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To Think that Grad & Apprenticeships are now only for Diversity Candidates

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reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

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Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 19:12

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:01

I work for a big international bank. It’s not my company, so it’s a bit dumb to say I can’t be very good at my job. The point I am making is that we are seeing people who would never be selected if it wasn’t for being a “diversity candidate”. My workplace probably runs one of the more prestigious grad schemes in the country, so yes it’s really obvious that people are getting opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have had. So yes I very much agree ei the OP here.

If you're a hiring manager then part of your job is to hire people, no? If you, as a hiring manager, are consistently hiring poor candidates then that very much sounds like a failing on your part. It's not particularly relevant how "big" the company you work for is or how "prestigious" the grad scheme is if you admit that you aren't capable of selecting good candidates. It's offensive to insinuate that the candidates you do select are bad at their job because they meet diversity criteria when in fact it is because you are just bad at your job.

Cloudeee · 21/10/2025 19:08

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 18:19

people moaning that they're being unfair to white males (when likely their workforce is already primarily made up of them and headed by them)

The workforce in the UK should be majority white. We are a majority white country; 80% of the population is white. Less than that would indicate discrimination against the white population. We are not America - until only 50 years ago there were hardly any ethnic minority people here. The indigenous population is white. A third of the BAME population arrived over just the last 15 years, a significant portion without skills. It is crazy to suggest that there is no preference because the workplace is still majority white.

Not sure what the game is with this mouldy peppers as I was told to check my white privilege a few pages back. But now makes a very good point of course the workforce should be majority white as that’s what the population is.

People can be as outraged as they want but I’ll be telling all my kids to lie about their ethnicity on applications. They can ask you these questions but they can’t force you to take an ancestry dna test. Same goes for your sexuality

Hoodlumboodlum · 21/10/2025 19:07

In my recent hires we have 5 white women (1 Irish, 1 from Scotland, 3 from England) and 2 white men (both from England).

We interviewed a diverse field through blind recruitment processes and the people we hired were the best choices for the roles. If they'd all been black or all been from a FSM background etc we couldn't have cared less. We just wanted the best candidates for the role. This time is happened that they were all white. In past posts, that hasn't been the case.

5128gap · 21/10/2025 19:06

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:01

I work for a big international bank. It’s not my company, so it’s a bit dumb to say I can’t be very good at my job. The point I am making is that we are seeing people who would never be selected if it wasn’t for being a “diversity candidate”. My workplace probably runs one of the more prestigious grad schemes in the country, so yes it’s really obvious that people are getting opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have had. So yes I very much agree ei the OP here.

I think the point being made was that if you have a responsibility for recruitment, and are good at your job, you shouldn't be repeatedly selecting poor candidates. If the pool you have to choose from contains no one with the requisit abilities, fot whatever reason, then you don't just recruit the least worst surely? Would you not speak up to your own seniors and explain that no one was suitable?

Shinybrightdarling · 21/10/2025 19:04

5128gap · 21/10/2025 18:49

I feel your pain. For a very long time a lot of people have been concerned that white men are over represented in all the leading positions of power and wealth in our society. That this one group excercise a disproportionate amount of influence and secures an inequitable proportion of benefits.
For the longest time, no one listened to little old us either when we tentatively suggested that, just maybe, other groups in our society have something to offer too. Because, just maybe, white male people aren't innately 'the best' for every role, so, just maybe, there may be some things stopping other people from enjoying the same success, and making their own contribution. And, maybe, we should consider what the barriers are and try to address them so we benefit from these peoples abilities.
Now some employers are finally catching on to the idea that there's a whole untapped talent pool beyond the white men they typically employ, and they're taking steps to attract that pool.
However, these employers are by no means the majority. There are still plenty out there who will prioritise white men, either consciously or subconsciously, so there will always be plenty of options for white peoples sons.

I agree that white males aren’t innately the best for every role - and that the untapped talent pool outside that cohort should be given a fair chance. However, I also believe that opportunities should, where possible, be made available according to each individual person’s merit. Inequality needs to be addressed in a different, fairer way. Diversity initiatives are inherently unfair and have been so overused they are now very often having the opposite effect to what was originally intended eg however good a new female/black/gay boss is some people will assume they are just a diversity hire and couldn’t have got the job any other way.

LadeOde · 21/10/2025 19:03

vivainsomnia · 21/10/2025 11:50

My son experienced the same. He applied to many highly competitive graduates roles after graduating (from one of the worse unis, ), and did really well getting to the final stage for three roles.

He said that during the interview, the majority of candidates were white males, but when you look at the pictures of the new recruits, they only represent 20%.

You can turn it around as one wished but they are proportionally less likely to be offered the role every else is equal.

