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To Think that Grad & Apprenticeships are now only for Diversity Candidates

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reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

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bathbooknap · 24/10/2025 19:28

I’ve seen a similar situation in the civil service. No promotions for white males, no matter how qualified you are. Meanwhile the diversity hires are getting promoted left right and centre and most are absolutely useless at their job. Under qualified and out of their depth.

Penfoldfive · 24/10/2025 19:17

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 14:31

You’re in medicine and think men are not male?

What would you count as well represented? White doctors are under-represented in the NHS compared to the population.

Edited as replied to wrong post

OhDear111 · 24/10/2025 18:53

@NorthXNorthWestGovernments have been useless for many reasons but the degree ministers have isn’t one of them. The problem is politics. The need to win over voters and get elected. This skews every decision. Unfortunately. There’s some party loyalty and a lot of following the party line. The government bears little resemblance to undergrad degrees and intelligence because other factors overwhelm these. We need a cross section of MPs but few have got near a stem degree @reallyreallycrazy. Few have run a business.

Of course being an entrepreneur doesn’t rely on degree classification and no one much cares where an engineering degree came from. DH employed engineers for 45 years. Far more concern about actually doing the job accurately!

@Isthisit22Any undergrad will know internships and grad schemes exist. If they don’t they an existing in some sort of vacuum and not attending careers fairs, cv seminars and everything else available at university in terms of employment. By this stage, background is cancelled out!

Pleasealexa · 24/10/2025 18:40

HundredMilesAnHour · 24/10/2025 18:26

If we look at the private sector haven't Oxbridge dominated professional services industries done really well financially?

For those seemingly struggling to understand, it has been proven that more diverse companies make better decisions and have higher returns than their peers who are less diverse i.e. they do better financially. So no, Oxbridge dominated is not the recipe for success.

www.mckinsey.com/capabilities/people-and-organizational-performance/our-insights/why-diversity-matters

The McKinsey study was largely debunked.

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 24/10/2025 18:36

Isthisit22 · 24/10/2025 07:03

Isn’t it obvious? Frequently those students don’t come from a background where they would even know those schemes exist. Frequently they don’t have the confidence in themselves to apply due to poor life experiences and lack of parental aspiration/ knowledge. Frequently they don’t have the resources to prepare for or attend interviews.
Parental involvement has been proven to be a large factor in academic and life success.

But the person I was responding to was talking about graduate schemes in Finance. We aren't dealing with 16 year old kids who know nothing about anything.

Surely once these students from disadvantaged backgrounds have already got their degree, they understand full well that they can apply for aboslutely anything they like, providing their degree is relevant? Just the same as any other graduate. If they don't realise that by then, then I'd say their whole university experience has been pretty bloody pointless.

HundredMilesAnHour · 24/10/2025 18:26

If we look at the private sector haven't Oxbridge dominated professional services industries done really well financially?

For those seemingly struggling to understand, it has been proven that more diverse companies make better decisions and have higher returns than their peers who are less diverse i.e. they do better financially. So no, Oxbridge dominated is not the recipe for success.

www.mckinsey.com/capabilities/people-and-organizational-performance/our-insights/why-diversity-matters

reallyreallycrazy · 24/10/2025 18:21

NorthXNorthWest · 24/10/2025 17:45

Brains on average take up to mid 20's to develop. Some people take longer to settle but once they do and they find their place they may outperform for the rest of their lives. Some go to Oxbridge and end ambling around rudderless boat for one low skilled job to another, never living up to their 'earlier promise'.

Consigning someone the the scrapheap for not meeting a narrow criteria (no A*'s/2.2 etc) earlier on in their life says more about the person judging them than it does about the individual.

If having a degree from highly selective and exclusive Oxbridge and the Russell Group was the measure of our brightest, best and therefore most deserving (according to some), why have successive UK governments been so spectacularly shit?

So true.

Actually DH, we're dinosaurs, first in family to go to uni. Did engineering at a poly. Very tough (btw I'd say it's much harder to get good classifications from STEM/engineering) and he did spend too much time having a good time. Came out with a 2.2

This was 30 years or so ago, he then got work experience under his belt, applied to do an MBA at Imperial and smashed the GMAT (top 5% scorer! - he certainly wouldn't have gone in off the back of his uni degree result), went on to become a CEO of a small but very successful engineering company.

