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Motherfucking fireworks

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Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 22:27

How is this allowed past 8pm, I don't understand.

Cat is terrified, kid took 2 hours to get to sleep only to be woken up 10 min ago by more frigging fireworks.

how on earth is this still allowed??

I hate this time of year.

It's f** triggering. These twats should go and help in Gaza, I'm sure they would not be firing frigging fireworks after that experience !!

thanks for listening :( :( :(

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mazedasamarchhare · 20/10/2025 23:19

I don’t think they should be band, but I think they should be silent or near silent. It’s the loud bangs which cause the issue for many children (especially children with ASD), for many adults, for pets and wildlife. Last year I attended a silent fireworks display, it was the most spectacular display I’ve ever attended.

DoNotEatWithYourMouthOpen · 20/10/2025 23:17

My cat is cowering under the bed in a tiny space. Shes been there several hours. Utterly terrified. It breaks my heart. You can buy none bang fireworks. You get the light but not the bang. Why dont people use them? The loud fireworks should be banned in my opinion.

Dagda · 20/10/2025 23:16

We get constant fire works in the evening all the way through October. i used not mind then but now we have a dog I hate them (currently the dog is sitting beside me in bed shaking)

ibuprofenhead · 20/10/2025 23:16

Put some white noise on to help your kids sleep. I live in firework central and this helps loads - also good for pets

Nobumsonthetable · 20/10/2025 23:15

Hear hear. They’ve been going every night since Thursday, including at 00.40am this morning, and the dog is bloody losing it. Why can’t there be one official display that ends at like 8pm and that’s it?
btw I feel the same whether it’s Diwali, Guy Fawkes, New years. Kids can’t sleep and the dog needs bloody Prozac. Grr.

Arlanymor · 20/10/2025 23:14

I am all for cultural celebrations, but given the alternatives available, I don't know why it is still legal to buy fireworks that make noise and cause distress to animals. They're also really crap for the environment. I know we can't all have drone displays in our back gardens, but at the very least it should be the law that fireworks available for public purchase have to be soundless.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 20/10/2025 23:11

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 23:08

True.... actually ... they should be banned altogether ... I find them awful and triggering at any hour. But especially when I put my child to bed and try to get them to sleep.

But you dont as you attended a fire works display yesterday. You find them annoying when getting a child to sleep, that’s not the same.

Bushmillsbabe · 20/10/2025 23:09

Still going of like crazy here too. I don't have an issue with them at a reasonable hour. But why, when it gets dark by 7ish, they still need to be going off at past 11 is beyond me. NYE ones are annoying too, but they are usually only for 15 mins or so at midnight, and the next day is a BH for most people. Vs most people have to go to work and school tomorrow, and this has been going on for over 4 hours where I am. Plus it's a bit triggering for me after getting caught up in a civil war when volunteering abroad, probably much more so for ex armed forces and other people who have been caught up in conflicts. At a public display you know when it's going to start and roughly end, rarely more than 10-15 mins. Hours and hours of it is exhausting.

corlan · 20/10/2025 23:09

It's a nightmare where am I am too.Going to bed now but know that the noise will go on for hours and I'll get woken up. There's no consideration shown by the idiots setting off fireworks all night. Presumably they don't have to get up for work tomorrow.

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 23:08

True.... actually ... they should be banned altogether ... I find them awful and triggering at any hour. But especially when I put my child to bed and try to get them to sleep.

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Cornishqween · 20/10/2025 23:08

I hate them now..the local ones anyway. I think organised displays are fine, but there are too many issues with being able to just buy them over the counter at any old shop. When I was a teen I was walking down an underpass with some friends and a gang of lads shot fireworks at us, how we weren’t badly hurt I’ll never know - just terrifying. My dogs are terrified of them too, and the home fireworks go on for weeks. The dogs sit and shake, pant and cry or pace from room to room. No idea why they aren’t banned, just let people go to displays if they want to

Bagsintheboot · 20/10/2025 23:06

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 22:50

@CleancleanallIdoisclean Yes I attended a Diwali party hosted by my best friend yesterday. Fireworks were not the main point of the party, but they had some. They stopped at 7pm.

@Bagsintheboot I don't think it's reasonable to have fireworks past 8pm. That's why I hate NYE too. People shouldn't have to suffer other people's noise, especially noise like this. It's unbearable. It's horrible. Especially when one is trying to sleep.

