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For not paying nearly £20 for a second hand coat?

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Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

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TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 25/10/2025 16:46

The cost is based on its brand, quality and condition, not how long you personally will use it for. I think in your situation I would get a cheap low quality one and supplement it with a nice warm scarf.

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:45

GarlicHound · 25/10/2025 16:28

I get what you're saying - but it's not like you're buying antiques or investments. Unless you're running a resale business, you buy clothes to wear and enjoy! A coat that keeps you warm and dry, looks good and makes you feel nice is worth what that is worth to you, no matter the original price new.

Completely agree with this! I am not really bothered about brands, most of them I wouldnt know if it was quality or not I just go for the one I like the look of and it fits, in good condition etc.

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FreyjaOfTheNorth · 25/10/2025 16:44

in another thread you say you spend £25 on a takeaway for 2 people. So £25 is reasonable to you for mediocre food for one meal. But £18.50 for a good coat that will last all winter and beyond causes you to have hysterics in a charity shop?

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:41

LoudSnoringDog · 25/10/2025 16:15

Look on vinted. I’ve just picked up an amazing next winter coat for £8

I bought all of my baby clothes on Vinted (no many in charity shops near me) but when it comes to clothes for my I like to go and look/try them on. Plus help out a charity but may start having a look on there for a few items in the future

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Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:39

FuzzyWolf · 25/10/2025 16:13

A good quality second hand coat for £18.50 that is still in good condition sounds fine to me.

I think, because I know its only going to be used for a few months it just seemed expensive.

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devildeepbluesea · 25/10/2025 16:39

By and large I find charity shops have basically priced themselves out of a lot of the market with Vinted’s rise and rise. Anything with a Boden label is £££ regardless of condition.

But I did find a 100% leather M&S long coat in Oxfam a couple of years ago for £25, it looked barely worn so I did buy that.

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:38

Bagsintheboot · 25/10/2025 16:11

Surely it depends on the brand and the quality.

£18.50 for a second hand polyester Primark coat is a rip off. £18.50 for a second hand woolen Aquascutum is a bargain.

Yeah, I get you. Unfortunately I didn't recognise the branding of the coat just kinda saw the cost a popped it back. I don't usually care about the brand but the qulity and the state of it. Even primark prices have gone up!

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Supersimkin7 · 25/10/2025 16:37

Charity shops have too much stuff, pricing high makes no sense.

They need it gone more than you need it period.

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:37

BedlingtonFloof · 25/10/2025 16:11

I’ve paid more than that for a second hand coat more than once. Several of them are still going strong many years later, so I sort of think you’re being unreasonable, but we all pay as much as we’re willing I suppose.

I do get your point, maybe its because I know I will only be using it for a few months and it got my back up a little? Not to sure, I paid £5 for my yellow rain jacket and I have had that for a few years, I love it but unfortunately doesn't fit at the moment

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Theunamedcat · 25/10/2025 16:35

I paid less than that for a brand new one in the sale

What was the brand?

Meadowfinch · 25/10/2025 16:33

My last new heavy wool coat cost £250

£18.50 seems a reasonable price for a s/h good quality pure wool coat in good condition. .

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:33

Dartmoorcheffy · 25/10/2025 16:10

How much would it have been new? I don't mind paying that sort of money for good quality.

I am not to sure as I didn't recognise the brand of coat tbh.

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Mymanyellow · 25/10/2025 16:32

If it’s a decent wool coat then I think it’s a bargain. Including the dry clean price on top.

housethatbuiltme · 25/10/2025 16:31

I only own one winter coat that I have had for near 15 years now, its worn all through autumn, winter and spring so 3/4th of the year and was bought in a charity shop second hand and still going strong.

I have had WELL more than £20 worth of wear out of it tbf.

luckylavender · 25/10/2025 16:29

I paid £20 for a nearly new M&S one recently.

caringcarer · 25/10/2025 16:28

It's still a lot cheaper than a new one. I don't think £18.50 is unreasonable if it's a decent coat. Prices have gone up everywhere even charity shops.

GarlicHound · 25/10/2025 16:28

Tiredofwhataboutery · 25/10/2025 16:16

I think in general I’m willing to pay up to 20% of the original value of a second hand item in good condition. I prefer to pay closer to 10% if I can. So if it was £100~ 150 originally I’d definitely consider it however I’d be happier if it was £150+ originally.

I get what you're saying - but it's not like you're buying antiques or investments. Unless you're running a resale business, you buy clothes to wear and enjoy! A coat that keeps you warm and dry, looks good and makes you feel nice is worth what that is worth to you, no matter the original price new.

illsendansostotheworld · 25/10/2025 16:27

I just bought a 2nd hand Next one from a charity shop for £25 but it is in mint condition and a really good quality coat so depends really

BallerinaRadio · 25/10/2025 16:27

I'd say yeah you're being cheap.

What do you get for £20 these days?

TheGoddessAthena · 25/10/2025 16:27

Obviously depends on the coat.

100% wool, originally sold by Hobbs for £250 - total bargain.

100% polyester, originally sold by Primark for £30, not so much.

liamharha · 25/10/2025 16:27

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

Some Charity shops are ridiculous these days , sometimes cheaper to buy new

BarbaraHavers · 25/10/2025 16:26

When faved with a pricey item in a charity shop, I always ask myself "Would I pay that for it on Ebay?" And if the answer's yes, I buy it. I think the days of buying clothes from charity shops for pennies are over.

Done2much · 25/10/2025 16:24

prices have gone up everywhere including in charity shops!

I agree with PPs that all depends on the quality and condition of the coat as well as the brand. I've paid over £20 for a warm coat from a charity shop but I've also been able to buy one for less than £10

Maybe try vinted as suggested

Good luck!

WatchingTheDetective · 25/10/2025 16:24

As others have said, it depends on its original price. On Vinted I'll pay up to 25% of the original price if it's from certain brands and as new.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 25/10/2025 16:22

That's really cheap.

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