He is a very hard-working person and successful now.

Goes to show just because you get a 2:2 from a low tariff uni (poly) does not define you or your path in life. Or it shouldn't!

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Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 18:10

NorthXNorthWest · 24/10/2025 17:45

Brains on average take up to mid 20's to develop. Some people take longer to settle but once they do and they find their place they may outperform for the rest of their lives. Some go to Oxbridge and end ambling around rudderless boat for one low skilled job to another, never living up to their 'earlier promise'.

Consigning someone the the scrapheap for not meeting a narrow criteria (no A*'s/2.2 etc) earlier on in their life says more about the person judging them than it does about the individual.

If having a degree from highly selective and exclusive Oxbridge and the Russell Group was the measure of our brightest, best and therefore most deserving (according to some), why have successive UK governments been so spectacularly shit?

Given the intense competition in the graduate space these days it makes sense for at least some of the most sought after employers to pre-screen according to some base academic criteria. Yes some people to take longer to settle but on average in a large sample, we know what the results will be.

Each UK government has done some good and some bad. I accept that Blair government did genuinely do some good (after following Major's budgetary plans).

The Tories in the last 14 years did some genuinely horribly mistakes but also delivered genuine good e.g. really helped the green economy. The public sector on both sides is always going to have people not being at their best.

If we look at the private sector haven't Oxbridge dominated professional services industries done really well financially?

As I said. It's not the be all and end all. But seems a bit premature to blatantly exclude all academic achievements.

HundredMilesAnHour · 24/10/2025 18:06

Noeasyanswer · 24/10/2025 13:54

Please look at this link from one of Tower Hamlets worst performing secondary schools (only 39% of pupils get 5+ in english and maths at GCSE). It has pupils that get into Imperial, Kings and Oxford, as well as course such as medicine etc.

https://www.mulberryacademyshoreditch.org/19903-2/

There is no need to have low expectations just because someone is from a less privileged background.

You’re missing the point. The discussion is about UEL and how a large proportion of its students are local (from Tower Hamlets/Hackney/Newham) but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t smart kids there who aren’t on a par (or better) with the various posters’ more privileged white children at much ‘better’ universities. The reasons for going to a very local university can be much more complex for those from disadvantaged backgrounds and UEL’s student population who originate from Tower Hamlets is a good example of this.

Croakymccroakyvoice · 24/10/2025 17:53

reallyreallycrazy · 21/10/2025 10:34

Slight hyperbole but not far off.

Yes, of course I suppose my DS should be appreciative of his 'white privilege' (I do detest the term though), but he's been applying to over 100 x spring & summer internships and apprenticeships.

Invariably, he finds that lots of programmes are only open to black/female/social mobility/ND candidates. In one recent case - a global consultancy - there were NO openings for anyone outside of these categories.

And today, on LinkedIn, he forwarded me several links from leading banks reaching out about apprenticeships etc. In most photos, you might be lucky to spot 1-2 white males and in the video of one, there were not a single white male (or female for that matter).

I get that these firms need to do outreach to disadvantaged groups but if you look at the population level percentage of the various group categories, this really has swung too far the other way.

I get that many of these organisations have years to catch up with diversity hires but to try to rebalance in such an aggressive way and in a short space of time, makes it very difficult for young, white males (unless they have qualified for 'free school meals') to get a foot in the door which is especially tough in an incredibly tough grad market as it is.

Can you tell me where the ND/women only grad opportunities are please because my ND dd is really struggling...

NorthXNorthWest · 24/10/2025 17:45

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 14:42

So they didn't do well at school, didn't do well at uni but despite all this they are gonna be the best productive employees at work?

Brains on average take up to mid 20's to develop. Some people take longer to settle but once they do and they find their place they may outperform for the rest of their lives. Some go to Oxbridge and end ambling around rudderless boat for one low skilled job to another, never living up to their 'earlier promise'.