The pictures are showing what they want the public to see. They want to attract a diverse workforce so they're not going to show as it currently is on the inside. These people are specifically picked to be the face of whatever corporate material it is they need it for. The surprise is, when you get in, if you get in, its mostly white males and then females so you've actually got the wrong end of the stick in this. If you want the truth look into ethnicity/diversity stats for these top companies.

EmpressoftheMundane · 21/10/2025 19:03

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 15:50

Agreed. I find it so saddening that 20 years ago we were crying out to get these amazing opportunities for under represented groups. I can’t imagine how proud I would’ve been to work for an organisation doing this.

20 years later the backlash is coming from the middle aged sharp elbowed and they’re actively stopping progress because their children might not find their lives as easy as it used to be. Because they’re upset that they can no longer smash the exams and get a lifetime of reward.

It’s controversial but I’m of the view that someone has to suffer for us to achieve equality. Because privileged white men have taken what wasn’t theirs, and sharing some of it back means they lose it. That doesn’t mean it was ever legitimately theirs though

I’m of the view that someone has to suffer for us to achieve equality. Because privileged white men have taken what wasn’t theirs, and sharing some of it back means they lose it. That doesn’t mean it was ever legitimately theirs though.

eh?

In 1971 the UK was 97.5% white. Before that, it would have been 99.99% white. The guilds, enlightenment, the industrial revolution, etc. where white men. White men developed the universities, the banks, the industries. I am glad the suffragettes fought to give women an opportunity to participate, but it is ridiculous to say that “white men took what wasn’t theirs.” They created this stuff, they didn’t “take it,” and their grandsons deserve a fair crack.

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 19:01

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 18:52

It sounds like you're not very good at your job if you're consistently hiring underperformers.

And your workplace sounds awful if people are "always referred to as diversity hires".

In my first job after graduating (I am early 30s, so not that long ago), I was referred to as the "token female hire" by the other (white male) new starters on the same scheme. I outperformed them all in that role and am considerably more senior than they are now. I may well have been hired to meet some sort of gender quota, but I was absolutely deserving of the job.

I work for a big international bank. It’s not my company, so it’s a bit dumb to say I can’t be very good at my job. The point I am making is that we are seeing people who would never be selected if it wasn’t for being a “diversity candidate”. My workplace probably runs one of the more prestigious grad schemes in the country, so yes it’s really obvious that people are getting opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have had. So yes I very much agree ei the OP here.

Halfordsontheway · 21/10/2025 18:52

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:10

I agree with you OP. I have a ds currently also searching for summer internships in finance and he has also found loads of internships not open for him to even apply for due them only being opened for diversity. Only today, he sent me an example of a “summer diversity internship”. I am a bit in the fence as I am pro diversity, but I also think its given opportunities to people who might never have walked through the door otherwise and there is a sense of people thinking it’s a “diversity hire”. I
am a hiring manager myself for a big international bank and participate in recruitment for grad internship. I have no doubt that we invite people through the door who would haven’t been through our doors if not from a diverse background. It also doesn’t often work out well as they often underperform when in the job and are always referred to as diversity hire. I should probably put on a hard hat for saying this, but this is my experience.

It sounds like you're not very good at your job if you're consistently hiring underperformers.

And your workplace sounds awful if people are "always referred to as diversity hires".

In my first job after graduating (I am early 30s, so not that long ago), I was referred to as the "token female hire" by the other (white male) new starters on the same scheme. I outperformed them all in that role and am considerably more senior than they are now. I may well have been hired to meet some sort of gender quota, but I was absolutely deserving of the job.

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:52

MoominMai · 21/10/2025 18:44

???🙄

You can roll your eyes, but it’s called “diversity internships”.

5128gap · 21/10/2025 18:49

Shinybrightdarling · 21/10/2025 18:28

I never imagined big corporations would listen to little old me - not for one single second. I’m just trying to explain why people are becoming increasingly concerned about diversity initiatives.

I feel your pain. For a very long time a lot of people have been concerned that white men are over represented in all the leading positions of power and wealth in our society. That this one group excercise a disproportionate amount of influence and secures an inequitable proportion of benefits.
For the longest time, no one listened to little old us either when we tentatively suggested that, just maybe, other groups in our society have something to offer too. Because, just maybe, white male people aren't innately 'the best' for every role, so, just maybe, there may be some things stopping other people from enjoying the same success, and making their own contribution. And, maybe, we should consider what the barriers are and try to address them so we benefit from these peoples abilities.
Now some employers are finally catching on to the idea that there's a whole untapped talent pool beyond the white men they typically employ, and they're taking steps to attract that pool.
However, these employers are by no means the majority. There are still plenty out there who will prioritise white men, either consciously or subconsciously, so there will always be plenty of options for white peoples sons.

