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Im being silly about buying period pants

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Ihgdeyjnvd · 28/10/2025 17:34

I think I want to buy new period pants, I bought 4 Modibodi pairs but then I shrunk them/got fatter and then I bought some from m&s that were so uncomfortable I threw them in the bin. I looked at buying more Modibodi ones but theyre at least 15 pounds each so two pairs a day (which i think is what I'd wear?) for my 4 day period is going to cost £120. £120 to spend just on pants seems nuts. I dont want to have to remember to wash them during my period, I know what I'm like I wont remember.

OP posts:
Mebie · 29/10/2025 12:08

Modibodi often have codes and discounts sales, I probably have over 30 pairs now and don’t pay full price, I love the boxer style ones.

Minto111 · 29/10/2025 12:06

You can get disposable period pants in the co-op.

About 12 pounds for a pack of 8. They are great!

AnonSugar · 29/10/2025 12:04

Was trying to quote a poster and forgot to quote so edited!

Calliopespa · 29/10/2025 11:48

ThatLadyLadyShesTheMan · 28/10/2025 22:30

Wet clothing that’s sat for 4-5 days starts to stink too. You do you and all that, but I don’t think they work for people who do washing once a week

I rinse them out in cold or tepid water straight after use, then hang to dry until they go in the machine - which usually isn't long as we don't do all our laundry on one day. There is no need for them to sit round wet or soaking.

FoxRedPuppy · 29/10/2025 11:46

BelatrixLestrange · 29/10/2025 11:20

A coil is not guaranteed to stop periods. Infact some find it's constant, heavy bleeding.

Also, many of us are done pumping our bodies with artificial hormones unless left with no choice.

The poster did say “it’s not for everyone”. I have a mirena coil and I am not “pumping my body full of hormones”, the hormones are contained locally where the IUD is. I can’t use any other hormonal contraception, but I’m fine with this.

Mirena coils rarely mean lots of bleeding (that’s the copper one). I got mine due to perimenopausal flooding and very heavy periods. I object to the inference that I am doing damage to my body. I’m also in HRT and the coil means I only need oestrogen.

Calliopespa · 29/10/2025 11:44

BluNavy · 29/10/2025 08:05

Lindex are lovely and have a discount at the moment

googling ...

Calliopespa · 29/10/2025 11:42

Cougarintown · 29/10/2025 10:06

I totally disagree! I love my wuka and hate my modibodi ones. My modibodi ones also didn't last, the lining came out after about 6 months.

I marginally prefer Wuka.

My understanding is that Modibodi use wool, which I can see would appeal to many for its sort of traditional, safe qualities.

However, to me they seem to bulk up slightly after the first wash, meaning they feel a little (still not nearly as bad) bulky like a pad. The Wuka seem much more streamlined, but I can see how you might prefer either one to the other as they are a little different in character. A bit like honey vs marmalade.

BelatrixLestrange · 29/10/2025 11:20

Troubadourr · 29/10/2025 07:56

It's not for everyone but oh my God, having a mirena coil is one of the best things I've ever done! Why not consider that OP if you can? I don't understand why people still bother with all of the faff, mess and expense of periods every month. It's free and although there is some initial pain and discomfort (I had none as I was given local anaesthetic), for the most part, you won't have to worry about bleeding for 5 years. Life is too short to spend a large proportion of it bleeding and worrying about how not to bleed through your clothes. Changing your overpriced period underwear twice a day because you have bled through them sounds (bloody) awful.

A coil is not guaranteed to stop periods. Infact some find it's constant, heavy bleeding.

Also, many of us are done pumping our bodies with artificial hormones unless left with no choice.

Cougarintown · 29/10/2025 10:06

StrongLikeMamma · 29/10/2025 08:21

Think modi bodi have a sale on too. If bought some wuka recently to try them and they were crap by comparison.

I totally disagree! I love my wuka and hate my modibodi ones. My modibodi ones also didn't last, the lining came out after about 6 months.

Cougarintown · 29/10/2025 10:04

OverDram · 29/10/2025 08:31

Can you explain what they are?
Do you wear them instead of pads?
How do you stay feeling fresh?

They are underwear (knickers) that have absorbent padding built in that hold period blood. You can get various absorbancies. Similar to normal pads or tampons.

Some people use them as an added layer in addition to a tampon or mooncup, other people use them as an total replacement for pads and tampons.

They can be washed in the washing machine and reused, so are excellent value.

I have no issue with staying fresh.

Ihgdeyjnvd · 29/10/2025 09:17

Troubadourr · 29/10/2025 07:56

It's not for everyone but oh my God, having a mirena coil is one of the best things I've ever done! Why not consider that OP if you can? I don't understand why people still bother with all of the faff, mess and expense of periods every month. It's free and although there is some initial pain and discomfort (I had none as I was given local anaesthetic), for the most part, you won't have to worry about bleeding for 5 years. Life is too short to spend a large proportion of it bleeding and worrying about how not to bleed through your clothes. Changing your overpriced period underwear twice a day because you have bled through them sounds (bloody) awful.