Consigning someone the the scrapheap for not meeting a narrow criteria (no A*'s/2.2 etc) earlier on in their life says more about the person judging them than it does about the individual.

If having a degree from highly selective and exclusive Oxbridge and the Russell Group was the measure of our brightest, best and therefore most deserving (according to some), why have successive UK governments been so spectacularly shit?

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 16:57

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 24/10/2025 15:50

You really show your true colours when you dismiss someone who perhaps got BCC at A Level and a 2-2 in their degree as “not doing well”. You have no idea where people are starting from. Your DS with his first started at the 25m line in a 100m race.

And you say in another post that someone with a 2:2 won’t have the basics skills to do a job in their field? Nonsense. If you asked me to match all the grads in my workplace to university attended and degree classification gained, I’d get it all wrong. Apart perhaps from nailing the entitled, not-as-good-as-they-think, middle class young men with Oxbridge or RG degrees.

Not everyone getting a 2.2 has extenuation circumstances. Obviously extenuating circumstances and personal hardship should definitely be taken in context. But it seems silly to be to just blanket not look at grades and the university degree. It should be toTo me (bar obviously serious hardship and difficulties) a 2.2 is a poor signal to the labour market. On average it shows the person couldn't handle the academic pressure, discipline was inconsistent and they didn't adapt. Obviously it's not reflective of everyone but it is an indication that should be used and assessed as part of the wider application.

I do agree with PPs that removing names and gender from the pre-screen process is sensible and helps mitigate biases.

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 16:12

EmpressoftheMundane · 24/10/2025 15:29

I am sure you can find exceptions. How do you think a business with thousands of applicants for 20 graduate training roles will do the first sift? Do you go looking for ducks on a hill top or in a pond?

Exactly. They'll use certain core metrics to filter out the low hanging fruit. It just has to be done due to the intense number of applications.

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 16:08

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 15:01

You aren’t serious?

Did you have a graduate job? You know it’s just an entry level learning post right?

Friend's DD is a civil engineer. I asked her once what types of projects she works on. She said "oh I've been doing bridges". So I assume in some part of her job she looks at bridges.

User2346 · 24/10/2025 15:57

EmpressoftheMundane · 24/10/2025 15:29

I am sure you can find exceptions. How do you think a business with thousands of applicants for 20 graduate training roles will do the first sift? Do you go looking for ducks on a hill top or in a pond?

That is the issue you get a few exceptions like my DS who put himself out there and could have done Oxbridge if he had put his mind to it and had the inclination. It is natural that you gravitate to the very best as a starting point. It sounds terrible but my heart almost sinks when friends proudly wave off their kids to add to the never ending pile of criminology graduates from the old polytechnics.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 24/10/2025 15:50

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 14:42

So they didn't do well at school, didn't do well at uni but despite all this they are gonna be the best productive employees at work?

You really show your true colours when you dismiss someone who perhaps got BCC at A Level and a 2-2 in their degree as “not doing well”. You have no idea where people are starting from. Your DS with his first started at the 25m line in a 100m race.

And you say in another post that someone with a 2:2 won’t have the basics skills to do a job in their field? Nonsense. If you asked me to match all the grads in my workplace to university attended and degree classification gained, I’d get it all wrong. Apart perhaps from nailing the entitled, not-as-good-as-they-think, middle class young men with Oxbridge or RG degrees.

LightDrizzle · 24/10/2025 15:38

MaturingCheeseball · 21/10/2025 14:02

I can say that publishing is really bad. There seems a concerted effort to eliminate men full stop, no matter what their creed or colour (trans excepted - but then I suppose they are women (!) ).

You’d have thought in the interests of diversity they would want a few males, but no. Not welcome.

Is that really so? A good friend of mine has been in tte field for 35 years and we always assumed the relative dearth of men below board level, where they miraculously appear, was due to the abysmal pay in publishing.

25 years ago it seemed to be dominated by clever posh girls who presumably got fed regularly at weekends by their parents.

A few parties but shit wine and pay.

EmpressoftheMundane · 24/10/2025 15:29

I am sure you can find exceptions. How do you think a business with thousands of applicants for 20 graduate training roles will do the first sift? Do you go looking for ducks on a hill top or in a pond?

