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For not paying nearly £20 for a second hand coat?

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Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

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Sartre · 27/10/2025 11:51

Depends on its value when new. I snagged an oversized weekday coat for £20 on Vinted, it’s £180 new so I mean… No damage at all, the seller clearly had more money than sense.

pollymere · 27/10/2025 11:22

My DH just bought a suit in a charity shop for £65. It's actually a bargain because it looks like new and apparently you can still buy it for £269.

I think prices have just gone up and charity shops have done likewise on the nicer items.

Daisymay1000 · 27/10/2025 11:10

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

I mean the logical sane answer would be to just not buy it surely?

VeneziaJ · 27/10/2025 10:24

I have never got “gotten” second hand clothes for less than £10 to be honest especially decent ones. £18.50 sounds absolutely fine for a second hand good quality coat! A bargain if a good make

Postcardsender · 27/10/2025 08:44

Contrarymary30 · 27/10/2025 00:15

I work in a charity shop pricing for the last 10 years . It would have to be something very special to warrant that price. The big charities ie Cancer research , Banados , mind etc are very overpriced IMO . Try the local indepdant charities who don't pay massive wages to their senior managers and price reasonably.

You must live in an economically challenged area then.
I have paid £80 for an old coat from a charity shop before and I thought it was worth every penny. That shop does very well and makes a great contribution to breast cancer research, which is its primary goal.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 27/10/2025 00:19

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 25/10/2025 18:41

These replies are ridiculous (well it is MN so what do I expect?).

Of course you don't want to pay that much...you go into a charity shop to get a bargain that you don't have to think about too much. Charity shops have so much stuff donated that I often feel cheeky for donating and they'd make more money if they charged less and had a faster turnover. The charity should extend to the customers.

The last coat I got was a vintage John Lewis wool coat in excellent condition. It was £3.99. In my town, most of the charity shops still have reasonable prices.

Either the staff are idiots or they know that's the max they can get in your town,

They will price to what they can get in the OP's town, and reduce if it doesn't sell.

Contrarymary30 · 27/10/2025 00:15

I work in a charity shop pricing for the last 10 years . It would have to be something very special to warrant that price. The big charities ie Cancer research , Banados , mind etc are very overpriced IMO . Try the local indepdant charities who don't pay massive wages to their senior managers and price reasonably.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 27/10/2025 00:13

It depends on the quality of the coat

But you are being unreasonable to think that is generally a lot of money for a second hand coat of half decent quality, it isn't at all

Sarahthehelper · 27/10/2025 00:09

You are definitely being cheap , I don’t send my unwanted clothes to charity shops now because people expect to buy them for pennies , I’d rather sell them on vinted and give the cash to the charity

EH1768 · 26/10/2025 23:48

AleaEim · 26/10/2025 19:36

I agree, 20 is a lot, doesn’t matter what brand, it’s second hand at the end of the day. You could nearly get a new coat for that price in primark.

Yes, in Primark, if you want to shop in Primark. All retailers price their items as they see fit, and customers buy or don’t buy. Same goes for OP and the charity shop. This is not a new conversation.

Laurmolonlabe · 26/10/2025 23:27

unfortunately I think you are being unreasonable- secondhand prices have moved on.
Expecting to only pay 10% of the original value was never really reasonable £20 for a coat originally costing £200, only really possible if it is in poor condition.
A winter coat is an investment, so spending decent percentage of your annual clothing budget is reasonable expectation, so do you only spend £150 a year on clothes- then £20 on a winter coat would be reasonable.

slashlover · 26/10/2025 22:59

Can I please ask that those of you who know better than those of us who have volunteered/worked in a charity shop for years please apply to volunteer? You clearly can do the job better.

I've had people moan about prices before. It's a Barbour wax jacket without a mark on it for £40 when it's 6 times that price new. Or a £10 computer game when CEX is selling it for £25 preowned and will give you £9 voucher for trade in. It's a BNWT dress priced at £70, I promise you that £10 isn't expensive, if you don't want to pay that then we have a wide selection for less than £5 and there are even lots on our £1 rail.

Postcardsender · 26/10/2025 22:28

I feel like we get this question every few months and I can never understand it.

Charity shops exist to make money for their charities (cancer, hospices, hearts, animals).

They do not exist to provide cheapskates with clothes at ridiculously low prices (that they can later turn over for a profit on Vinted).

If you want to pay £5 for a winter coat, haggle at a car boot sale as the stalls are packing up. Don’t go to a high street charity shop that has to pay rent, utilities, insurance, staff costs, and maintenance before they can earn a cent for their charity.

FeetLikeFlippers · 26/10/2025 22:15

This happened to me once and I very reluctantly parted with £20 for a nice wool coat in a charity shop only to discover it would have cost £350 new! The problem was, moths got to it after a couple of years and I can’t afford to replace it!

HevenlyMeS · 26/10/2025 21:23

Yes immensely true 💚

AllTheChaos · 26/10/2025 20:58

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 17:42

Once I have the baby, I hopefully won't be the same size! I maybe wrong but I have done up 2/3 sizes so it will be to big for me.