You live in London - as did I until two month months ago. There is significant noise all night. Between boy racers or delivery drivers with their mopeds or souped up cars, people on nights out shouting and singing in the street as they make their way home, the neighbours having parties, assorted emergency service sirens, the buses hitting that one pothole which was right outside my window, the street sweeping lorries with their "Caution! Vehicle turning left" announcements blaring... Fireworks are the least of the worries when it comes to noise. In my experience it's only quiet-ish between about midnight - 5am.

If you expect peace and quiet in a city after 8pm, you're being a little bit silly.

DiscoNights · 20/10/2025 23:06

I enjoy fireworks, but it’s not fair on animals so I am not in favour of them. Silent fireworks would be a compromise.

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 20/10/2025 23:06

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 22:50

@CleancleanallIdoisclean Yes I attended a Diwali party hosted by my best friend yesterday. Fireworks were not the main point of the party, but they had some. They stopped at 7pm.

@Bagsintheboot I don't think it's reasonable to have fireworks past 8pm. That's why I hate NYE too. People shouldn't have to suffer other people's noise, especially noise like this. It's unbearable. It's horrible. Especially when one is trying to sleep.

The problem is that you can't really pick and choose like that. My dog is just as bothered by them at 6pm as she is at 11pm. It does seem hypocritical to start a thread stating that your cat is terrified, it's effing triggering etc., but then have a get-out clause suggesting "but it's okay for my friends to have them before 7pm".
No it is not okay. It is never okay to have motherfucking fireworks, as you put it. And your thread is misleading.

EchoedSilence · 20/10/2025 23:06

They are still going off now and will be until the early hours. I do think people should stop at 11.

poshcrisps · 20/10/2025 23:03

XenoBitch · 20/10/2025 22:28

It is Diwali. It is a known date for fireworks, just like Nov 5th.

...and it seems to go on for days and nights on end

ToKittyornottoKitty · 20/10/2025 23:03

Why is it only triggering past 8pm? And does your cat get less scared before 8pm? How can it tell the time??

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 20/10/2025 23:02

Why the Gaza chat? I don't think it's unreasonable to have fireworks a few nights a year.

Staringintothevoid616 · 20/10/2025 23:01

The only dates fireworks should be allowed is Nov 5 and the Saturdays either side.- organised events only. Or a well publicised public event eg a national celebration.

Bruisername · 20/10/2025 22:58

My dog isn’t well and is in pain. Had his painkiller and was settling down when the sodding fireworks started and scared the living daylights out of him. He’s not normally bothered but I guess he’s sensitive tonight.

saturday night they were going off at 1am

noiseless fireworks are a thing - the noisy ones should be banned

Makeitstop2025 · 20/10/2025 22:58

I'm Indian and celebrated Diwali today but I am cursing the inconsiderate families in my area who were setting them off at 10.15 tonight. There is no excuse, it's dark now way before 7pm so there is really no need to wait until the majority of the country are fast asleep. Same goes for Bonfire Night.

Fines or licences are the only solutions

Edenmum2 · 20/10/2025 22:57

I don’t remember them being quite so nuclear bomb like when we were kids.

It was our towns bonfire night on Saturday and we live half a mile away and they still literally physically shook our house. At 10pm. 3 year old terrified, cats hiding in cupboards, stress all round.

Glindaa · 20/10/2025 22:56

I’m in favour of a complete ban. As a child they hurt my ears. As an adult I just find them unnecessary and think an LED light display with music is better. It’s not fair on pets and wildlife .

Harriet9955 · 20/10/2025 22:54

EchoedSilence · 20/10/2025 22:39

They go on far later than 11 around here.

the past two night we have had them going off past 2am. me and dh have had little sleep for two nights as terrified dog runs between rooms, scratches doors etc

spm20 · 20/10/2025 22:53

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 22:33

er .. thanks for enlightening me... I know it's Diwali... I live in London. In fact I attended a Diwali party yesterday, but their fireworks stopped at 7pm. Can it just not be kept under control? And kept within some normal hours???

I completely agree with you and I'm Indian and celebrate Diwali but we stop the fireworks at 7pm and only really do them for the children. I would be happy for them to be banned and would prefer a licensed firework display instead.

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