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To think processed and pre cooked food is way too common in this country?

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HotPotLove · 24/10/2025 10:11

Before you all start yelling at me, I know that there are of course millions of households that eat a healthy diet, cook from scratch all the time, carefully choose ingredients etc etc. But my feeling as a foreigner (have been living in the UK for almost a decade though) is that ultra processed food, pre cooked and ready meals etc are very much normalised here and part of most people every day life. It’s pretty obvious just by looking at the supermaket aisles really.
Curious to know if people are generally trying to stay away from these and make healthier choices or whether it is generally so embedded into our lives that we are not even noticing?
Second disclaimer is that I am not pointing any fingers, infact I often buy these myself but what makes me think about this is that I would have never bought these types of meals when living back in my own country (also less available than here overall)

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oldFoolMe · 24/10/2025 15:16

On a recent holiday to Morocco I found out healthy foods and fresh foods are subsidised by the government, upf are heavily taxed. Feels like this is the way forward considering how much upf effects our health and ultimately the extra cost burden on the NHS.

WithIcePlease · 24/10/2025 15:15

@snowwhiteisfeelinggrumpy
45g of protein per day for an adult female is the amount needed not to be protein deficient. It's not enough for optimal health which is substantially higher.

The protein in pasta is poor quality and not well absorbed compared to protein in animal sources. It lacks the essential amino acids to make it a complete protein.

I am a bit preoccupied with my protein needs after doing much research after an accident a few years ago which cost me most of the muscles in my legs.

chipofftheoldblock · 24/10/2025 15:14

IcedPurple · 24/10/2025 14:58

Mediterranean people have such a strong culinary culture and possibly less of this scarcity mindset

Southern Italy is one of the poorest regions in Western Europe. That's why it's traditionally been the source of high levels of emigration, both to the richer Northern regions of Italy, and abroad. And parts of Sicily and Calabria have very harsh terrain. Not long winters, that is true, but it's never been an easy place to live.

As so often, there's a lot of romanticisation of 'other countries' on this thread.

I know Italy has poverty 🙄 But it has a landscape that provides in a way that much of the UK hasn'/doesn't. Much of the north of the UK, particularly west, it's basically rocks with a thin layer of earth and you're lucky if you can grow potatoes. Taking a little boat out fishing on to the Med in November is a little less treacherous than taking one out onto the North Sea or the Atlantic Ocean. The Sicilians will have had poverty but the quality of food they would've had access to year round on the whole would have been a bit more varied and plentiful than someone from say Shetland or Lewis.

Westfacing · 24/10/2025 15:13

IcedPurple · 24/10/2025 14:59

You mean a cheap, reasonably healthy, easy to prepare meal?

No.

Obviously all European countries have cheap, reasonably healthy and easy to prepare meals.

I'm talking about something that takes max three minutes to produce and is such a staple of a nation's diet.

reversingdumptruckwithnotyreson · 24/10/2025 15:11

IcedPurple · 24/10/2025 14:58

Mediterranean people have such a strong culinary culture and possibly less of this scarcity mindset

Southern Italy is one of the poorest regions in Western Europe. That's why it's traditionally been the source of high levels of emigration, both to the richer Northern regions of Italy, and abroad. And parts of Sicily and Calabria have very harsh terrain. Not long winters, that is true, but it's never been an easy place to live.

As so often, there's a lot of romanticisation of 'other countries' on this thread.

The food/meal habits is still healthier imo and being one of the poorest doesn’t necessarily translate into bad food.

I also come from a god forsaken middle of nowhere and the food is still pretty good. Lots of bread, olives, cheese, cured meats, fruit, vegetables.

Not the fanciest, sure, but a lot more sustaining than what we have commonly available these days.

AmethystAnnotation · 24/10/2025 15:06

Grammarnut · 24/10/2025 14:21

I think you missed the changes, which came in c. 1989/90. Thereafter food tech seemed to be about products - my DD did GCSE in what would have been needlework but amounted to little more than learning about design - she did not learn the things I learned at school, to set a sleeve and collar, french seams, cutting a pattern etc. Afaics she learned nothing that would be useful to her later if she wanted to make her own clothes, it was more geared to getting a job in the garment industry (reasonable aim but not applicable to all). If I remember correctly the course was called fabric technology.
I do remember cookery teachers complaining that they were no longer teaching students to cook either a variety of dishes or a variety of methods (presume you did flaky pastry along with shortcrust, rough puff pastry and choux pastry? which are all useful, of course, if not necessarily healthy in themselves, since they allow the preparation of pies, puddings and pastries).

