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To be so frustrated that mobile manufacturers seem to ignore women

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SavannahHannah · 27/10/2025 17:51

I want a phone I can hold and operate in one hand. Finding one these days is just impossible! I'm not in the market for a iPhone, I just want a not-too-fancy android phone. I'm happy to buy second hand if the battery is decent, but it feels like I'm looking for a unicorn!

All the ones I have tried are just too big. Too big to hold, to fit in a pocket, to operate the camera with one hand. It is so frustrating!

I know cameras have got big because video is such an important medium, but how many more women break or drop their phones because they just aren't made to fit their needs?

It seems such an obviously, overlooked area of the market.

If anyone has any non iPhone suggestions, I'd be really grateful!

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BerryTwister · 27/10/2025 19:02

I’m the same. I keep buying second hand iPhone SEs, but of course the batteries don’t last long, and now I’m finding there are several apps I can’t get on it (Nat west for example). But I want a small phone, as I hold my phone in my hand when I’m running, and my hands are small. I honestly don’t know how young people manage, their phones are often not much smaller than my iPad!

MousseMousse · 27/10/2025 19:02

I have man-sized hands yet I have the same struggle.

So either my hands aren't quite so manly as thought, or men have this trouble too.

NewYorkSummer · 27/10/2025 18:59

Pinkdaisie · 27/10/2025 18:31

Female and I’ve just ordered the new 17 pro max. My current phone is also a pro max. I prefer bigger phones.

Mine is a pro max. I much prefer bigger phones, I spend a lot of time on mine (do
practically everything on it) and a smaller screen just doesn’t work for me. It still fits fine in most of my pockets if need be.

BogRollBOGOF · 27/10/2025 18:44

People use phones with one hand???
Mindblown!

Admittedly I have small hands. Bloody nuisence for opening jars and lifting weights. I could lift heavier if I could actually get my hands around the bloody handles to grip the things.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 27/10/2025 18:39

It could equally be argued that manufacturers aren't taking men's needs into consideration because of the likelihood that women would use a handbag whilst men shove phones in their pockets at risk of getting scratched or cracked.

Balloonhearts · 27/10/2025 18:34

I have Samsung galaxy s20. That's fine for me to hold and use in one hand.

goldenautumnleaves25 · 27/10/2025 18:33

UX researcher. Everyone wants long battery life, and big batteries are - big. Bane of my life to try to make the things smaller, and then everyone (loads of women included)in research groups says they would never buy them as the battery doesn’t last, the screen is too small and the camera not big enough- and its too expensive.
I would love to create a small phone with a big screen and battery, long battery life, a replaceable battery and a reasonable price, but unfortunately the laws of physics say no…..

Ldpqndo · 27/10/2025 18:32

I love my Google pixel phone, small enough for me to use one handed. Nice to use and has an amazing camera

socks1107 · 27/10/2025 18:32

Yes I have an iPhone mini for this reason. Will be keeping it until it’s no longer viable to run as it fits in one hand nicely and all bags

Pinkdaisie · 27/10/2025 18:31

Female and I’ve just ordered the new 17 pro max. My current phone is also a pro max. I prefer bigger phones.

Cerialkiller · 27/10/2025 18:31

Yes! I complaint every time it's time to renew. It's impossible to get a newer phone that is same or smaller them my previous phone. Current phone is a pixel 8a and it was 'only' 6mm longer then my old one but also much heavier. DH doesn't understand it and I'm tired of explaining that 6mm bigger every 2-3 years adds up!!

I'm tall with big hands for a woman but the last two phones I couldnt use with one hand. I remember how valuable it was while my children were babies and I had one arm trapped under a feeding/sleeping baby, to be able to text/game/browse 1 handed.

If nothing else I'm surprised that someone hasn't seen a gap in the market and make a smaller model maybe with fewer features if needed. I wouldn't mind personally and I know there is a market for a simpler model (e.g. for children or my mum) anyway so shocked the big brands haven't seen this.

DuesToTheDirt · 27/10/2025 18:30

I need a new phone at some point to replace my iPhone SE and I really don't want to! I don't care about videos and spreadsheets, I do care about putting my phone in my (tiny, womanly) pockets.

