 21:29

I’m not worried about what she’s doing or who she is with. I’m worried about Blood disorders & scary things like that…. Not anything else. I have health anxiety ( which I don’t need to be told about myself, I’m already under the GP for medication), so I naturally worry about scary health things, after my extremely premature poorly baby & health scares myself in the past.

I have more bruises than she has, and I am as healthy as can be.

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