Yes, we did a range of pastry, with both sweet and savoury fillings. The needlework was actual sewing techniques - we made two styles of bag, I remember, and a cuddly toy, all by hand, and other things I don't recall.

I actually think learning to use a sewing machine would have been useful, but I suspect health and safety ruled that one out. I learned to use a sewing machine from my mum but I'm not hugely confident or adventurous with it, as long as it's feasible, if I need to sew nowadays (altering/mending mostly) I do it by hand. I have made curtains and cushion covers using the sewing machine but the finish wasn't exactly professional 😣

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 15:05

reversingdumptruckwithnotyreson · 24/10/2025 15:04

Just say you can’t be bothered lol obviously “throw” in this case is a way of saying it’s quickly sorted

Throw is a way of using language to make a task sound faster than it really is. People always use this language on threads explaining how quick and easy cooking is

WithIcePlease · 24/10/2025 15:05

Italian childhood obesity is thought to be due to the drifting away from the traditional diet from what I have read and a marked difference from older generations

reversingdumptruckwithnotyreson · 24/10/2025 15:04

BerryTwister · 24/10/2025 13:07

Is it Ok to just put the tomatoes and pasta in the pan, or do you have to throw them?

It’s always the same on these food threads - the people banging on about home cooked food and how simple it is, always do a lot of throwing 😂

Just say you can’t be bothered lol obviously “throw” in this case is a way of saying it’s quickly sorted

SeagullSam2027 · 24/10/2025 15:00

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 14:54

I’ve spent time in plenty of other countries thanks.

what difference does it make if Italian kids are obese because they spend too much time gaming and eating pasta? They’re still obese.

It doesn't. A sedentary lifestyle combined with loading up on cheap carbs and high fat cheese is just as much of an issue as obesity caused by other food types.

IcedPurple · 24/10/2025 14:59

Westfacing · 24/10/2025 14:57

Is there a European equivalent of beans on toast for dinner?

You mean a cheap, reasonably healthy, easy to prepare meal?

IcedPurple · 24/10/2025 14:58

chipofftheoldblock · 24/10/2025 14:53

Everyone saying all countries like this (or that Italy etc are just "behind" us) makes me wonder if any of these people have ever spent any time in other countries.

If Italian kids are obese I suspect that's more to do with increasing sedentary lifestyles, computer games etc and eating big portions of pasta and good cheese than eating TV dinners and pot noodles 7 nights a week.

I am from Yorkshire and my child's dad is Italian and our food cultures couldn't be more different. I wonder if it is in part down to how we've developed through the ages. I have evolved from a scarcity background, limited food types in a harsh terrain and harsh climate with long dark winters... so when I see something high fat and high sugar I have the overwhelming primal urge to scoff it like I won't eat for a week (when in fact I'll probably eat in a couple of hours). So I think me and my people are perfect targets for the marketing of this high sugar high fat processed crap! Mediterranean people have such a strong culinary culture and possibly less of this scarcity mindset so they just don't fall prey to this kind of food marketing to the same extent..

I'm not well off, I eat pretty well and the most expensive stuff I buy from supermarkets is the processed stuff. Eating semi healthily and well is neither cheap nor massively time consuming, lot of people kidding themselves when they say that it is. I respect that loads of factors eg ASN kids, disability, mental health issues etc can make home cooking less accessible and I don't think people with these barriers should be made to feel guilty for grabbing convenience food but most people could eat well they just can't be arsed.

Mediterranean people have such a strong culinary culture and possibly less of this scarcity mindset

Southern Italy is one of the poorest regions in Western Europe. That's why it's traditionally been the source of high levels of emigration, both to the richer Northern regions of Italy, and abroad. And parts of Sicily and Calabria have very harsh terrain. Not long winters, that is true, but it's never been an easy place to live.

