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AIBU to be hurt about song dp dedicated to me

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User12345666 · 28/10/2025 20:12

So me, DP and a few friends were discussing on a group chat which songs we'd dedicate to each other. DP chose this

AIBU to be hurt by this? He always says I talk too much (I'm very chatty. This has been the cause of many arguments) and he's complained about our sex life before (says we don't do it often enough). He's even put it as his ring tone for me on his phone now!

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IhadaStripeyDeckchair · 28/10/2025 21:14

Well he'll get even less action when you dump him & he's a saddo single.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/10/2025 21:13

Yanbu at all. What a twat

MoominMai · 28/10/2025 21:12

@User12345666 if my BF dedicated something like that to me I’d sharply dedicate back something like Fleetwood Mac ‘You can go your own way’! 🙃

Hardhats · 28/10/2025 21:12

This is the cliche sort of thing bald middle aged men say to jokingly put down their wives.

Scout2016 · 28/10/2025 21:11

I think the fact he's posted it for all your mates to see is lousy. Somehow that's worse than if it was just a daft comment in real life chat, maybe because it gets more scrutiny and is obviously premeditated (not the right word but I can't think of a better one.)

MedievalNun · 28/10/2025 21:09

How about ‘These Boots were made for walkin’ by Nancy Sinatra? And then walk the hell out of his life.

That is just absofuckinglutely awful and disrespectful.

HevenlyMeS · 28/10/2025 21:09

Greetings original commenter
My heart goes out to you, most surely no way are you being unreasonable
What he's joking about isn't humorous but humiliating - Especially because he shared this with God knows how many others, on the group chat
Hope you're ok? I'd most surely have to communicate my upset to someone whom's meant to love & respect you 💚Wishing you all the utmost best

havingoneofthosedays · 28/10/2025 21:06

I think that's quite funny

ChampagneJen · 28/10/2025 20:56

Sorry I think it’s quite funny and also an inspired choice as it sounds accurate by your own admission. However probably better to share between the two of you rather than in a group chat.

MakeMineADietCoke · 28/10/2025 20:53

Phoenix1Arisen · 28/10/2025 20:50

Millie Jackson the Phuck U Symphony.

That good in bed, is he, that he can afford to insult you?

Is there a song somewhere called 'On your way, sonny'?

Hit the road, jack?

Phoenix1Arisen · 28/10/2025 20:50

Millie Jackson the Phuck U Symphony.

That good in bed, is he, that he can afford to insult you?

Is there a song somewhere called 'On your way, sonny'?

WellYouWereMythTaken · 28/10/2025 20:49

That’s a dick move on his part. You definitely need to dedicate an appropriate song right back at him.

ruethewhirl · 28/10/2025 20:42

Vivisays · 28/10/2025 20:29

Perhaps you could dedicate Lily Allen’s banger ‘Fuck You’ for him… just a thought

This! I’m sorry OP, that was a dick move on his part. I’d be reconsidering the relationship tbh.

MyLimeGuide · 28/10/2025 20:40

Lol he sounds funny!

Dammila · 28/10/2025 20:38

Remind him that two years after that song Elvis was singing "always on my mind"

Screamingabdabz · 28/10/2025 20:34

Is he an Elvis fan? Another ick.

Goodadvice1980 · 28/10/2025 20:31

YANBU. He sounds grim 🤮

Time for you to play The Bay City Rollers 🎶 bye bye baby, baby goodbye ….

Original poster
User12345666 · 28/10/2025 20:31

@Vivisays not a fan of Lily Allen but good idea! Or maybe Not Fair 😅

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SpinandSing · 28/10/2025 20:30

It would be funny if it wasn't a sensitive spot for you! Have you both spoken openly in your friend group about these arguments? Feels like it should be private.

Vivisays · 28/10/2025 20:29

Perhaps you could dedicate Lily Allen’s banger ‘Fuck You’ for him… just a thought

Hayley1256 · 28/10/2025 20:28

User12345666 · 28/10/2025 20:23

@Hayley1256 he's 34 🙁

LTB

MissyB1 · 28/10/2025 20:25

I would make it crystal clear that this pathetic immature behaviour is the biggest turn off ever, and now you aren’t sure you will be able to bring yourself to have sex with him at all.

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User12345666 · 28/10/2025 20:23

@Hayley1256 he's 34 🙁

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Hayley1256 · 28/10/2025 20:18

He sounds very immature- how old is he?