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To Think that Grad & Apprenticeships are now only for Diversity Candidates

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reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

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Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:26

user927464 · 21/10/2025 11:48

It's everywhere unfortunately now and it isn't necessarily doing anyone any favours.

I recently went through a process for a very senior role. It the sort of role that only very small number of people are appointed to nationally. Over 1000 people applied and went through a very detailed and rigorous 9 stage process. I got down to the last three. I was then told that it was effectively tie break and diversity criteria would be applied. I then got through to the last two (presumably on the strength of being female) and then I didn't get through the final diversity screen so presumably there was another criterion applied. Its ridiculous. I shouldn't even have been awarded additional points for being female since it very much isn't a role that required the use of my vagina. It should always be the best person for the job. If that person is a white male then so be it.

Didn’t you point out that their process was illegal? I can’t imagine not doing this as a responsible leader

Dweetfidilove · 21/10/2025 12:25

My daughter heard some boys moaning about their very exclusive private school enrolling Black and Asian children to increase the number of children they get into Oxbridge. This was aimed at her and the Indian girl she was sitting with. They were only 2 weeks in the school; and she has counted less than 10 Black students and only slightly more South Asian pupils in a year of 150 students.

Suffice to say, they have had their end of half-term tests and both girls' grades have left them in the dust in all the subjects they take together. Well, that settled that nicely.

JaninaDuszejko · 21/10/2025 12:24

Positive discrimination is illegal in the UK under the Equality Act so if your DS is really being excluded from applying for jobs then he should speak to a union or a lawyer.

Positive Discrimination vs Positive Action

Positive action in the workplace

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/positive-action-in-the-workplace-guidance-for-employers/positive-action-in-the-workplace#what-is-the-difference-between-positive-action-and-positive-discrimination

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 12:24

2boysm · 21/10/2025 12:22

Totally agree with you OP.

My (white) sons have applied to a few things where points were added or taken away according to background. They didn’t stand a chance as they are white boys from a middle class background. Even their state schooling was disregarded.

In certain places, ethnic minorities are now over represented compared to their population share (Oxbridge, law). I’m all for fair play and for giving people a chance — but this feels like the opposite.

Maybe ethnic minorities are overrepresented because certain professions are now so in demand that they need 4 A stars. Which few white people get.

EasternStandard · 21/10/2025 12:23

Fellontheground · 21/10/2025 11:38

God you are rude. ‘Not able to handle the competition’? The issue here is that the OP’s son isn’t even deemed eligible to enter the competition.

This is the question what is the selection process.

RubySquid · 21/10/2025 12:23

Rosesfornoses · 21/10/2025 12:12

@Idrinklotsofcoffee
Please indicate the research that shows this in relation to poor white boys. For the last fifty years they have been at the bottom of the pile in terms of educational achievement and in relation to other determiners of success. Most don't stand a chance. There is no equality for them.

My point above

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 12:23

JHound · 21/10/2025 12:18

I work in Banking and no, it is not “the reality”.

So does DH. For years he was the only brown person. It's changed a bit now but still overwhelmingly white.

2boysm · 21/10/2025 12:22

Totally agree with you OP.

My (white) sons have applied to a few things where points were added or taken away according to background. They didn’t stand a chance as they are white boys from a middle class background. Even their state schooling was disregarded.

In certain places, ethnic minorities are now over represented compared to their population share (Oxbridge, law). I’m all for fair play and for giving people a chance — but this feels like the opposite.

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 12:20

I think the mistake (white men usually) make in these discussions is it’s about THE BEST THE BEST THE BEST

employment rarely needs the (subjective) best. There are many, many young people who could equally smash the shit out of a grad scheme at Deloitte’s/ slaughter and may/ Tesco/ Royal Mail etc etc.

they don’t need to be the best in their school or attending the best university. There are thousands of 22 year olds who could be brilliant future employees

companies are allowed to access those people.

what you’re really pissed off about what the the social contract as you perceptive it has been broken.

4A* tick, oxbridge tick, DofE tick and yet those bastards have the grad scheme to some care leaver from Cardiff WTF?!? It wasn’t worth all the hard work after all

the documentary “try harder” is a perfect demonstration of this- Asian kids hyper achieving then finding that Ivy League doesn’t want them because they’re over
achieving asians

the issue is commonly exaggerated but maybe rooted in some truth, or at least perception of truth.

JHound · 21/10/2025 12:18

reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 11:26

In banking it is the reality, same in insurance, at least what I've heard from people I know who work in global, top UK banks/insurance.

Not everyone, obviously, but these people - very senior - commented on how out of 12 and 15 intake, only 1 and 2 males respective. All others diversity/females.

I work in Banking and no, it is not “the reality”.

JHound · 21/10/2025 12:16

“Diversity Candidates”.

🙄

BreezySwan · 21/10/2025 12:14

Often they release schemes in tranches. So it may be that there is a specific scheme for underrepresented minorities and then later or earlier in the year there will be one which is open to everyone. The BBC does the same thing through their extend program but they also have opportunities open to everybody. Keep looking

Rosesfornoses · 21/10/2025 12:12

@Idrinklotsofcoffee
Please indicate the research that shows this in relation to poor white boys. For the last fifty years they have been at the bottom of the pile in terms of educational achievement and in relation to other determiners of success. Most don't stand a chance. There is no equality for them.