As so often, there's a lot of romanticisation of 'other countries' on this thread.

Westfacing · 24/10/2025 14:57

Is there a European equivalent of beans on toast for dinner?

FoxLoxInSox · 24/10/2025 14:54

I used to agree with views like the OP’s, back when I had my health, decent income, some support, and a tidy home.

Now that I’ve developed a lifelong debilitating mental illness, cognitive impairment from the meds, struggle to even have enough cups clean to drink out of and get exhausted just from making my kids packed lunches I think statements like the OP’s is bullshit preserve of the privileged, healthy and lucky. DFOD.

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 14:54

chipofftheoldblock · 24/10/2025 14:53

Everyone saying all countries like this (or that Italy etc are just "behind" us) makes me wonder if any of these people have ever spent any time in other countries.

If Italian kids are obese I suspect that's more to do with increasing sedentary lifestyles, computer games etc and eating big portions of pasta and good cheese than eating TV dinners and pot noodles 7 nights a week.

I am from Yorkshire and my child's dad is Italian and our food cultures couldn't be more different. I wonder if it is in part down to how we've developed through the ages. I have evolved from a scarcity background, limited food types in a harsh terrain and harsh climate with long dark winters... so when I see something high fat and high sugar I have the overwhelming primal urge to scoff it like I won't eat for a week (when in fact I'll probably eat in a couple of hours). So I think me and my people are perfect targets for the marketing of this high sugar high fat processed crap! Mediterranean people have such a strong culinary culture and possibly less of this scarcity mindset so they just don't fall prey to this kind of food marketing to the same extent..

I'm not well off, I eat pretty well and the most expensive stuff I buy from supermarkets is the processed stuff. Eating semi healthily and well is neither cheap nor massively time consuming, lot of people kidding themselves when they say that it is. I respect that loads of factors eg ASN kids, disability, mental health issues etc can make home cooking less accessible and I don't think people with these barriers should be made to feel guilty for grabbing convenience food but most people could eat well they just can't be arsed.

I’ve spent time in plenty of other countries thanks.

what difference does it make if Italian kids are obese because they spend too much time gaming and eating pasta? They’re still obese.

Unescorted · 24/10/2025 14:53

Fivegreenfrogs · 24/10/2025 13:20

This is a really privileged and abilist take though isn't it?
You seem to be blaming people for not cooking from scratch or suggesting ready meals shouldn't be as available.
Fact of the matter is some people need ready meals because of their lives.
If they are disabled.. if they are living in poverty and don't have cooking facilities.. if they work ridiculous shift hours and don't have the time or energy to cook from scratch.
I rely on ready meals a lot as a nightshift worker. I do not have access to an oven on my 12 hour shifts. I am eating at unusual times which means I'm cooking for myself alone alot. I do my best to choose healthier options but I do rely on pre cooked food a lot. I'm not going to be able to sit and chop vegetables and roast meat.
You want to change this it's about tackling poverty.. tackling social care issues.. tackling the cost of living and working conditions.
It's not about shaming people or removing a food source which would make their lives harder and more expensive.

I read the OP differently. Not so much as caused by people but by the industrialisation of the UK's food production. This is happening in other parts of the world - it was Brazilian scientists that devised the NOVA classification of foods.

However in the UK it is quite stark at the prevalence and rise of industrially manufactured foods. I live in an area that has 3 Tesco that I go into - it is noticeable that the one located in the least well off area has much more shelf space given over to ready meals and a smaller vege section. Even if you want to buy fresh food from that store it is more difficult than the ones in the better off areas. This was not the case when I was growing up.

I am enraged by the way the food industry is manipulating our buying and cooking habits. Fun fact - the food industry uses the same tactics as the tobacco industry to push unhealthy foods.

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 14:53

Blusteryskies · 24/10/2025 14:46

That's because it's an M&S ready meal. Go and look at Tesco's, Aldi's or Asda's cheapest lasagne ready meal and I'm sure you'll find it's full of added junk and salt. The premium versions of everything are generally UPF free or have minimal UPF, while the cheapest versions are loaded with them. This is true across the board - jar sauces, cakes, biscuits, pizzas etc. As usual it's the poor who suffer the most.

