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ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 07:58

Posting here mainly for traffic to be honest.

I’m planning a day out to Dartmoor this weekend to go on a pretty long walk up a couple of the tors. Going by myself because I have nobody to go with but I’m craving being outside 😂

the route is set to be about three and a half hours back, two hours in, and about 12 miles all together. I’m relatively fit but wha do I need to take with me??? I know I’ll need some snacks but that’s about all I can think of

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ticktickticktickBOOM · 22/10/2025 10:11

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 08:53

These are the routes as per Komoot, I’m quite comfortable with being able to walk that far to be honest, it’s a little push compared to what I usually do but I feel confident. It’s so much shorter on the way back because it misses out a couple of tors!

I honestly don't think it's wise to publicise your exact walking route, the date you are going and that you will be alone.

I'd feel very vulnerable if a few million people had access to my exact whereabouts in a desolate area like that.

aLogLady · 22/10/2025 10:10

crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 09:27

The Appalachian trail looks a bit boring to me- just 2000 miles of trees! Doesn't look worth the strenuousness and danger. The Pacific Crest trail looks more interesting and varied though- have you read Wild?

Myself, I'm raring to walk the Via Francigena.

Ooh wow all the way from Canterbury! Many many miles! And tbh, part of my appeal is in saying the word Appalachia haha. Also I love forests. And also. I’ve heard people leave beers in rivers for walkers. I’d love to be high on self defence so fear didn’t take part in my being put off. And no, I’ve not read it but of course have heard of it!

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 10:08

Purplerocket · 22/10/2025 10:07

I live not far from here and you'll be fine. It's a well walked area so you can't get lost. There are stone tracks in parts that are in use by MOD vehicles and are even part of a circular cycle route. The ranges are very rarely closed to the public on weekends so you'll won't have any problems there.

The only thing to bear in mind is the weather hasn't been great this week and more rain is forecast so make sure you have good boots and steer clear of any boggy areas.

You definitely don't need a foil blanket 😂 and a day pack will be fine for any rubbish you have from lunch.

Yeah I did think the foil blanket was a bit OTT. I know Dartmoor evokes images of being totally abandoned but okehampton etc is pretty well connected and it seems to be all surrounded by villages.

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crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 10:08

Nousernameforme · 22/10/2025 09:48

I've been looking at these walks from okehampton station im thinking I might start with the east hill one, the only thing putting me off, and it is daft, is I grew up in Devon and used to go on family walks there when I was young. We were told lots of spooky tales about the mist coming down all of a sudden and hikers being led astray by the Will-o-the-wisps. That said I believe if you do get caught in the mist I think the advice is to stay still till it lifts.

IME the risks of mist coming down while walking on Dartmoor have been overstated, and the risks of losing your path in the maze of identically sized ones made by cows, ponies and dog walkers have been greatly understated 😆

(Mind you, that is because, like most of us, I am a fair weather walker. I think DS got enmisted once or twice when doing his Ten Tors training, but what sane human being does a 35 mile two day hike and camps out in the pissing rain in February?!)

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 10:07

I’ve cut east hill from the way out, it makes it a 5.49 mile walk on the way out and 4.58 on the way in (I think because I’m not going up all the tors!), or 2hr41 out and 2h 3 on the way back in. I should have time for my M&S picnic up the top of yes tor too!

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Purplerocket · 22/10/2025 10:07

I live not far from here and you'll be fine. It's a well walked area so you can't get lost. There are stone tracks in parts that are in use by MOD vehicles and are even part of a circular cycle route. The ranges are very rarely closed to the public on weekends so you'll won't have any problems there.

The only thing to bear in mind is the weather hasn't been great this week and more rain is forecast so make sure you have good boots and steer clear of any boggy areas.

You definitely don't need a foil blanket 😂 and a day pack will be fine for any rubbish you have from lunch.

Lovemycat2023 · 22/10/2025 10:04

Pharazon · 22/10/2025 09:25

Mountain rescue would much prefer a grid reference (which the OS app will give you.) There are problems with w3w - it's positively dangerous in some places. Mainly the issue is that locations with very similar sounding w3w names can be close together. For example likely.stages.sock and likely.stage.sock are a mile apart from each other, but on opposite banks of the River Clyde...

I was involved in a rescue that got badly affected by this - the location was either misspoken or misheard and rescuers ended up going to a nearby, but incorrect location.

In theory w3w locations that sound similar should be very distant from each other, so that it is obvious that the location was reported incorrectly, but this is not the case due to a fundamental flaw with the way w3w assigned location names.

Yes - that does make sense and good point re grid refs. I use the OS maps app which I find good (I pay an annual subscription)

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 09:59

Pushmepullu · 22/10/2025 09:54

With respect, you don’t sound like an experienced walker and I would suggest the best thing for you to take would be another person.

I don’t have anyone to come with me so it’s I do it alone or I don’t go. I’m pretty sure I’ll be fine, it’s all open moor land not dense forests and all well covered by my phone provider

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Trivium4all · 22/10/2025 09:59

OS Maps is great, but you've mentioned that your phone's battery is dodgy and that you'll have other apps running in the background. Even though you're taking a battery pack, I'd still reiterate the advisability of a paper map. Unless I know an area very well, I take paper maps, and tend to use them more than the phone. One advantage is that they allow a far bigger overview than the phone (without an irritating amount of scrolling).

Pushmepullu · 22/10/2025 09:54

With respect, you don’t sound like an experienced walker and I would suggest the best thing for you to take would be another person.

