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To Think My Puffer Coat Is Making Me Depressed

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ProcrastinatorsAnonymous · 26/10/2025 17:24

I hate puffer** coats. I hate them so much. The shape, the texture, the dull colours. It might be shallow, but I find nice clothes an easy way to boost my mood. I like colour, surprising combinations, interesting shapes... However, various lifestyle changes mean I'm outside much more than I used to be, so a couple of years ago I caved and bought one from Uniqlo. It works. It keeps me both dry and warm. As all the marketing promises, I do indeed feel like I am wearing my duvet - which I admit can be quite nice.

But now the weather has turned, the thought of putting it on is making me so sad! I can't rot away in this slug-like thing from now until March.

Has anyone found a decent knee length one with a hood in a colour other than black, grey, khaki, navy, sludge brown or beige? I would love electric blue or bright green, or - god forbid - even a pattern. Does such a thing exist? I'm wiling to pay for it. Cheaper than therapy.

** I hate it even more when people spell it "puffa coat"

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Crikeyalmighty · 26/10/2025 19:14

@Libertysparkle - sold- I’m buying it !!

Terrytheweasel · 26/10/2025 19:12

I like the Stella Mcartney x Adidas puffer jackets but they’re probably too short for you.

I don’t wear a puffer, but if I was going to, I’d probably go for the pink M&S one from the children’s section a previous pp suggested

or this cool northface longline in this silvery colour and wear a colourful wooly hat as you could wear any bright color with this. Very versatile imo.

www.asos.com/the-north-face/the-north-face-hydrenalite-city-long-down-hooded-parka-in-smoked-pearl/prd/209093857

Trallala · 26/10/2025 19:12

How about these & stunning colours and patterns

https://sittingsuits.co.uk/products/lobster

LOBSTER

Lobster Sittingsuit.

https://sittingsuits.co.uk/products/lobster

musicmum75 · 26/10/2025 19:11

Roman Originals has lots of brightly coloured puffer jackets.

Fairydustand · 26/10/2025 19:09

That's actually nice

justasking111 · 26/10/2025 19:07

Tomorrowtodaywhenever · 26/10/2025 18:28

Omg same. I have had mine in every day for a month now and I feel so dowdy.
I saw a lovely faux fur coat in hobbs the other say and thought.. shall I.... can I 😂
The reality is I have boys and am often hauling muddy equipment in and out of the car and it would be a wreck in a short time.
I might still buy it though!!

Ah but you can chuck it in the washing machine. Dries fast too.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 26/10/2025 19:06

I bought myself a Superdry Fuji long length coat ( took the hood off as I'm not a fur fan) mainly because it has narrow sewed channels for the filling and that filling is recycled plastic not feather or down (which I don;t wear )
I wore it last year in Bruges & Amsterdam in December ( cold) and every other middle aged woman like me was wearing one so it felt quite comforting .

They do have some in bright colours , depends if you;d wear Superdry though .

I would look like Hayley Cropper from Corrie in a red coat though .

ProcrastinatorsAnonymous · 26/10/2025 18:58

balticdotcom · 26/10/2025 18:43

I feel you. Absolutely hate puffer coats with a passion and guess what?? I’ve never owned one, and you don’t have to either 😄. Donate it, get a nice wool coat, or a nice warm waterproof coat. Get a hat, umbrella, scarf gloves! There’s loads of ways to stay warm and dry without the puffer coats! Free yourself 🥳🥳🤣🤣

The problem is the sodding bike - nothing else is as waterproof and warm and easy to cycle in...

A wool coat would be soaked and heavy, a waterproof with fleece not as warm - or v bulky with enough layers to make it as warm, and a lot to be putting on / taking off all the time.

I stayed warm and dry for 40 years without one and swore I would never buy one - but then committed to this damn school run on a bike, and now my previous methods aren't cutting it.

I think it's a lost cause, and the best I can hope for is a colour or pattern that doesn't want make me want to shrivel and give up entirely.

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purser25 · 26/10/2025 18:55

Seasalt do nice waterproof raincoats but they are not puffer jackets but still warm

JJWT · 26/10/2025 18:53

ProcrastinatorsAnonymous · 26/10/2025 17:24

I hate puffer** coats. I hate them so much. The shape, the texture, the dull colours. It might be shallow, but I find nice clothes an easy way to boost my mood. I like colour, surprising combinations, interesting shapes... However, various lifestyle changes mean I'm outside much more than I used to be, so a couple of years ago I caved and bought one from Uniqlo. It works. It keeps me both dry and warm. As all the marketing promises, I do indeed feel like I am wearing my duvet - which I admit can be quite nice.

But now the weather has turned, the thought of putting it on is making me so sad! I can't rot away in this slug-like thing from now until March.

Has anyone found a decent knee length one with a hood in a colour other than black, grey, khaki, navy, sludge brown or beige? I would love electric blue or bright green, or - god forbid - even a pattern. Does such a thing exist? I'm wiling to pay for it. Cheaper than therapy.

** I hate it even more when people spell it "puffa coat"

I have this Orla Kiely one from Regatta

To Think My Puffer Coat Is Making Me Depressed
MoominMai · 26/10/2025 18:51

Butteredtoast55 · 26/10/2025 18:05

I agree, and don't get me started on long puffer gillets!

Oh noo! I used to see people in those and get irrationally angry about them thinking what a completely pointless article of clothing. I mean, they’re neither one thing nor the other!

Until that is I saw one in the Petite Outerwear sale where nothing much exciting ever comes up so it looked quite exotic in comparison to its muted sludgy jackets and coats left in either size 4 or an 18 like no inbetween ever! And it was in my size and I’m ashamed to say I went for it haha.

And now I get it! I love it! It’s great because if you need to nip somewhere on the car it leaves your arms very flexible and free to drive and put easily put bag over your shoulder, not get overheated too quickly and it looks quite nice also if you’ve got a lovely brightly coloured jumper underneath. I could go on lol but suffice to say I seen the light and am converted! 🙏🏼💛

lifeonmars100 · 26/10/2025 18:49

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 26/10/2025 18:46

I don’t know why my post has ben hidden, but Tresspass has a women’s insulated, waterproof parka that comes in bright blue and bright pink.

I like your user name!

Laiste · 26/10/2025 18:48

Howtoaccept · 26/10/2025 18:41

@Laiste I have nothing to add on puffs coats apart from general dislike. Complete derail what was the silly question about the lemon? 🍋

He was asking me why lemon and lime cordial is not the same as having real lemon in a hot lemon and honey drink.

I was trying to think about that and type about washing puffs coats 😂

BlackSheepThisYear · 26/10/2025 18:48

Cotopaxi- all the colours!

Fairydustand · 26/10/2025 18:47

Sometimes I have adored a coat with all my layers underneath,then caught a glimpse of my self in a shop window, looking like a chicken,skinny legs and huge top half..urrrr🤣

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 26/10/2025 18:46

I don’t know why my post has ben hidden, but Tresspass has a women’s insulated, waterproof parka that comes in bright blue and bright pink.

crackadawn · 26/10/2025 18:46

Your being completely unreasonable and of course haven't got the right puffer

OhMaria2 · 26/10/2025 18:44

Are big faux fur coats still a thing? I looked like a honey monster in my grey one but it was ( slightly)less depressing than my puffer jacket

Katemax82 · 26/10/2025 18:44

I also hate puffer coats. My husband got me a coat of my choice a few years ago so I got a purple wool coat from the white stuff. He hates it and says it makes me look like Alf garnets wife