Although, somebody has suggested to use it to wrap baby in too so it maybe for a bit longer than expected

Fingers crossed for you! You wouldn’t believe how much weight I put on AFTER I had mine 😂

RavenhairedRachel · 26/10/2025 20:53

It really does depend on the make but I have to agree some charity shops are trying it on. There's one local to me who charges more for Primark and Matalan clothes than they cost new.

Mangetoutmangetouti · 26/10/2025 20:42

GarlicHound · 26/10/2025 20:10

Too lazy to take pictures, sorry! I was wrong: the fabrics are different.
The £90 coat's Gap: black, long, double-faced, oversized, shapelessly swishy, 50% wool, 40% poly, 10% other.
The £25 one's bright red, thigh length, A-line (swing shape), 70% wool, 20% poly, 10% cashmere, lined with nylon 'silk'. Both are really pleasant to wear. No brand on that one.

I looked on Vinted for a big, swishy coat but everything under £100 in my size looked shabby and I can't be arsed to keep going back for repeat searches. That was when I saw the red one, though, and had to have it!

I'm impressed by other people's designer bargains from Ebay & Vinted. I suspect they hunt like professionals, and I simply don't care enough to put in that much effort. Plus I'm a size 16 and there are a lot more people selling designer stuff in 8-12.

I put in way too much effort into my hunts but I’m ND so it kinda goes with the territory!
the coats sound fab, I love a swishy one, I’m middle heavy so a belt doesn’t suit and neither does a straight up straight down

TitsInAbsentia · 26/10/2025 20:39

Mademetoxic · 25/10/2025 19:27

People can sadly lie online about the quality of goods. If you're in a shop it's there in front of you.

I bought a very specific thing to wear for an event and the seller didn't send it so vinted refunded...luckily I had a back up ordered from elsewhere but yes, there is a downside to vinted!

GarlicHound · 26/10/2025 20:10

Mangetoutmangetouti · 26/10/2025 19:06

Please share pics/ make / style , am intrigued by the fabric?

Too lazy to take pictures, sorry! I was wrong: the fabrics are different.
The £90 coat's Gap: black, long, double-faced, oversized, shapelessly swishy, 50% wool, 40% poly, 10% other.
The £25 one's bright red, thigh length, A-line (swing shape), 70% wool, 20% poly, 10% cashmere, lined with nylon 'silk'. Both are really pleasant to wear. No brand on that one.

I looked on Vinted for a big, swishy coat but everything under £100 in my size looked shabby and I can't be arsed to keep going back for repeat searches. That was when I saw the red one, though, and had to have it!

I'm impressed by other people's designer bargains from Ebay & Vinted. I suspect they hunt like professionals, and I simply don't care enough to put in that much effort. Plus I'm a size 16 and there are a lot more people selling designer stuff in 8-12.

BeDeepExpert · 26/10/2025 19:48

It all depends on the quality as other posters have pointed out. It’s also for a good cause. Don’t forget the fees and postage charges on Vinted (an order of mine has gone astray as we speak!🙄).

AleaEim · 26/10/2025 19:36

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 17:09

I agree with this, I grow up shopping in charity shops due to us having no money and was speaking to my mum about it today. You used to get some nice clothes for £1 - £2 ect and I would rather spend money in the charity shop to help out a good cause etc. We have a charity shop that has everything's for £3 or less and its always busy and always asking for stock, I have found some really nice things and some stuff that I still have a few years later.

I know the cost of living has gone up, keeping stores open have become more expensive but you're more likely to sell more at a cheaper price that having it on the shelves or like you said handing it back etc.

I agree, 20 is a lot, doesn’t matter what brand, it’s second hand at the end of the day. You could nearly get a new coat for that price in primark.

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 26/10/2025 19:32

I'm not sure we have enough info to accurately decide. Context is everything here.

F&F brand that was £25 originally they were unreasonable

Canada Goose that retails an inexpensive of £300 then £20 is actually cheap.

I buy most of mine and dd's clothes second hand. Primarily from vinted as I have recourse if they are damaged etc. But dd is now at senior school, having the wrong brand is social suicide. Everyone has brands like Superdry. I can't afford upwards of £100 so £20-30 from Vinted is my saviour.

lackofvitamindd · 26/10/2025 19:26

I’ve noticed charity shops are getting wayyy more expensive…. I got a lovely coat for £2.10 from Vinted (plus postage) so about £5.50

Mangetoutmangetouti · 26/10/2025 19:10

I live right by a charity shop so often donate things.
It makes me sad when I go in and see my items sitting the for weeks because of the high prices. I sell whatever I think is worth it on Vinted and give away everything else.
its horrible to see a coat I donated for sale at £20-25 and dresses £10 +
we don’t live in a rich area at all, very working class and deprived

I understand the overheads but way too many big charities spend too much on merchandising and branding and it’s a shame for the end users, many of whom go to charity shops because they can’t afford retail shops , even primark when benefits payments are so tight now