HundredMilesAnHour · 24/10/2025 15:20

Where jobs are about written communications, data analysis/manipulation, logical sequencing, managing dependencies and risks, etc., high academic achievement is relevant.

Not necessarily. I’ve worked with plenty of people over the years with all those skills that didn’t go to university, or do A levels, let alone have “high academic achievement”.

User2346 · 24/10/2025 15:15

EmpressoftheMundane · 24/10/2025 15:09

I think we all agree that some jobs need street smarts and some jobs need book smarts. Some need both.

Where jobs are about written communications, data analysis/manipulation, logical sequencing, managing dependencies and risks, etc., high academic achievement is relevant. If it’s not, we should ask why we are bothering to send so many young people to university.

Where a job just needs a smart person without high level skills, then businesses will be happy to take a chance. However, if I need polished communication skills, critical thinking and numeracy, I don’t want to sort out what parents and teachers failed to do. I want the finished article. My goals are business deliverables, not parenting and tutoring. Some mentoring and training is to be expected, but it is expensive and time consuming, so I will choose the least risk option to invest in.

There are far too many young people in university and too few jobs for them.

EmpressoftheMundane · 24/10/2025 15:09

I think we all agree that some jobs need street smarts and some jobs need book smarts. Some need both.

Where jobs are about written communications, data analysis/manipulation, logical sequencing, managing dependencies and risks, etc., high academic achievement is relevant. If it’s not, we should ask why we are bothering to send so many young people to university.

Where a job just needs a smart person without high level skills, then businesses will be happy to take a chance. However, if I need polished communication skills, critical thinking and numeracy, I don’t want to sort out what parents and teachers failed to do. I want the finished article. My goals are business deliverables, not parenting and tutoring. Some mentoring and training is to be expected, but it is expensive and time consuming, so I will choose the least risk option to invest in.

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 15:01

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 14:36

I assume the grad would be working with colleagues to design the bridge?

You aren’t serious?

Did you have a graduate job? You know it’s just an entry level learning post right?

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 14:59

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 14:35

The excel work takes brains. At least the one my DS does. He's not in finance. He's moreso an industry economist and does cost benefit analysis modelling. He's had to design complicated models for his research papers and consultancy projects. This takes time and planning with the assumptions and calculation methodologies rigorously tested. There's been an increased demand in coding skills and the need for python and writing scripts to handle and interpret data.

At an event he bumped into a PhD Maths graduate who is using directly using his maths skills in modelling energy storage technologies. He could have worked in a quant fund but wanted to do something more meaningful.

He got that knowledge through experience, not through his degree. Graduates aren’t doing his job.

surely that’s obvious?!

5128gap · 24/10/2025 14:57

Fladfnda · 24/10/2025 14:42

So they didn't do well at school, didn't do well at uni but despite all this they are gonna be the best productive employees at work?

Not in every case, obviously. The point is that you can't rely on academic outcomes as a reliable measure of inate intelligence, creative thinking, interpersonal skills or diligence. Because all of these qualities can exist in a person who didn't achieve qualifications due to a variety of barriers. Just as they can be missing from a person who did well in education because enough support and money was thrown at it to elevate their mediocrity.

Cloudeee · 24/10/2025 14:54

Leadonmacduffs · 24/10/2025 12:59

Perhaps is all the brown, disabled gays and women getting the top jobs nowadays, what do I know, but I can tell you that the resumes at our global company now have personal details removed before going to the hiring managers because research into why the majority of our workforce was white and middle class and western named showed that candidates with non-white, non western sounding names weren’t even getting to initial interview stages.

And for senior roles women - or let’s say females sounding names - regardless of ethnicity of names weren’t getting to initial interview stages either.
Probably just a coincidence …

And when I said I couldn’t get a job while putting I was straight and white on applications (cv with literally nothing on it not because I’m lazy or stupid but because I got pregnant at 15) until I finally put mixed race and bi I was called a liar on this thread but that doesn’t happen when someone comes in with an anecdote that supports their world view.

For as long as they don’t ask for actual proof of sexuality or ethnicity I actually like DEI lol