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what size/weight do you think iam?

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takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 19:48

im 5ft 7.

what size/weight do you think iam?
OP posts:
Disturbia81 · 22/10/2025 20:20

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:14

@Qwertyop

Because 13 stone at that height does not look like that in photos

I look like that at 13 stone 5ft 7. Wide skeleton so I carry weight well. We are all different shapes

GreyChicken · 22/10/2025 20:20

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

She was lying. Trust me. What a bitch!

Attempt333 · 22/10/2025 20:19

Size 14 ?

SilenceInside · 22/10/2025 20:19

@takeadaytomyself2025you’re not fat, you don’t look fat, and you are slimmer than the “average” UK woman by a decent margin.

Whoever it was that said that to you is a twat, for trying to insult you by calling you names, and for being plain wrong anyway. You surely don’t think they are right? And even if you were fat, so what? It’s something that’s said to women to try to shame us and to make us feel inadequate for just existing in the world.

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 22/10/2025 20:19

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

She’s being a cow then. You’re very clearly fairly slim.

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:19

@Qwertyop post a headless photo and let's see

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 22/10/2025 20:19

Youre a bit slimmer than me but a fair bit taller so I’d say 68kg and a size 10-12?

Original poster
takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

OP posts:
freedo · 22/10/2025 20:18

@takeadaytomyself2025 it's completely obvious that you are a 10-12 at that height & have a lovely figure. You are in no way fat.

DailyEnergyCrisis · 22/10/2025 20:18

Size 12 and around 10 or 11 stone I think.

Gingercar · 22/10/2025 20:18

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 22/10/2025 19:51

11 stone
Size 12 - 14

I’d say that too. And you look great at that weight.

(sorry I missed your post. Please don’t let an idiot using a lazy insult upset you. You aren’t fat!)

LillyPJ · 22/10/2025 20:18

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

I'm the same height as you, weigh more than a stone less and never have less than size 12! Strange how different we all are. You are definitely not fat.

123teenagerfood · 22/10/2025 20:17

12 to 14 around 12st

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:17

Qwertyop · 22/10/2025 20:16

😂😂😂😂

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Not sure why you’re laughing. Why don’t you post a photo of yourself at 13 stone and apparently looking very similar to the OP’s figure

WhereAreWeNow · 22/10/2025 20:17

I would have guessed size 12 @takeadaytomyself2025 . I'm hopeless at guessing weight so wouldn't even try.
You don't look in the slightest bit fat. Whoever said that to you was being a dick.

Izzywizzy85 · 22/10/2025 20:17

You’re not fat, OP. I’m sorry someone was so unkind to you. I hope you told them to go and fuck themselves. Rude prick.

plan4now · 22/10/2025 20:17

Doggymummar · 22/10/2025 19:58

Agree, people are drastically under guessing. I'm 5 4 size 8 to 10 and 10.6. at 5 foot 7 she is nearer 13 stone

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Meanwhile I’m 5’10, 10 stone and a size 10-12. When I was a size 8, I was 9 stone.

I think the op is a size 12 and probably 10 to 10.5 stone.

Honeypickle · 22/10/2025 20:17

UnintentionalArcher · 22/10/2025 20:13

Difficult to say because the photo is close up and a bit blurry (which I think probably makes you look bigger than you are). I would also guess a 10 or a 12 (probably 10). No idea on weight but I’m bad at guessing that. It depends a lot on frame and build and it’s especially hard to tell from that photo. You don’t look especially athletic in build, however, so perhaps around 10 stone.

You made the same mistake I did! If you click on the photo, it’s a full length, non-blurry one!

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 22/10/2025 20:17

Between a 12 - 14 size.
I think you weigh about 12 stone.
You look great BTW.

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:16

Qwertyop · 22/10/2025 19:55

Size 14 and around 13 stone. I’m the same height as you and that’s what I am when I look a similar shape to you.

But it’s hard to judge with just one straight on photo.

Yes in your dreams you might look like the OP when you weigh 13 stone 😂

Qwertyop · 22/10/2025 20:16

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:14

@Qwertyop

Because 13 stone at that height does not look like that in photos

😂😂😂😂

Qwertyop · 22/10/2025 20:16

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

Don’t let it get to you. You look brilliant and definitely not fat. And even if you were fat, someone saying that to you says more about them than it does about you.

Hold you head up (and take a less fuzzy photo 😂)

Prettyrosess · 22/10/2025 20:15

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

You are not fat OP - the commentator must be jealous of your figure.

Nuffalready · 22/10/2025 20:15

You look great! Ignore them!

Gwenhwyfar · 22/10/2025 20:15

"I'm 5 4 size 8 to 10 and 10.6."

People are so different. I'm one inch shorter than you, a size 10 to 12 and around 8 stone 5. So you're two stone heavier than me while being a size smaller at a similar height.