Fine if that works for other people, I just dont want a foreign body implanted in my uterus. I cant have hormonal contraception anyway so that would leave me with the copper coil and I dont want a piece of copper in my uterus.

OP posts:
OverDram · 29/10/2025 08:31

Can you explain what they are?
Do you wear them instead of pads?
How do you stay feeling fresh?

SillyQuail · 29/10/2025 08:28

FancyCatSlave · 28/10/2025 19:12

There’s LESS mess than a blood covered cardboard tampon applicator.

@Ihgdeyjnvd you don’t have to buy them all at once. I gradually built my collection up. I like having quite a lot. I have about 6 super heavy, 6 moderate and 4 light. But I started off with a few and gradually increased. About half of mine are “seconds”.

You can do 2 days of pants, 2 days of disposable products to start with, doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

I think if you're used to tampons it just feels less clean, and its an adjustment going back to needing a mountain of loo roll every time you pee vs just removing a tampon and popping in a new one before there's much of a flow. My mum wouldn't let me use tampons as a teenager and I absolutely hated using pads for that reason. I now use tampons during the day and pants at night on the heavy days so I can just shower off the mess in the morning, and then just pants towards the end when it's lighter.

jeaux90 · 29/10/2025 08:24

Modi Bodi have regular sales so sign up they text you when they are on sale.

They have been a life saver for AuDHD DD, especially the heavy flow boy short ones. Go for it.

IkeaMeatballGravy · 29/10/2025 08:22

If you know they work for you and you can afford them, just get the ones you like. By the time you have tried an tested all the cheaper alternatives you might as well have bought the ones you wanted in the first place. Sometimes it's worth it just to invest!

StrongLikeMamma · 29/10/2025 08:21

Think modi bodi have a sale on too. If bought some wuka recently to try them and they were crap by comparison.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 29/10/2025 08:21

DD has a combo of ModiBodi (often on offer, sign up for emails), M&S and Primark. She has 9 pairs, which will last her 4- 5 day period, with one wash early on (they do take ages to dry).

Compared to the cost of sanitary towels, i reckon they pay for themselves in less than a year.

StrongLikeMamma · 29/10/2025 08:20

How much would you spend on pads or tampons in a year op?

FoxRedPuppy · 29/10/2025 08:14

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 29/10/2025 07:47

Obviously if you can’t afford them you can’t afford them, but I wouldn’t assume 38 means it’s nearly over- my heaviest bleeding didn’t start till mid 40s, after many years of trouble free menstruation 😬

Yeah, the flooding starts in perimenopause. And the two period a month, some months.

BluNavy · 29/10/2025 08:05

Lindex are lovely and have a discount at the moment

Troubadourr · 29/10/2025 07:56

It's not for everyone but oh my God, having a mirena coil is one of the best things I've ever done! Why not consider that OP if you can? I don't understand why people still bother with all of the faff, mess and expense of periods every month. It's free and although there is some initial pain and discomfort (I had none as I was given local anaesthetic), for the most part, you won't have to worry about bleeding for 5 years. Life is too short to spend a large proportion of it bleeding and worrying about how not to bleed through your clothes. Changing your overpriced period underwear twice a day because you have bled through them sounds (bloody) awful.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 29/10/2025 07:47

Gremlins101 · 29/10/2025 05:30

I couldn't afford period pants, doesn't seem like a good investment now im 38 😄 but I love my washable pads a whole lot. They've been a game changer for me in terms of period pains.

Obviously if you can’t afford them you can’t afford them, but I wouldn’t assume 38 means it’s nearly over- my heaviest bleeding didn’t start till mid 40s, after many years of trouble free menstruation 😬

AnonSugar · 29/10/2025 07:46

I started on Modi-Bodi but now buy Wuka. They’re so much comfier and they stretch to fit S to XL I think so no need to worry about any extra pounds 😉

MrAlyakhin · 29/10/2025 05:52

Just a heads up for those of you with girls, lots of schools have period pants they give away for free (along with other period products).

Cost wise I bought three pairs from m&s for £16 and they work fine. I usually use tampons with them when very heavy and then just the pants. Never leaked. The pants don't smell and just go in the wash when I'm ready to do a wash.

I was sceptical but they're fab. My daughter has had period pants from starting and has only bothered with tampons because period pants don't work with skimpy ballet costumes.

Gremlins101 · 29/10/2025 05:30

I couldn't afford period pants, doesn't seem like a good investment now im 38 😄 but I love my washable pads a whole lot. They've been a game changer for me in terms of period pains.