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Beginning to agree “ working class “ are getting less send support.

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Passthebiscuit12 · 22/10/2025 23:34

the news articles have been talking about this a lot in the recent days. They have also been some terrible articles about well off parents getting support when not needed for exams etc.

I never really thought about it before however my DC is what they call an “ inbetweener” we applied for Sen schools in the area and they said no due to not fitting in their cohort ( academically behind but not enough and is able )

mainstreams said no as too complex. We were lucky that none is the mainstreams said yes and they couldn’t place in any of the local maintained Sen schools that Dc was placed in an independent Sen school that runs mainstream education. This school has higher than average fees due to it being classed as Sen. But academics are great with 100 percent English GCSEs 4-9.
its a unique school and we do love it but 100 percent of the children were LA funded ( doesn’t shock me ) but out of 19 in DC year only 2 are what you call “ working class “ including us. The other family was lucky to know how to manage tribunal but it was a fight to get their place. I wonder why there is not a higher average of working class children in the school considering no one is paying fees and the LA are. I would of imagined there would have been more of a mixture of backgrounds.

do you think it is harder for working / lower class to get the support for their Sen children from the LA ?

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x2boys · 23/10/2025 09:01

A lot of of it is to do with the high cost of funding from the LA I think this is an issue for many, more academically able children whose need ,s can't be met in mainstream, LA,s are very reluctant to shell out ££££,s
So yes if you have more money to take if to Trubunel etc you are more likely to be successful securing a place for your child.

Maisieandmia · 23/10/2025 08:55

i don't think it's that middle.class children are getting support they don't need. I think it's that LEAs refuse to provide support wherever possible, often illegally, hoping the parents will just give up. It's more likely to be the middle class families who have the education and money to be able to take the LEA to court successfully, and force them to provide the support their children are entitled to.

MumChp · 23/10/2025 01:38

Have been like this for a long time now.