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Why do Labour not get it?

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Dacatspjs · 28/10/2025 12:30

It's being reported today that Labour want to stop using hotels and move migrants into barracks. Fine. But when quizzed on it Luke Pollard has suggested this will be more expensive, but the public want the hotels to close at all costs so it will be worth it.

This to me just seems like another step forward for Reform. The public who care about this, care about how much the government is spending on migrant housing. A new policy that costs more isn't going to go anyway towards solving this problem.

I don't know what the solution is, but spending more money getting mothballed barracks up to spec seems ludicrous.

"Asked about whether it would cost more to house migrants at military bases than in hotels, Mr Pollard insisted that 'the public want to see those hotels close'.

But he added: 'We're looking at what's possible and, in some cases, those bases may be a different cost to hotels, but I think we need to reflect the public mood on this asylum hotels need to close.'"

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marshmallowmix · 31/10/2025 09:59

@CorneliaCupp yes I have actually as we had to ask them not to take a pxxx in our garden; we have a group living nearby and the are causing no end of mayhem.

What is next they break in to our home as happened to a woman in Canary Wharf a few months back.

Seriously I cannot get my head around this - why are you putting our own way of life and our safety at risk for a group of unvetted, unknown men it beggars belief.....is it a case of Stockholm Syndrome or something.

You keep defending them saying oh it is okay they mean no harm - we do not know that and what I've seen first hand it is the polar opposite they are shoplifting, anti social behaviour and unsavoury to put it mildly.

I won't reply to you any longer as I've seen your posts on this thread to others and it appears you are on a wind up so no point in engaging with you and we will never agree.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 31/10/2025 09:52

I don't believe asylum seekers are being held in luxurious accommodation. Even if the hotels were previously quite decent, they will presumably be well over their previous capacity. I'm sure at least a proportion of people in them are in genuine need and have fled persecution.
What I also think is:

  • We are not in a good place either economically or socially at the moment. There is a sense (and a reality) of decline and increasing division.
  • The men in these hotels are statistically a much greater risk to public safety than the average man.
  • There is absolutely no world in which I would think the types of crime we are seeing are acceptable collateral damage for taking in large numbers of non-citizens, regardless of their backstory.
  • People routinely underestimate the differences between cultures and the results of that. They seem to do so no matter how frequent, predictable and obvious these results are. You can't argue with stupid, but the reality is these people are promoting and defending a situation which makes primarily working class people, at the sharp end, less safe and more disenfranchised, and then calling them racists and liars, which is despicable.
  • The government have a primary duty towards their own people, and that's all I have to say about that.
  • I'm not a Labour supporter at all, but the problem is not primarily of their making, and I do think they're genuinely trying to get to grips with it.
CorneliaCupp · 31/10/2025 09:35

marshmallowmix · 31/10/2025 08:31

@FenceBooksCycle they are lucky they are in a room - shared or otherwise.

No one gives a fig that they have to bunk up…no other country is a soft touch like us.

In France they are given tents in fields and tents in large metal hangers all piled up. So they are on a winner coming here no longer in a tent.

No one is buying the sob stories.

Of course they are a danger take a look at the list of the countries they originate from …☹️.

Hopefully the next govt be it Reform or Conservative as it won’t be Labour deport those already here. That is the mood music now …

Have you ever met an asylum seeker? Spoken to one? Spent time with them?

marshmallowmix · 31/10/2025 08:31

@FenceBooksCycle they are lucky they are in a room - shared or otherwise.

No one gives a fig that they have to bunk up…no other country is a soft touch like us.

In France they are given tents in fields and tents in large metal hangers all piled up. So they are on a winner coming here no longer in a tent.

No one is buying the sob stories.

Of course they are a danger take a look at the list of the countries they originate from …☹️.

Hopefully the next govt be it Reform or Conservative as it won’t be Labour deport those already here. That is the mood music now …

SwingTheMonkey · 30/10/2025 22:57

SumUp · 30/10/2025 22:44

You misunderstand. Few societies sanction men being free to do whatever they like with women. It doesn’t work like that.

Perhaps Afghanistan under Taliban rule. But even so, Afghan men in the UK who express an opinion are horrified by the regime. Obviously, to express dissent whilst still in their home country puts their life at risk.

There are bad apples in any society. So yes, some refugees will be criminals. The trauma of war and being forced to flee, leaving all semblance of normal life behind, can distort some people’s minds too.

But equally, some white British nationals will also be criminals. One third of British men have a criminal record. 78% of violent crimes are committed by men.

No I haven’t misunderstood anything. A barracks full of men raised in a society that frowns upon men sexually harassing women and outlaws sexual assault aren’t going to pose anywhere near as much of a risk (although not zero risk, obviously) than a barracks full of men raised in society where women are second class citizens and abuse, sexual harassment and assault against women are quite accepted by the populace.