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 18:45

SparkFinder · 21/10/2025 18:40

The thing that always strikes me on these threads is the assumption that the graduate should be able to get a place on a graduate or intern scheme. Presumably for a prestigious employer. These schemes are not the norm for first jobs for graduates. They are the cream of the crop and only a few get them. Lots, lots, more get a basic entry level, admin type office job. And have to try a few things before they get to do the big, grand job they think they're destined for.

That's exactly what my DD is doing. A not very well paid admin job.

If- as some posters say- brown women get all the grad scheme jobs, she would have got one! But it will be all right in the end. She's learning much needed skills and working her way up.

MoominMai · 21/10/2025 18:44

JHound · 21/10/2025 12:16

“Diversity Candidates”.

🙄

???🙄

SparkFinder · 21/10/2025 18:40

The thing that always strikes me on these threads is the assumption that the graduate should be able to get a place on a graduate or intern scheme. Presumably for a prestigious employer. These schemes are not the norm for first jobs for graduates. They are the cream of the crop and only a few get them. Lots, lots, more get a basic entry level, admin type office job. And have to try a few things before they get to do the big, grand job they think they're destined for.

wizzywig · 21/10/2025 18:38

Its ok op, the diversity hires will only get so far. The white male will still rule in upper management.
Im sure youre the kind of parent who would also take issue with pupil premium too.

Dweetfidilove · 21/10/2025 18:36

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:10

I agree with you OP. I have a ds currently also searching for summer internships in finance and he has also found loads of internships not open for him to even apply for due them only being opened for diversity. Only today, he sent me an example of a “summer diversity internship”. I am a bit in the fence as I am pro diversity, but I also think its given opportunities to people who might never have walked through the door otherwise and there is a sense of people thinking it’s a “diversity hire”. I
am a hiring manager myself for a big international bank and participate in recruitment for grad internship. I have no doubt that we invite people through the door who would haven’t been through our doors if not from a diverse background. It also doesn’t often work out well as they often underperform when in the job and are always referred to as diversity hire. I should probably put on a hard hat for saying this, but this is my experience.

You're either terrible at your job or your company has terrible employment pratcises; as presumably you can hire 'diversity employees' that are qualified to and capable of doing the job?
What makes your pick so consistently incapable?

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:33

CuriousKangaroo · 21/10/2025 18:27

Then you are a terrible hiring manager.

There has been a paid work experience scheme open only to disadvantaged people in every job I have had for the last 10/12 years. With the exception of only one student who went through it, they have been excellent. Of these who went on to work in our industry, many have gone on to do brilliant things.

In contrast, the number of white males I have had to manage (not my hires) who on paper look great (high grades, good unis, interviewed well) who turn out to be mediocre is staggering. They were spoon fed and coddled through their studies so aren’t as smart as they seemed on paper, and have little get up and go. In the last 5 years or so I have noticed that some are so entitled they actually huff and try to get out of doing tasks they consider beneath them.

Not really a terrible hiring manager no as I am not doing the initial screening and have to work with what I get. As I said in my post, I am not against pro diversity, but I think it’s got too far. I would say in banking / finance in London today, you have to be better than a “diversity” candidates to get through the door. As previous poster said, we are a white country, so it’s a bit strange when the grad scheme we ran last year had 50% black/ brown.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 18:30

CuriousKangaroo · 21/10/2025 18:27

Then you are a terrible hiring manager.

There has been a paid work experience scheme open only to disadvantaged people in every job I have had for the last 10/12 years. With the exception of only one student who went through it, they have been excellent. Of these who went on to work in our industry, many have gone on to do brilliant things.

In contrast, the number of white males I have had to manage (not my hires) who on paper look great (high grades, good unis, interviewed well) who turn out to be mediocre is staggering. They were spoon fed and coddled through their studies so aren’t as smart as they seemed on paper, and have little get up and go. In the last 5 years or so I have noticed that some are so entitled they actually huff and try to get out of doing tasks they consider beneath them.

It is a shame those mediocre white men weren’t offered internships - you might have spotted their mediocrity before you hired them.

Shinybrightdarling · 21/10/2025 18:28

5128gap · 21/10/2025 17:48

Why would you imagine big corporations are going to listen to your 'concerns' about who they hire? If they want a more diverse workforce then provided they go about recruitment legally, people moaning that they're being unfair to white males (when likely their workforce is already primarily made up of them and headed by them) isn't going to be of the slightest importance.

I never imagined big corporations would listen to little old me - not for one single second. I’m just trying to explain why people are becoming increasingly concerned about diversity initiatives.

CuriousKangaroo · 21/10/2025 18:27

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:10

I agree with you OP. I have a ds currently also searching for summer internships in finance and he has also found loads of internships not open for him to even apply for due them only being opened for diversity. Only today, he sent me an example of a “summer diversity internship”. I am a bit in the fence as I am pro diversity, but I also think its given opportunities to people who might never have walked through the door otherwise and there is a sense of people thinking it’s a “diversity hire”. I
am a hiring manager myself for a big international bank and participate in recruitment for grad internship. I have no doubt that we invite people through the door who would haven’t been through our doors if not from a diverse background. It also doesn’t often work out well as they often underperform when in the job and are always referred to as diversity hire. I should probably put on a hard hat for saying this, but this is my experience.

