You’re both good and pretty enough. If it helps at all I’m 5ft 10”, 11 stone and a size 10-12 too and I’ve been called fat before. I have a friend who is 5ft 4” and just under 9 stone, size 8, athletic, and has been called anything from fat to my favourite ”relatively slim” and another size 8-10 friend was bought a pair of size 16 PJs by her skeletal in-laws because they “thought she was that size because she’s so much bigger then their size 6 daughters” who lived off red bull, fags, white bread and bad karma. it was bollocks.
let’s not forget the celebrities who were called fat in the 2000s when they weren’t at all, Kate Winslet and Jessica Simpson for example.
I learnt in my late 30s something I wish I’d learned a lot earlier, fuck other peoples opinions on your body. Everyone will have their view and some arseholes insist on sharing them. You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, otherwise you’d be a mug. ☕️