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what size/weight do you think iam?

237 replies

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 19:48

im 5ft 7.

what  size/weight do you think iam?
OP posts:
freedo · 22/10/2025 20:14

People tend to look bigger in photos.

GreyChicken · 22/10/2025 20:14

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

You're definitely not fat! At all!

Please don't let that comment get to you.

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:14

About size 10/12 and about 10 and a half stone I’d guess

FairyRobot · 22/10/2025 20:14

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

By who??!!!! That’s insane. You are not fat in any way.

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:14

@Qwertyop

Because 13 stone at that height does not look like that in photos

UnintentionalArcher · 22/10/2025 20:13

Difficult to say because the photo is close up and a bit blurry (which I think probably makes you look bigger than you are). I would also guess a 10 or a 12 (probably 10). No idea on weight but I’m bad at guessing that. It depends a lot on frame and build and it’s especially hard to tell from that photo. You don’t look especially athletic in build, however, so perhaps around 10 stone.

Isittimeformynapyet · 22/10/2025 20:13

Irritatedandsad · 22/10/2025 20:08

You look quite tall compared to me. I would say you are about 5 foot 6 or 7. You look about a size 14, but as you are tall you don't look overweight, but not slim, just kind of average weight for your height. So i would say about 12 to 13 stone and size 14 but taller than average.

No prizes for getting the height right seeing as OP told us.

LillyPJ · 22/10/2025 20:13

Size 12/14..Weight 10 stone.

Namechanged999999 · 22/10/2025 20:13

No idea.

Comeonbabylightmyfire · 22/10/2025 20:13

No idea but that dress is doing you no favours.

Qwertyop · 22/10/2025 20:12

Zempy · 22/10/2025 20:07

I’m the same height as you @Doggymummar. I’m also size 8-10 and I weigh eight stone 12.

It really is interesting how weight varies.

Exactly this and this is why answers will vary wildly.

I got a 🤔 from a poster above but my post is based on my actual weight and size when I look like that and I’m the same height. So it’s true that you can look like that and be the weight / size I said, because I am.

Interestingly people underestimate my weight, not that it’s something I ever really discuss, if it ever comes up randomly in conversation. Some people carry weight “well”.

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

OP posts:
Gwenhwyfar · 22/10/2025 20:12

Size 10. Difficult to evaluate weight without also knowing your height, but you seem quite tall and slim.

Splat92 · 22/10/2025 20:12

You're the same height as me and look a similar size, and I'm 11 stone and size 14 so I would guess around the same.

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:10

I think the OP looks a size 10-12.

I'm 5 4 size 8 to 10 and 10.6.

I'm 5ft 9 and at that weight I am not a size 8.

Teado · 22/10/2025 20:10

Size 12/14 - in proportion - and 12 st 5 ish.

Wingingit73 · 22/10/2025 20:08

Size 10

Irritatedandsad · 22/10/2025 20:08

You look quite tall compared to me. I would say you are about 5 foot 6 or 7. You look about a size 14, but as you are tall you don't look overweight, but not slim, just kind of average weight for your height. So i would say about 12 to 13 stone and size 14 but taller than average.

Zempy · 22/10/2025 20:07

Doggymummar · 22/10/2025 19:58

Agree, people are drastically under guessing. I'm 5 4 size 8 to 10 and 10.6. at 5 foot 7 she is nearer 13 stone

I’m the same height as you @Doggymummar. I’m also size 8-10 and I weigh eight stone 12.

It really is interesting how weight varies.

Hibernatingsloth · 22/10/2025 20:07

Size 14, no idea with weight.

Eleph42 · 22/10/2025 20:06

U look great. 11 stone size 10/12

IamNannyPlum · 22/10/2025 20:06

Size 12-14 and about 11-12 stone?

Zempy · 22/10/2025 20:05

Size 12. About 10 and a half stone?

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:03

You look tall and slim

Exactly! some of the responses on her make no sense

RiseOfTheTeenyTinies · 22/10/2025 20:02

You look tall and slim so dress size 10 or 12 and I think about 10st