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Meanings behind songs that people don't seem to know...

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Arlanymor · 28/10/2025 21:38

Do you remember the Real Fires advert with the dog kissing the cat and the cat kissing a mouse? My mum brought it up the other day as one of their neighbours has just got a dog that looks identical to the one in the advertisement. Awww!

I couldn't quite remember the song that was the soundtrack so I looked it up later... it's Will You Love Me Tomorrow by The Shirelles and I brought it up on YouTube to listen to it. It's about a one night stand isn't it? I had no idea until now... there I was thinking it was a lovely warm anthem for chaste kisses between pets!

By the way, not remotely making a judgement about the topic, I've a had a few 'Shirelles' nights of my own in the past... I just never knew what it was about before. Have you had any similar revelations?!

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prh47bridge · 30/10/2025 15:57

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 30/10/2025 15:04

Well I’m not suggesting it was anything explicit, but along the lines of the euphemisms that are often shown on TV/film for sex, eg the rockets and fireworks taking off. As you say the song came out in 1976 and I was at an age where I was quite aware of sex but in terms of it being something quite shocking or to giggle about, and I would have understood this kind of symbolism in a video. Maybe it’s my mind playing tricks with the lyrics about the ‘sky rocket in flight’, but I’m not the only poster who’s mentioned the video, so 🤷‍♀️

@Bringonthefatfurcat is mistaken about 1976 being before music videos. The famous video for Bohemian Rhapsody was made in 1975. That was probably the first hit for which the video was central to the marketing strategy and many people think that was the first music video, but music videos were around long before then. Top of the Pops frequently screened the video for I Shot the Sheriff in 1973, but even that wasn't the beginning. From the early 1960s, artists were making "filmed inserts" so that they could be screened when the band was not available to appear live.

The original 1976 video for Afternoon Delight can be seen at complete with fireworks.

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ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 30/10/2025 15:04

Bringonthefatfurcat · 29/10/2025 22:00

There’s a modern made video of them literally singing it. But when you said ‘and oh but that video’ what do you remember exactly? Or was it for effect

Well I’m not suggesting it was anything explicit, but along the lines of the euphemisms that are often shown on TV/film for sex, eg the rockets and fireworks taking off. As you say the song came out in 1976 and I was at an age where I was quite aware of sex but in terms of it being something quite shocking or to giggle about, and I would have understood this kind of symbolism in a video. Maybe it’s my mind playing tricks with the lyrics about the ‘sky rocket in flight’, but I’m not the only poster who’s mentioned the video, so 🤷‍♀️

LillyPJ · 30/10/2025 11:23

Greysowhat · 30/10/2025 09:48

Me too. I'm in shock!

Even worse - I've known (and sung along to) this song ever since it came out and I've never even thought about which night/knight it is!

80sMusicFan · 30/10/2025 11:12

exse24Londoner · 29/10/2025 17:57

what is it about? always wondered

Straight from the horse’s mouth, as told by Dave Fenton who wrote and performed it… it’s basically a love song. The guy has been dumped and has only a picture to remind him of better times. He feels like he’s going completely crazy and is turning into someone he doesn’t recognise, as if he’s suddenly part of a culture very different from his own. BUT when the band were being interviewed in the US, where someone had come up with the muckier interpretation and asked about it, they quickly realised that scandal sells so the answer was somewhat non-committal and along the lines of “it can be about whatever you want it to be about”. That’s how the myth started, and it’s continued ever since!

Greysowhat · 30/10/2025 09:48

suburburban · 29/10/2025 20:27

Yes mediaeval knights of the round table riding around on horses on a long quest😂

Me too. I'm in shock!

Thunderpunt · 30/10/2025 09:40

Bringonthefatfurcat · 29/10/2025 22:01

Yeah that doesn’t work @thundercunt

Oh dear, sense of humour bypass? Nevermind, sweary words don’t offend me. Let’s hope today is a better day for you. Peace and love and all that Flowers

Clawdy · 30/10/2025 08:49

DS's girlfriend Nicola was having a big party for her birthday, with DS's friends singing and playing guitar. DS is a huge Prince fan, and I said "Perhaps you could sing Darling Nikki!"