OtherS · 27/10/2025 18:29

I still miss being able to type long essays on the number pad with one thumb, without looking! But cope ok with my Samsung S, I do most things one handed like unlock, pay, take photos etc. You can just double-click the power key to open the camera and then you can use the volume key to take pictures, or even set it to respond to "smile", or "cheese" etc! Which FYI is a godsend when you're on a camel... There's also a swipe-up function which means you can easily pay for stuff one-handed. And I've never ever broken or even noticeably scratched the screen on a Samsung, despite not using a screen protector.

Still have to use two hands to type though, and I'm significantly slower and more error-prone than I ever was with my thumb :(

Pebbles16 · 27/10/2025 18:28

That is why I won't retire my iPhone 8 until it dies (which may be soon). I am a short person with small hands etc, these big enormous phones fill me with fear because I'd be dropping them.

Periperi2025 · 27/10/2025 18:28

LupinLou · 27/10/2025 18:25

Pixel 8 is smaller than the Pixel 7. I hoped they might shrink the non pro models slightly smaller but it seems they're getting bigger again. I can just about use mine one handed, and I'd prefer something slightly smaller but this was the least worst option at the time.

I've used my pixel 5 (6 inch screen) to the point of failure (battery now overheats) and I'm going to miss it's small size.

Summerhillsquare · 27/10/2025 18:27

I have a Fair phone, and small hands, and it does the job.

They are also repairable yourself, no conflict minerals or child labour, and very durable.

donteventhinkaboutthat · 27/10/2025 18:26

Oh I have literally just read a part in a book about this very problem.

The book is called Invisible Women and yes we have been left out.

There are so many aspects to this that I can’t do justice but there’s an assumption from apple that women keep their phones in a handbag so aren’t worried about pockets.

we struggle to take a photo with one hand on an iPhone so in time sensitive situations we’re disadvantaged.

it’s shocking and fascinating at the same time. I’d really recommend the book.

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Princessfluffy · 27/10/2025 18:26

Hard agree OP. I too have an iPhone mini and do t want to change to a bigger phone that hurts my hands

LupinLou · 27/10/2025 18:25

Periperi2025 · 27/10/2025 18:04

Google pixel, but not the 'pro' option. The 'A' models are the smallest.
Today I've ordered a refurbished pixel 7 pro for the telephoto zoom, but I'm concerned I'm going to regret it because of the size. I wish they made a smaller phone with such a great camera so i didn't have to make this decision.

Pixel 8 is smaller than the Pixel 7. I hoped they might shrink the non pro models slightly smaller but it seems they're getting bigger again. I can just about use mine one handed, and I'd prefer something slightly smaller but this was the least worst option at the time.

Tiebiter · 27/10/2025 18:24

I'd love a smaller phone and fewer adverts on Mumsnet so the screen could easily read a few posts still.

HedwigEliza · 27/10/2025 18:24

Amazing how people see misogyny everywhere they look, and how desperately hard they try to find it!

RitaFromThePitCanteen · 27/10/2025 18:22

YANBU. I thought I was the only one. I'm not a particularly dainty woman or anything but I do have quite small hands and it irks me that phones have to be used 2 handed now. I'd happily pay for a smaller phone that could be used one handed and also fit in my pocket.

I actually did manage break my previous phone by dropping it while carrying it one-handed. It's definitely a thing.

GagMeWithASpoon · 27/10/2025 18:22

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 27/10/2025 18:08

No, it is a thing, they’re was a book out about it a few years ago. Just about everything is designed for the male frame, including vital safety equipment like seat belts; and yes, phones.

However, phone handsets are not likely to get much bigger, or they will be too large for the average male hand. And we can’t have that, can we?

How do you explain the huge popularity and the constant race to make the smallest phone in the 00’s? Thinner, smaller, flip phones etc.

In this day and age, this is consumer driver. High quality and resolution cameras for SM and high quality/resolution PLUS a bigger screen for watching stuff. This is what people want. This is what they’re given. Half a tablet basically.

Luckily I like iPhones and I don’t care about the latest model so I just buy mini versions.

modgepodge · 27/10/2025 18:20

FrippEnos · 27/10/2025 18:04

YABU, but only because you think that its ignoring women. Most of the people that I know would love a smaller phone, both female and male.

The data doesn’t suggest this is the case though. Apple stopped making minis as they didn’t sell well. though, that could because the smaller battery is crap. Mine has to be charged multiple times throughout the day at 3 years old, even when I’m not really using it.

stargirl1701 · 27/10/2025 18:18

Yup. I miss my iPhone 3 so much.

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