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For not paying nearly £20 for a second hand coat?

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Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

OP posts:
Worriedalltheday · 26/10/2025 19:09

Yes you are being cheap. It’s 18, did you want it for a pound? It will serve the purpose for a while so surely it makes sense to get the coat you want to do its job.

HedwigEliza · 26/10/2025 19:09

Namechangerage · 26/10/2025 18:11

£150 is a bit much… but a proper wool winter coat that’s 30 years old is probably way better quality than anything in the shops now! Prices have gone up but the quality has gone down. This mindset of “it’s 30 years old, it’s worthless” is so bad for the environment.

If it was anything half decent, I wouldn’t have a problem with it. I have coats that age myself. But this guy is oblivious, and his stuff is crap. That’s what I object to.

MoominMai · 26/10/2025 19:09

I am not making the point that I can't afford the coat its the point that in a charity shop I wouldn't pay £20 for a second hand coat.

You seemed to like it though but obviously not enough to pay £20. Doesn’t make it wrong for it to be priced at that point. Yes of course charity shops make the occasional errors of pricing eg fast fashion tat for too much but they are run by mainly a gang of volunteers who likely have their own pricing methods and I guess not all shops have a vigilant manager to always notice this. But in the main they do price appropriately as there will be LT staff that knows what sells at what price point.

As far as the coat goes, I’d spend up to whatever my budget was for a good coat. If I saw one in a charity shop and it was perfect for me I’d spend no different to anywhere else as in if I think the cut, fit, quality, label etc. justified the price then I’d pay otherwise I’d just leave it 🙃.

Mangetoutmangetouti · 26/10/2025 19:06

GarlicHound · 25/10/2025 16:18

I bought two last week - a new one for £90 and a Vinted one for £25. Both the same fabric. I love them both, but probably love the Vinted one more. If you like it, will wear it and have got £20, buy it!

Please share pics/ make / style , am intrigued by the fabric?

lifeonmars100 · 26/10/2025 18:55

it depends on the brand, the fabric and the condition

DilemmaDelilah · 26/10/2025 18:49

I've just bought a brand new coat in the sale at Sainsbury's. It was £12.

Foundress · 26/10/2025 18:42

I am glad you finally got a coat @Sbrown32. This thread has reminded me of well over 45 years ago I bought a full length dark brown 1940’s fur coat from Oxfam. It was £5. A fair amount at the time. I was a student with let’s just say an ‘individual’ style. I wore that coat for years all winter every winter. I absolutely loved it. I donated it back to Oxfam. They sold it again for £35 I saw it in the window. I was so sad I nearly bought it back again 😂.

Kellogs4 · 26/10/2025 18:42

Where can you buy a coat for £20 in a shop these days? Even a return at sports direct cost £5 these days. YABU.

BlunderBust · 26/10/2025 18:39

I volunteer in a charity shop - prices are set by head office and are based on brand and type of item working on a percentage of the average cost new. If a brand isn’t listed we research on eBay and vinted to find a fair/reasonable price.

The costs of rent, electric and paid staff have gone through the roof lately so prices have naturally increased. I hope that you (and everyone else) keep shopping in your local charity shops - it’s touch and go at the moment for the one I work in 🙁

PlaceIntheClouds · 26/10/2025 18:35

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:39

I think, because I know its only going to be used for a few months it just seemed expensive.

What about next autumn and winter?

Cakeandusername · 26/10/2025 18:32

Depends on brand and condition. There were some beautiful designer/brand name coats in charity shops near my DD’s uni, donated I assume by international students who had headed home. They wanted £20 which seemed fair as the coats looked brand new.

stichguru · 26/10/2025 18:29

Given that the person giving this coat, if they've only used it for one pregnancy, has probably only used it for bits of some days for maybe 4-5 months or less, I think £18.50 is reasonable. I would normally have the same coat for YEARS!

cornflakecrunchie · 26/10/2025 18:28

I've had money & I've been broke. I hate the thought of Vinted - who's been in those clothes before?
The top end clothes from charity shops are recognisable if they are a few seasons old. Some do over estimate the prices they charge.
OP, take no notice of other posters, buy what you want to buy at a price you want to pay!
My favourite coat? One from Debenhams (when they were Debenhams) 30 years ago. I still get so many compliments on it, & take care of it by hanging it correctly between wearings!

hcee19 · 26/10/2025 18:27

Sometimes you may have to pay a little more....Fgs, if it bothered you that much don't buy it...

