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To think that if a high school theater department can do three shows a year, one should be a dramatic play and there shouldn’t be two musical plays?

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YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 17:42

20+ years ago when I was a teenager, I did theater through my school, which is an American private school. (It was a joint theater department with another private school nearby.) I follow the theater department on social media, and I saw that this year, they’re doing a fall musical, a winter dance production, and a spring musical. The fall musical is based on children’s books that my kids like, and although ideally I’d like to take them to see the show, I feel frustrated and a little angry that they’re doing two musicals.

When I started high school, it was understood that the fall play was always a dramatic one without singing roles. I have absolutely no vocal talent, but I was excited to have the chance to try out for the fall productions.

My first year of high school, I was called back for the second round of auditions for the fall play, but the part I was being considered for went to a senior (last year of high school). That was okay with me. I joined the set crew. My second year of high school, the director broke with decades of tradition and announced that we were doing a fall musical as well as a spring musical. I was disappointed, but, once again, was on set crew.

My third year of high school, we had a dramatic play again and I was cast in a supporting role. Three scenes, two costumes, chance to do an accent - great experience and fun memories. (I even started dating another cast member who’s now my husband of thirteen years. 😁)

My fourth and last year of high school, the dramatic play had a tiny cast with only five roles. As with my first year of high school, I auditioned, went through to the second round, and was not cast. Prior to that, I’d been involved in every show but one, but I just felt burned out with the whole thing. I sat out any involvement with the fall and winter shows, though I came back to do set crew for the spring musical because it was my last chance to work on a production with my friends.

I was not owed any roles, but I joined high school theater with the understanding that I got four chances to try to be in a fall play. Instead, I got three, which felt more like two and a half because the cast of the senior year fall play was so small. (The other fall plays had casts of a dozen or more.) Am I wrong to think that if a school theater department has the ability to do three productions a year, there should be one dramatic play and not two musicals? It’s a different skill set, and even if I didn’t “make the team,” I wanted the chance to try for it. The adults who ran the department while I was in high school are all still there in their same jobs, FWIW, and have a lot of experience putting on dramatic plays.

I don’t usually dwell on things from high school, but, as I said before, they’re doing two musicals this year and that’s brought all my old feelings up to the surface.

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Topseyt123 · 22/10/2025 17:59

I don't see the issue at all, nor why it should bother you so much.

If you like the production then buy a ticket/s and go, if you don't then don't.

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 17:58

Oldandcobwebby · 22/10/2025 17:52

My daughter's school produces musical theatre productions, because it allows the school orchestra a showcase, along with actors and singers. It gives more pupils a chance to take part, not just a handful.

The orchestra thing is a fair point.

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YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 17:56

Smartiepants79 · 22/10/2025 17:46

I think you’re hugely over invested. This is a school you have no connection with anymore? Your kids don’t go there??
I can’t even begin to understand why you would care what their production choices are? It’s a shame you’re disappointed but it really doesn’t affect you at all.

I went there from kindergarten through to the end of high school, and it’s a school with a strong alumni culture. As I said, I usually don’t spend time thinking about this, but seeing the announcement on social media brought it to mind again.

Aside from my personal experience, I’m also just curious to see what people think about the situation in general.

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RhaenysRocks · 22/10/2025 17:56

I know what you're getting at. A musical EXCLUDES those who can't sing but maybe amazing actors. A dramatic play is in fact open to anyone interested in stage performance. My DD falls into the first category (she can but prefers very much not to sing). By having a variety of shows, it widens the options. I don't think ticket sales should come into it for a school theatre .

mamagogo1 · 22/10/2025 17:54

Musicals tend to be able to accommodate bigger casts plus involve musicians too so more can be involved. A play may be just a few people. My dd did one play but mostly musicals because they struggled to sell tickets for the play

Oldandcobwebby · 22/10/2025 17:52

My daughter's school produces musical theatre productions, because it allows the school orchestra a showcase, along with actors and singers. It gives more pupils a chance to take part, not just a handful.

YankSplaining · 22/10/2025 17:52

FionnulaTheCooler · 22/10/2025 17:45

Do they sell tickets for these productions? Maybe they've found that musicals pull the crowds in whereas plays are less popular.

They do sell tickets. When I was in high school, every performance sold out, regardless of what the show was, because it was a small auditorium and the people who sent their children to these two schools were very involved parents who’d bring along extended family, neighbors, et cetera. Plus it was a standard social thing for other students to come see the play at least once per production.

Both schools charge a lot of tuition, and the theater program has resources beyond what most American high schools have.

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Smartiepants79 · 22/10/2025 17:46

I think you’re hugely over invested. This is a school you have no connection with anymore? Your kids don’t go there??
I can’t even begin to understand why you would care what their production choices are? It’s a shame you’re disappointed but it really doesn’t affect you at all.

FionnulaTheCooler · 22/10/2025 17:45

Do they sell tickets for these productions? Maybe they've found that musicals pull the crowds in whereas plays are less popular.