This is true but it also makes the moniker of “all upf bad” nonsense.

chipofftheoldblock · 24/10/2025 14:53

Everyone saying all countries like this (or that Italy etc are just "behind" us) makes me wonder if any of these people have ever spent any time in other countries.

If Italian kids are obese I suspect that's more to do with increasing sedentary lifestyles, computer games etc and eating big portions of pasta and good cheese than eating TV dinners and pot noodles 7 nights a week.

I am from Yorkshire and my child's dad is Italian and our food cultures couldn't be more different. I wonder if it is in part down to how we've developed through the ages. I have evolved from a scarcity background, limited food types in a harsh terrain and harsh climate with long dark winters... so when I see something high fat and high sugar I have the overwhelming primal urge to scoff it like I won't eat for a week (when in fact I'll probably eat in a couple of hours). So I think me and my people are perfect targets for the marketing of this high sugar high fat processed crap! Mediterranean people have such a strong culinary culture and possibly less of this scarcity mindset so they just don't fall prey to this kind of food marketing to the same extent..

I'm not well off, I eat pretty well and the most expensive stuff I buy from supermarkets is the processed stuff. Eating semi healthily and well is neither cheap nor massively time consuming, lot of people kidding themselves when they say that it is. I respect that loads of factors eg ASN kids, disability, mental health issues etc can make home cooking less accessible and I don't think people with these barriers should be made to feel guilty for grabbing convenience food but most people could eat well they just can't be arsed.

Arrivederla · 24/10/2025 14:50

FuzzyPuffling · 24/10/2025 11:11

It is pretty insulting. You could carry on eating "Italian style" and leave everyone else to their own choices.
It's coming across as rude.

It's not coming across as rude to me!

I'm British but I lived in Italy for years, and I would say that there are many things that are better in Britain (standard of driving 😱!) but there really is no argument that people eat better in Italy. There seems to be more understanding and knowledge about food and nutrition, and much less reliance on ready meals.

Instead of being automatically offended, why don't we stop and think about why we have got to this point here and what we can do about it?

It's a big thing in Italy to eat together as an extended family, and so eating good food and knowing how to cook it is passed down through the generations. Unfortunately this happens less in the UK (in my experience) and it's a vicious circle; how can people pass on food knowledge to their children if they've never been taught it themselves?

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 24/10/2025 14:49

Also you can check the actual diet of British people using the 2019-2023 diet and nutrition survey if you’re interested - https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/national-diet-and-nutrition-survey-2019-to-2023/national-diet-and-nutrition-survey-2019-to-2023-report

Northumberlandisbest · 24/10/2025 14:46

I found when travelling through France and Italy that there were far fewer ready meals available in supermarkets. We seem to have aisles full of them here.

Blusteryskies · 24/10/2025 14:46

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 12:04

What’s wrong with ready meals though? I think a lot of people who say this haven’t even read the ingredients in a ready meal.

Go into marks and Spencer’s and read the ingredients list in their lasagne. There is nothing in there you wouldn’t add yourself if making it from scratch. many ready meals are like that in the uk.

That's because it's an M&S ready meal. Go and look at Tesco's, Aldi's or Asda's cheapest lasagne ready meal and I'm sure you'll find it's full of added junk and salt. The premium versions of everything are generally UPF free or have minimal UPF, while the cheapest versions are loaded with them. This is true across the board - jar sauces, cakes, biscuits, pizzas etc. As usual it's the poor who suffer the most.

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 24/10/2025 14:44

LingonberryLemon · 24/10/2025 14:43

In the Italian equivalent of Lidl they have ready meals like salad with walnuts, olives and a small sachet of dressing. It’s difficult and expensive to find ready-made salads like that in UK stores.

Except they sell those in most supermarkets…

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 24/10/2025 14:43

Why would we yell? You’re completely correct. However this is the case for most high income nations now. Even in Japan, lauded for its low obesity rates, where I used to live the shops were stuffed full of ultra processed food.

LingonberryLemon · 24/10/2025 14:43

In the Italian equivalent of Lidl they have ready meals like salad with walnuts, olives and a small sachet of dressing. It’s difficult and expensive to find ready-made salads like that in UK stores.

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