FenceBooksCycle · 30/10/2025 22:55

@MaturingCheeseball you miss the point. Did you consider that you were being kept in "5 star luxury" when you were sharing 4 to a room with total strangers with no privacy, no personal space or secure place for whatever belongings you had, no access to cooking facilities and barely adequate washing facilities. It's illegal for them to work to earn their living, so either they get kept alive at the taxpayers expense (and the hotel accommodation is basic, not luxurious) until their status can be determined, or they are expected to starve and die. The people who prefer the latter are disgusting. I wasn't asking that they get more or better treatment, just that the evil protesters stop complaining that we as a civilisation are treating fellow humans with humanity rather than killing them.

SumUp · 30/10/2025 22:44

SwingTheMonkey · 30/10/2025 21:16

Particularly when they’ve been raised in societies where men are free to do whatever they like with women…

You misunderstand. Few societies sanction men being free to do whatever they like with women. It doesn’t work like that.

Perhaps Afghanistan under Taliban rule. But even so, Afghan men in the UK who express an opinion are horrified by the regime. Obviously, to express dissent whilst still in their home country puts their life at risk.

There are bad apples in any society. So yes, some refugees will be criminals. The trauma of war and being forced to flee, leaving all semblance of normal life behind, can distort some people’s minds too.

But equally, some white British nationals will also be criminals. One third of British men have a criminal record. 78% of violent crimes are committed by men.

1457bloom · 30/10/2025 21:34

We should offer money to say, Rwanda, to take them.

SwingTheMonkey · 30/10/2025 21:16

SumUp · 30/10/2025 21:14

I’d be equally concerned if they were brown skinned male asylum seekers as young male military personnel. Males are the common denominator of threat to women and girls.

Particularly when they’ve been raised in societies where men are free to do whatever they like with women…

SumUp · 30/10/2025 21:14

EasternStandard · 30/10/2025 07:51

@SumUpwould you be ok with barracks nearby and do you have DDs who would be nearby?

I’d be equally concerned if they were brown skinned male asylum seekers as young male military personnel. Males are the common denominator of threat to women and girls.

MaturingCheeseball · 30/10/2025 20:55

@FenceBooksCycle cry me a river. Plenty of times I’ve slept four to a room.

MaturingCheeseball · 30/10/2025 20:55

@FenceBooksCycle cry me a river. Plenty of times I’ve slept four to a room.

FenceBooksCycle · 30/10/2025 19:06

The problem is that "the public" is thick as pigshit. The "hotels" the refugees have been staying at are not luxurious, they are in very basic accommodation. A room that was a double back when the hotel was being run as a hotel has 3 or 4 unrelated eefugees in it living a horrible experience. If other soutions would be more expensive then they should stick with using hotels and combat the evil misinformation that is being put about by racists and fascists who want to blame genuine refugees for all the world's ills.

suburburban · 30/10/2025 18:29

ChessBess · 30/10/2025 17:31

Also, you haven't done something special to earn your spot in the UK, it is literally luck of the draw. Just because you were fortunate enough to be born in a safe country it doesn't make you any more entitled to a safe life. We are all humans at the end of the day, sharing a rock floating through space

Of course it’s luck, but it’s the same in any country. It’s own citizens have rights that don’t extend to the rest of the word!! That’s how it works.

a bit Contentious but our judeo/christian heritage does play a part imo

24karatPalamino · 30/10/2025 18:24

CorneliaCupp · 30/10/2025 16:32

How do you know?
That all asylum seekers aren't a risk to women? Partly because I've met plenty, and they weren't, partly because we have no evidence to suggest that they are.
How can you tell which are and which aren’t?
By processing their claims asap, though of course you can never be sure, just as you can't tell which men are a risk to women.
How do you propose we ascertain this going forward to keep women and girls safe?
By processing their claims as fast and thoroughly as possible, tightening up our whole immigration system, and getting better at deporting any who commit crime or have their claims refused.
and if you can’t, what then?
What do you mean?

I don’t agree and I don’t think putting men from other countries first is my priority.
That’s all that’s there to it really. I’ll vote for a party that agrees.

sunflower1022 · 30/10/2025 18:08

ReginaPhalange1989 · 30/10/2025 17:54

I dont think youve been rude at all, you're just passionate and that's great 👍🏻

Your points are completely valid and I've enjoyed debating this with you without it turning into a "lefty looser, right wing fascist" type argument.. it's rather refreshing.

I also physically cannot dislike someone who loves friends too 🤣

Edited

I appreciate that, cheers

😁

ReginaPhalange1989 · 30/10/2025 17:54

sunflower1022 · 30/10/2025 17:14

And as much as we may disagree on this topic, great username @ReginaPhalange1989

(From a fellow Friends lover)

I dont think youve been rude at all, you're just passionate and that's great 👍🏻

Your points are completely valid and I've enjoyed debating this with you without it turning into a "lefty looser, right wing fascist" type argument.. it's rather refreshing.

I also physically cannot dislike someone who loves friends too 🤣

ChessBess · 30/10/2025 17:31

ReginaPhalange1989 · 30/10/2025 14:59

People who "should be here" in your opinion still murder and rape others. British people still make each others lives a misery.