Nelliemellie · 22/10/2025 09:52

A good flask maybe but they are heavy. Small plastic bags to keep rubbish in.

crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 09:48

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 09:36

I tend to walk 3-4 miles an hour as well, so my Apple Maps has estimated it to be an even shorter walk

I'm not sure I would trust that, mind you! I can walk 4 miles an hour on flat pavement....half that on a long day's walk on the moors though!

I'm a late riser, but still like long walks, even in winter time. What I tend to do is bring various little lights and hi vis bits- hi vis wristbands and a flashing light that attaches to my rucksack- and plan the last bit of a walk on the lanes. It's easy to lose a path in the dark, not so much a lane, and the lights etc make me visible to cars.

You say the last section of your walk is the lane down from the Army camp, so that sounds perfect.

Nousernameforme · 22/10/2025 09:48

I've been looking at these walks from okehampton station im thinking I might start with the east hill one, the only thing putting me off, and it is daft, is I grew up in Devon and used to go on family walks there when I was young. We were told lots of spooky tales about the mist coming down all of a sudden and hikers being led astray by the Will-o-the-wisps. That said I believe if you do get caught in the mist I think the advice is to stay still till it lifts.

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 09:48

ClairDeLaLune · 22/10/2025 09:44

Sounds amazing OP, I’m very jealous! Haven’t RTFT so I might be repeating someone, but will you be sharing your live location with someone on your phone? Either with FindMyPhone or on WhatsApp? Have a great day 😊

I’m on life360 haha so my parents will have my location!

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ClairDeLaLune · 22/10/2025 09:44

Sounds amazing OP, I’m very jealous! Haven’t RTFT so I might be repeating someone, but will you be sharing your live location with someone on your phone? Either with FindMyPhone or on WhatsApp? Have a great day 😊

blobby10 · 22/10/2025 09:42

@ApricotDanish83 have an amazing walk - you are far more prepped than I was last year when I went for a supposed 8-9 mile walk around Buxton after dropping my parents off to see something at the opera house. It was October - I had a bottle of water, my dog, proper walking boots, a waterproof, the map on my phone and that was it! Obviously (cos its me) I got lost and ended up walking about 14 miles as 1. I hadn't factored in the trek to/from the car park and 2. the map showed a path that wasn't there and I went the wrong way - three times! I was horrified just how quickly my phone battery deteriorated so would definitely advise the power bank.

crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 09:42

Thermoscof · 22/10/2025 09:32

You know the Op do you?

and can look in to the future?

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I know Dartmoor. I know lots and lots of inexperienced/ unfit walkers who have pushed themselves a little and covered distances they never thought they were capable of. And OP doesn't even sound that inexperienced or unfit.

A couple of years ago I led a group of friends on the Tinner's Way from St Ives to Cape Cornwall. The group included a couple of people who swore they couldn't walk more than 6 miles in a day. We covered 24 miles in 2 days.

My ex, who has to be the World's Unfittest Man, made it up to Black-a-Tor (next to High Willhays) and back, from several decades of doing nothing except sitting at a desk.

A PP says the route is all roads/ firm paths (whereas I'm used to floundering through waist high bracken following imaginary trails off the beaten track!)

I reiterate: she'll be fine.

TheSandgroper · 22/10/2025 09:41

Take a complete change of warm clothes to keep in the car. A good thermos of hot water to also keep in the car ready for when you are finished.

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 09:36

I tend to walk 3-4 miles an hour as well, so my Apple Maps has estimated it to be an even shorter walk

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ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 09:36

senua · 22/10/2025 09:35

OK. Good luck with your walk and don't forget to check back in with us, too!Smile

You said that you were walking "this weekend" but didn't say which day. Bearing in mind shorter days, have you remembered that the clocks go back on Sunday so sunset is even earlier.

Saturday! I definitely wouldn’t head out onto the moors after Sunday for a long walk, far too dark (sadly)

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senua · 22/10/2025 09:35

ApricotDanish83 · 22/10/2025 08:49

I don’t think I’m necessarily a novice, I walk an and I’ve done a lot of 8-10 mile walks in my local area! I just know that Dartmoor is obviously different to my local area

OK. Good luck with your walk and don't forget to check back in with us, too!Smile

You said that you were walking "this weekend" but didn't say which day. Bearing in mind shorter days, have you remembered that the clocks go back on Sunday so sunset is even earlier.

Thingamebobwotsit · 22/10/2025 09:35

Sounds great but you might want to check the forecast. The next few days are looking very unsettled and I don't know if it will carry onto the weekend. Dartmoor isn't much fun in a storm unless you are tucked up inside with a log fire!

Thermoscof · 22/10/2025 09:32

crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 09:31

She'll be absolutely fine.

You know the Op do you?

and can look in to the future?

crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 09:31

Thermoscof · 22/10/2025 09:28

So this is quite a jump. Personally someone hiking 12 miles alone in Dartmoor having only done shorter walks in local area..,, unwise

I would suggest your cut the route

She'll be absolutely fine.

crackofdoom · 22/10/2025 09:30

StewkeyBlue · 22/10/2025 09:27

A proper packed lunch, not just snacks!

Start early giving yourself loads of contingency in daylight at the end of the afternoon.

You want time to linger and enjoy the view etc. if you feel like it.

Mist can descend very quickly and weather often defies the forecast.

I have done loads of solo upland hikes. 12 miles is quite a lot. You’ll have a fantastic day, but remember that the time to decide to shorten a walk or start your return is while you are still on top of it.

Yes, time wise I seem to do a steady 2 miles an hour on the moors. Although this does include ample time for admiring the view, having lunch and snack breaks, birdwatching and picking my way through waist high bracken/ from tussock to tussock in bogs etc...