Then you are a terrible hiring manager.

There has been a paid work experience scheme open only to disadvantaged people in every job I have had for the last 10/12 years. With the exception of only one student who went through it, they have been excellent. Of these who went on to work in our industry, many have gone on to do brilliant things.

In contrast, the number of white males I have had to manage (not my hires) who on paper look great (high grades, good unis, interviewed well) who turn out to be mediocre is staggering. They were spoon fed and coddled through their studies so aren’t as smart as they seemed on paper, and have little get up and go. In the last 5 years or so I have noticed that some are so entitled they actually huff and try to get out of doing tasks they consider beneath them.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 18:26

Everlore · 21/10/2025 18:22

I am good at my job and respected in my workplace but I don't mind people thinking of me as a 'diversity hire', largely because it is true. As a recent graduate, no prospective employer would have chosen to hire me over a similarly, or even slightly less qualified candidate, if they weren't committed to fostering an accessible workplace. In order for me to do my job I require a whole raft of expensive equipment and adjustments which an employee without my level of disability would never need. The grad schemes and early jobs I had were through schemes to encourage more disabled people into the workplace, without them, what financial or business sense would it have made to take on an employee who would come with such extra costs and logistical challenges?
Now I am more senior in my career I may be more likely to be recruited without as much account being paid to my disability, but it's taken years to reach this stage which would have been utterly impossible without the vital foot in the door the graduate scheme gave me.

Disability is treated differently in law to other protected characteristics. Unlike race etc it is permissible to treat disabled employees (and applicants) more favourably.

Lambington · 21/10/2025 18:25

Some of the racist language on this thread is utterly chilling.

BigOldBlobsy · 21/10/2025 18:25

Holluschickie · 21/10/2025 11:34

My son is brown. He got into a grad scheme in finance after over a 100 applications. He has now converted that into a job at a global consultancy for 2026. His grades at A levels were 4 A stars and he got a first in his degree. He is currently doing a masters at Oxbridge.

Do you want to claim my son is a diversity hire?

Well said.
These ‘diversity’ hires are equally as deserving and still have to show high academic ability.
Sorry to your son, I know it’s hard out there for young people, but it’s still hard for us black/brown people too.
Spoken as someone who has had to prove themselves above and beyond to even get past the first hurdles due to my name/appearance.
and then, has gone on to experience racism and micro aggression in every single role.
Many places are still not diverse despite these schemes. Pictures aren’t the truth, just a nice veneer!

Everlore · 21/10/2025 18:22

Gwyne · 21/10/2025 18:10

I agree with you OP. I have a ds currently also searching for summer internships in finance and he has also found loads of internships not open for him to even apply for due them only being opened for diversity. Only today, he sent me an example of a “summer diversity internship”. I am a bit in the fence as I am pro diversity, but I also think its given opportunities to people who might never have walked through the door otherwise and there is a sense of people thinking it’s a “diversity hire”. I
am a hiring manager myself for a big international bank and participate in recruitment for grad internship. I have no doubt that we invite people through the door who would haven’t been through our doors if not from a diverse background. It also doesn’t often work out well as they often underperform when in the job and are always referred to as diversity hire. I should probably put on a hard hat for saying this, but this is my experience.

I am good at my job and respected in my workplace but I don't mind people thinking of me as a 'diversity hire', largely because it is true. As a recent graduate, no prospective employer would have chosen to hire me over a similarly, or even slightly less qualified candidate, if they weren't committed to fostering an accessible workplace. In order for me to do my job I require a whole raft of expensive equipment and adjustments which an employee without my level of disability would never need. The grad schemes and early jobs I had were through schemes to encourage more disabled people into the workplace, without them, what financial or business sense would it have made to take on an employee who would come with such extra costs and logistical challenges?
Now I am more senior in my career I may be more likely to be recruited without as much account being paid to my disability, but it's taken years to reach this stage which would have been utterly impossible without the vital foot in the door the graduate scheme gave me.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 18:21

Bambamhoohoo · 21/10/2025 18:09

Thousands IN ONE PLC.

all of those jobs you mention mean the parent has the ability to decode that world for their children. I know nothing about being a dentist, but a dentist can help their child be one.

However without social mobility the children whose parents have low skilled low paid roles won’t be able to access any support in getting into a graduate scheme or apprenticeship into a corporate or professional environment.

anyway I think you’re basically MAGA trolling so you won’t try and understand this point.

Why would I want to make America great? I am not American and have no interest in America.