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 12:10

Octavia64 · 21/10/2025 12:07

My ExH used to work in investment banking.

one of the banks he works for now sponsors a school in inner London and their work experience programme (the state school one for 14 year olds) is only open to students from that school.

they run a number of internships and grad experience programmes which are aimed at different populations. Some of these are only open to people who fit various criteria.

the general intake however is open to everyone and always has been.

That is my understanding too though I would have to check wt DS.

GAJLY · 21/10/2025 12:07

Yes I've been looking for my eldest too, and noticed the exact same thing. Seems really unfair as it's completely swung the other way!

Octavia64 · 21/10/2025 12:07

My ExH used to work in investment banking.

one of the banks he works for now sponsors a school in inner London and their work experience programme (the state school one for 14 year olds) is only open to students from that school.

they run a number of internships and grad experience programmes which are aimed at different populations. Some of these are only open to people who fit various criteria.

the general intake however is open to everyone and always has been.

Idrinklotsofcoffee · 21/10/2025 12:07

"When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression."

Utahthecat · 21/10/2025 12:07

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 11:56

Exactly - the stupid tests - often AI - that determine whether at age 21 you are a dab hand at situational judgements.

Dd just was asked, “Describe a time when you had to lead a team during a period of instability”. Wth? This is for a grad scheme not a senior crisis management position.

She could have spoken about a sports team, a volunteering team, a school project team....

And the photos are generally aspirational rather than a reflection of reality. Often if a company is focusing on specific hires it is because there is currently little to no diversity in their teams. There is growing evidence that diverse teams get better business results so it makes sense for companies to hire non middle-class white males.

NightCzar · 21/10/2025 12:07

reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 11:50

Like someone upthread said, there are tick boxes. Some would say that it's HR who are merely monitoring intake but I have insider knowledge that it doesn't seem to be just for this. Might be wrong.

But, yes, there are lots of programmes closed to certain groups - you can see many listed here:

https://app.the-trackr.com/uk-finance/spring-weeks

Of course, that still leaves many opportunities but it just seems that it's swung a bit too far and the whole AI selection is very demoralising too.

A couple of senior people said they get so many applications that all successful applicants are high achieving, but that there is definitely less holistic candidates now - i.e. those with other interest outside of academia and made in their view for less diverse teams (not in terms of gender/colour etc) but in terms of experience and personality!

We can’t ask for ethnicity on job applications here, as those are protected characteristics. I’m so surprised the UK can. (Except to ask if they are indigenous or Torres Strait island people, in which case they’ll be offered the option to enter a different recruitment pathway if they want it). I don’t know anything about that tracker but is it accurate? Or is it just based on who completes it and algorithms?

I do send sympathy. I often see white males passed over in favour of inferior females (of all backgrounds) but not really at the grad stage. More at the Partner/MD level.

Gruffporcupine · 21/10/2025 12:06

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Rosesfornoses · 21/10/2025 12:05

Ever since I started teaching we were taught that the worst achieving children with the poorest outcomes were poor white boys.
https://committees.parliament.uk/committee/203/education-committee/news/156024/forgotten-white-workingclass-pupils-let-down-by-decades-of-neglect-mps-say/
I did hear a Labour MP recently on Radio 4 explaining that this is the real issue in education today.
Most London Grammar schools are dominated by minority ethnic groups.There is no such representation from poor white boys. There are influential people now fighting to change this. Wes Streeting is one such campaigner.
I remember one pupil from an ethnic minority who had six brothers and sisters. All went to Oxbridge. None of them were startingly clever. His male classmates from ordinary and poor backgrounds did not stand a chance.
Look up the proportion of poor white boys in Higher Education compared to ethnic minority students. Don't take my word for it. There has to be a campaign to recruit more students from poor white backgrounds. Otherwise you have significantly disadvantaged groups who are the feeding ground for far right groups.

Bluebottlerecycling · 21/10/2025 12:03

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 11:56

Exactly - the stupid tests - often AI - that determine whether at age 21 you are a dab hand at situational judgements.

Dd just was asked, “Describe a time when you had to lead a team during a period of instability”. Wth? This is for a grad scheme not a senior crisis management position.

But they are expecting a 21 year old’s version of that answer. Not a senior managers.

I’m pretty sure both my kids could make a reasonable attempt at answering that question based on experiences in part time work and extracurriculars.

The answer they are looking for is about how you worked with others to resolve a difficult situation.

Acafan · 21/10/2025 11:59

reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 11:53

Astar Astar A plus EPQ Astar but in STEM and top humanities subjects. But as I say, no issue if others are better it was just today seeing on the website of this big consultancy firm that they only had programmes open for first year uni students for black/women/social mobility.

Edited

Isn't it still the case that most summer schemes are for second year students? In which case, the purpose of this scheme would be to give a taster for students from groups who are less likely to apply to and perhaps less likely to be selected for the second year scheme? So it's in addition to, rather than instead of.

(If first year summer placements are a really common thing now, I stand corrected.)

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 11:56

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 11:51

What are your son's grades please?

But grades are only a part of it. My son got rejected from many grad schemes because he didn't fit the work culture. Or the personality tests. It is a lottery and people with very high grades often do not make it.

I might add we are not disadvantaged or working class in any way except for colour of skin.

Exactly - the stupid tests - often AI - that determine whether at age 21 you are a dab hand at situational judgements.

Dd just was asked, “Describe a time when you had to lead a team during a period of instability”. Wth? This is for a grad scheme not a senior crisis management position.