Again, the media have done an excellent job of highly reporting any and every crime committed by migrants to stir the hatred up. The vast majority of them want a better life for themselves and their family, and want to get by without any trouble. Just because a small number of migrants are violent opportunists, it does not make them all criminals.

Also, you haven't done something special to earn your spot in the UK, it is literally luck of the draw. Just because you were fortunate enough to be born in a safe country it doesn't make you any more entitled to a safe life. We are all humans at the end of the day, sharing a rock floating through space.

"Did Brexit cause the boats arriving in Greece too?" - Well the amount of people displaced or forced out of their own country due to politics / war / laws has grown massively over the past 5 years, so everywhere is seeing more boats. I think you need to read up on the impact Brexit had on the numbers we're seeing, as leaving the EU means we left the members state "shared responsibility for asylum seekers". Since Brexit the EU has no shared responsibility with us, so they aren't trying as hard to stop them crossing the channel, as it is no longer their responsibility.

Also, you haven't done something special to earn your spot in the UK, it is literally luck of the draw. Just because you were fortunate enough to be born in a safe country it doesn't make you any more entitled to a safe life. We are all humans at the end of the day, sharing a rock floating through space

Of course it’s luck, but it’s the same in any country. It’s own citizens have rights that don’t extend to the rest of the word!! That’s how it works.

marshmallowmix · 30/10/2025 17:24

Labour don’t want to publish crime stats as they bear out what we are all saying …I think Afghans top the list of crimes per capita in U.K..

Labour are hiding it …utter shame on them.

These countries I listed earlier where they come from are all third world countries life is cheap and they see public hangings all sorts of stuff we simply can’t comprehend. They live by different rules and very different societies especially around women very very alien to our ways. Like the dog Walker stabbed mutliple times by an afghan just no….tell his wife and family oh let’s open our arms to these poor souls ..,no thanks our cravenness and kindness has destroyed us. It’s a mess. Someone has to do something.

suburburban · 30/10/2025 17:19

childofthe607080s · 28/10/2025 12:49

people moan at everything and are completely unaware of the practicalities of solutions

you don’t want any migrants , legal or not - we hear that loud and clear - but we need legal migrants and we don’t turn away those most in need and you can’t send them back - you mean build more and more big boats that just flap around between France and Britain as we each send them back to each other ? Or you mean hang on to them long enough to work out where “back” is - oh but then we need somewhere to put them.. back at square 1 .

Why do we need anymore

there is a shortage of jobs

we need to train or persuade people here to do the jobs

sunflower1022 · 30/10/2025 17:14

sunflower1022 · 30/10/2025 16:54

Look, I don’t want to argue and if I have come across as rude then I apologise.

Its just that I feel very strongly about this.

And while I agree that it’s MEN that are the problem (and believe me I know that as my husband’s brother is an abusive piece of shit and he’s all British) I am not comfortable with people advocating for unchecked immigration.

it has caused no ends of harm and misery in my country and I will not be told to keep quiet anymore.

And as much as we may disagree on this topic, great username @ReginaPhalange1989

(From a fellow Friends lover)

sunflower1022 · 30/10/2025 17:06

Zarai · 30/10/2025 17:02

In Denmark, the Social Democrats realised that concerns about immigration were attracting people to the far right, so they deliberately decided to restrict immigration to try to stop it happening, while still keeping left wing policies on all the other issues. It seems to have worked pretty well for them.

Denmark is such a beautiful country! My parents went there on holiday a few times when I was growing up and I have nothing but fond memories.

sunflower1022 · 30/10/2025 17:05

And also, people always think it’s ‘just’ women and girls that are in danger.

That’s not the case. There have been so many men and male teenagers killed by asylum seekers in Germany too.

One of the latest cases the 16 year old whose crime was to be at a supermarket at the wrong time.

So by all means complain about the patriarchy (which everyone knows is a problem, wherever in the world you may be) but let’s not ignore the bigger issue here.

Zarai · 30/10/2025 17:02

In Denmark, the Social Democrats realised that concerns about immigration were attracting people to the far right, so they deliberately decided to restrict immigration to try to stop it happening, while still keeping left wing policies on all the other issues. It seems to have worked pretty well for them.

EasternStandard · 30/10/2025 17:02

CorneliaCupp · 30/10/2025 16:32

How do you know?
That all asylum seekers aren't a risk to women? Partly because I've met plenty, and they weren't, partly because we have no evidence to suggest that they are.
How can you tell which are and which aren’t?
By processing their claims asap, though of course you can never be sure, just as you can't tell which men are a risk to women.
How do you propose we ascertain this going forward to keep women and girls safe?
By processing their claims as fast and thoroughly as possible, tightening up our whole immigration system, and getting better at deporting any who commit crime or have their claims refused.
and if you can’t, what then?
What do you mean?

Have a humanitarian scheme such as the Ukraine one and vet everyone first.

As Australia does. Ik you don’t like their system but you do want the same outcome and have indicated you would be ok with deporting people who arrive at the coast.

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