" Erm...I don't think so, Mum!!" he grinned. To be fair, I'd only ever heard the title!

HappyNewTaxYear · 30/10/2025 08:48

Moro93 · 29/10/2025 16:26

A lot of people don’t seem to know that Hallelujah is pretty much about sex.

It’s a Leonard Cohen song, of course it’s about sex 🤣

Beentheretoolong · 30/10/2025 08:00

MarthaBeach · 29/10/2025 23:19

I always want to shout at the telly when there's that perfume ad that uses Sia's Chandelier - which is very clearly about alcoholism. I mean it actually has the lyrics:
Sun is up, I'm a mess
Gotta get out now, gotta run from this
Here comes the shame, here comes the shame
1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 drink
1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 drink
1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 drink
Throw 'em back till I lose count

I don’t get alcoholism from that but binge drinking on a night out and waking up the next morning after a one night stand. It’s describing knocking back shots and then the walk of shame the next morning.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 30/10/2025 07:49

LaserPumpkin · 29/10/2025 18:35

Apparently John Lennon said it described cards indicating a clean bill of health carried by Hamburg prostitutes in the 1960s - so a Card to Shag rather than a Ticket to Ride 😉

I've just read the wiki page and Lennon says that was the inspiration for he song title, not that that's what the song is about. Meanwhile Paul McCartney says the song title comes from a ticket to “Ryde" on the Isle of Wight.

MagpiePi · 30/10/2025 07:44

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Zempy · 30/10/2025 07:35

MarthaBeach · 29/10/2025 23:12

No it is not! It was written by Leonard Cohen and he was a poet and a deeply spiritual person for many years (not Christian though). There were many verses appearing in different versions of the song by him, many with obscure Bible references.

I hate it when people belt it out and miss the subtlety, darkness and sadness in it.

Quite a few of his songs were about sex. Sorry to break it to you.

It is a wonderful song and yes, he was a brilliant poet.

lettingthedaysgoby · 30/10/2025 07:29

The first promo films (aka 'music video') were made (inevitably) by the Beatles - and Bob Dylan's "Subterranian Homesick Blues" (the one with the lyric on cards). I remember the "Hey Jude" one on Top of the Pops - the Beatles were rarely, if ever, on the show - one of the reasons they made promo films.

keylijeeni · 30/10/2025 07:19

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sashh · 30/10/2025 03:33

Alittlefrustrated · 29/10/2025 09:54

No they were 14 - 15, 4th Years, as we called them then. Hence our swiftly organised session . We wouldn't of been aware of all the pregnancies, as some didn't result in births , but we were informed as part of the session.
The only other girl doing O Level physics quickly left due to pregnancy, and left me in a class full of bloody hooligans. She was a lovely, bright girl, but troubled home life, and had 3 children by 19. She didn't return to school.
We only had one other girl become a mother in my year. She disappeared, then turned up, very late pregnancy, to sit her exams. I was aware of abortions but only a couple.

I think there were 16 in my year, I left in 1983. One fourth year and the rest in fifth year.

We had no proper sex education but we did have a long list of contraceptives not approved by the RC church.

I was at an RC girls' school. My brother was at the equivalent boys' school, I don't think he got much either as a friend of his A thought he had got his girlfriend B pregnant.

He asked my brother if it could happen with what they had been doing, my brother didn't know so they went to my mum.

A and B were both still virgins.

Ass for video, the first one I can remember went with Bohemian Rhapsody, released in 1975.

OK back to the songs, this is a real oldie, the song 'My Old Dutch', it seemed to be sung a lot on TV in the 70s, the chorus is We've been together now for forty years, An' it don't seem a day too much.

It's portrayed as a love song, which it is, but it is about a couple going in to the workhouse where they will be separated and never see each other again.

