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what size/weight do you think iam?

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takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 19:48

im 5ft 7.

what size/weight do you think iam?
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LindtCurves · 22/10/2025 20:42

Size 14, 14 stone? I looked something like that at that height, size and weight

NewDogOwner · 22/10/2025 20:41

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

This person was being a dick. You look great but that dress with the big spots isn't the most flattering.

BernardButlersBra · 22/10/2025 20:40

Well, she was a bitch. You're slim with a great figure. Zero chance of you wearing a size 16

MsTamborineMan · 22/10/2025 20:38

Goditsmemargaret · 22/10/2025 20:31

You're wrong. I'm OP's height and when I was 13 stone looked very like that.

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Yeah I thought I looked liked that too at 13 St 🤣

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:35

Goditsmemargaret · 22/10/2025 20:31

You're wrong. I'm OP's height and when I was 13 stone looked very like that.

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As I said in my previous post I doubt it although I can believe that you think you look like that.

Izzywizzy85 · 22/10/2025 20:32

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

i can’t ever imagine a scenario where I’d be rude enough to ask someone what size dress they’re wearing. She was going out of her way to be a cow.

Goditsmemargaret · 22/10/2025 20:31

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:16

Yes in your dreams you might look like the OP when you weigh 13 stone 😂

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You're wrong. I'm OP's height and when I was 13 stone looked very like that.

Gwenhwyfar · 22/10/2025 20:31

HesarealJacquelineHigh · 22/10/2025 20:25

How can it be difficult to evaluate without knowing her height when the only bit of writing on the post tells you her height?🤔

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I missed it. It can happen.

BengalBangle · 22/10/2025 20:31

Size 12 and around 11 stone.

I suspect that your dress makes you look larger around the waist in this photo than you are in RL.

DiscoBob · 22/10/2025 20:30

Size 10-12/ 9-10.5 stone. You look slim and a healthy weight.

Anxietybummer · 22/10/2025 20:28

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

You should just feel sorry for her, she’s clearly lost her mind.

Gowlett · 22/10/2025 20:28

Size 12 / 11 stone

BelatrixLestrange · 22/10/2025 20:27

Ooh, at least 35 stone and a size 42

ttcat37 · 22/10/2025 20:26

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

So were you called fat or did someone say they thought you might be a size 16?

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:26

For a start she has very slim legs and hips which you wouldn’t have with a wide skeleton

Exactly

Titasaducksarse · 22/10/2025 20:26

Size 12. 101/2 stone

SP2024 · 22/10/2025 20:26

I would say about a size 12 and probably about 12.5 stone at your height.

Anxietybummer · 22/10/2025 20:25

Size 10. 10 stone.

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:25

However in my head I’ve thought I look like the OP but the photos tell an entirely different story

Nail on head @Glowingup 😆

Also a lot of people overestimate their height, so many people tell me I must be 5ft 11 etc because they are 5ft 9, nope.

HesarealJacquelineHigh · 22/10/2025 20:25

Gwenhwyfar · 22/10/2025 20:12

Size 10. Difficult to evaluate weight without also knowing your height, but you seem quite tall and slim.

How can it be difficult to evaluate without knowing her height when the only bit of writing on the post tells you her height?🤔

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:24

Disturbia81 · 22/10/2025 20:20

I look like that at 13 stone 5ft 7. Wide skeleton so I carry weight well. We are all different shapes

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I have a wide skeleton at 5’7” too and I look much bigger when I am 13 stone. However in my head I’ve thought I look like the OP but the photos tell an entirely different story and I am sorry but I do not believe that you look anything close to that slim at that weight and height as you’d be not far off being obese. Have you looked at the full length picture rather than just the torso? For a start she has very slim legs and hips which you wouldn’t have with a wide skeleton

RedRiverShore5 · 22/10/2025 20:23

You look that very average slimmish size that looks good in most clothes and probably everything fits well.

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:23

@Disturbia81 but the OP doesn't have a wide skeleton

CarrotCrusader · 22/10/2025 20:22

You have a lovely figure and I love your outfit.

Isittimeformynapyet · 22/10/2025 20:21

Attempt333 · 22/10/2025 20:19

Size 14 ?

You've missed the denouement