Blablibladirladada · 26/10/2025 18:24

I agree with you. If no branding then it is way too expensive!

You can have a new one for that price on SHEIN or temu…

Chinsupmeloves · 26/10/2025 18:20

I paid £12 for a good quality winter coat in the 1990s so doesn't seem too bad if you will wear it for years to come. Vinted is my fave now, an online second shop and so cheap! Xxx

EH1768 · 26/10/2025 18:18

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

Hi find it really odd that people moan about the prices in charity shops. It’s a fundraiser. If you don’t want to pay their price go elsewhere. You don’t say how much you would pay for a new coat, or what the “new” price of this coat would have been. The latter would presumably have been considerably more than £18.
This issue is not new, it’s been on chat rooms in this area for at least 15 years. Pay the price or go elsewhere.

Namechangerage · 26/10/2025 18:11

HedwigEliza · 25/10/2025 20:39

There’s a local guy on Olio who drives me absolutely mad, listing and re-listing all his cast-offs for ridiculous prices.

No one wants to pay £20 for a twenty year old shirt. He has a winter coat listed for £150 and admits it’s thirty years old! Tatty old kitchen equipment you can buy new for cheaper, and garden ornaments that belong at the dump.

I’m often tempted to ask him why he hasn’t got the message - no one will pay for this tat. He’d be lucky if someone wanted it for free!

£150 is a bit much… but a proper wool winter coat that’s 30 years old is probably way better quality than anything in the shops now! Prices have gone up but the quality has gone down. This mindset of “it’s 30 years old, it’s worthless” is so bad for the environment.

Thegladstonebag · 26/10/2025 18:11

CaroleLandis · 25/10/2025 17:43

Can you afford to raise a child if you are scrimping over the boat of a coat?

Rude!!

Millertime9 · 26/10/2025 17:52

Wait, you ranted about the price of something in a charity store?
Youre not being unreasonable, no, youre being a horror

Blueyrocks · 26/10/2025 17:52

Bagsintheboot · 25/10/2025 16:11

Surely it depends on the brand and the quality.

£18.50 for a second hand polyester Primark coat is a rip off. £18.50 for a second hand woolen Aquascutum is a bargain.

Yes! I got a lovely Aquascutum wool coat second hand for I think £40 - total bargain.

ColdWaterDipper · 26/10/2025 17:52

It depends on the brand for me - I’d happily pay £20 for a decent condition second hand Seasalt or Passenger coat for example, but I would mMy pay that much for a marks and Spencer or Next one.

I do agree with you though that some charity shops have gone mad with their pricing - £3 for a supermarket child’s t-shirt is bonkers!

NecklessMumster · 26/10/2025 17:49

I paid £25 last week in a charity shop for a long Barbour raincoat, I thought it was a bit £££ but it looks nice, is waterproof and £150 ish new

Soontobe60 · 26/10/2025 09:22

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:39

I think, because I know its only going to be used for a few months it just seemed expensive.

When the shop decided on the price, I don’t think they took your pregnancy into account! Everyone only wears a winter coat for a short time. I mean, I dont wear mind in august.

Renamedyetagain · 26/10/2025 09:08

Pointless post. £20 for 2nd hand Shein/primark = no.

£20 for 2nd hand John Lewis/Hobbs/Monsoon/Mint Velvet =bargain.

I just paid £50 in a charity shop for a long length, deep red, wool/cashmere mix coat from Pure. RRP about £400 new.

Plus, it's not just about paying as little as possible. It's raising money for charity..

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