SweetnsourNZ · 30/10/2025 02:38

bruffin · 29/10/2025 06:46

And so many people thought Luca was a girl!!

Or a woman. Remember the domestic violence groups here being up in arms thinking it was a woman. Same with Matchbox 20s Push you around. They never heard the part "she said" and thought he was saying it.

SweetnsourNZ · 30/10/2025 02:34

Wherearemysunglasses · 29/10/2025 07:01

Love this!

I have two to add

Relax by mika - about the 2005 London bombings. I love this song but never noticed the lyrics until fairly recently. Think I am even more fond of it now with the careful lyrics and meaning although bittersweet.

Growing on me by the darkness. This is a hilarious one about an STI.

Edited

Whole Lot of Rosie by AC/DC is also about still. I always imagined it being about a big girl called Rosie.

SweetnsourNZ · 30/10/2025 02:29

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 29/10/2025 05:58

I didnt know that! But it makes perfect sense now. Il be listening to that today :)

She actually did an interview somewhere when it came out so I knew that one. She also said she recorded it wearing a bikini to feel sexy while she sang it.

MarthaBeach · 29/10/2025 23:19

I always want to shout at the telly when there's that perfume ad that uses Sia's Chandelier - which is very clearly about alcoholism. I mean it actually has the lyrics:
Sun is up, I'm a mess
Gotta get out now, gotta run from this
Here comes the shame, here comes the shame
1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 drink
1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 drink
1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 drink
Throw 'em back till I lose count

MarthaBeach · 29/10/2025 23:12

Zempy · 29/10/2025 08:33

Hallelujah is about orgasms.

I always feel very uncomfortable watching a child sing it.

No it is not! It was written by Leonard Cohen and he was a poet and a deeply spiritual person for many years (not Christian though). There were many verses appearing in different versions of the song by him, many with obscure Bible references.

I hate it when people belt it out and miss the subtlety, darkness and sadness in it.

SprayWhiteDung · 29/10/2025 22:45

Fernticket · 29/10/2025 22:13

And every Sunday she receives a big bouquet of 14 roses.
And a card that reads
The greatest Mum on earth.

I always used to assume that the tramp referred to was the father - i.e. the singer and his siblings' deadbeat dad - and he hadn't stuck around or had any financial means to support them, hence their mum was left to do all of the parenting and caring on her own, because the child was a son of an insolvent, non-present tramp.

When I was young, I only really knew the word tramp to mean a (usually male) wandering vagrant; I wasn't familiar with the American meaning of a (usually female) prostitute.

Bringonthefatfurcat · 29/10/2025 22:39

SprayWhiteDung · 29/10/2025 22:38

The concept of a 'music video' - i.e. a planned and artfully filmed and edited visual accompaniment to the song with a storyboard and choreography - may not have been the norm back then; but video cameras did very much exist. It was far from unheard of for somebody to film the artist/band on the stage, singing, playing and/or dancing, and for it to be made available for broadcast.

Agreed. But the poster insinuated the ‘video’ made clear it was a ‘naughty’ song.

SprayWhiteDung · 29/10/2025 22:38

The concept of a 'music video' - i.e. a planned and artfully filmed and edited visual accompaniment to the song with a storyboard and choreography - may not have been the norm back then; but video cameras did very much exist. It was far from unheard of for somebody to film the artist/band on the stage, singing, playing and/or dancing, and for it to be made available for broadcast.

MyOtherProfile · 29/10/2025 22:30

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 29/10/2025 19:17

Is this the Toploader or Thin Lizzy song?

Not the Thin Lizzy one. The one that Top loader did a cover of, by King Harvest.

Fernticket · 29/10/2025 22:13

SouthernNights59 · 29/10/2025 19:39

That is so weird! I haven't heard the song for decades but for some reason I was thinking about it this morning but couldn't remember the name of it.

And yes, I always knew what it was about, and it is a fab song and I love how her children thought so highly of her.

And every Sunday she receives a big bouquet of 14 roses.
And a card that reads
The greatest Mum on earth.