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Motherfucking fireworks

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Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 22:27

How is this allowed past 8pm, I don't understand.

Cat is terrified, kid took 2 hours to get to sleep only to be woken up 10 min ago by more frigging fireworks.

how on earth is this still allowed??

I hate this time of year.

It's f** triggering. These twats should go and help in Gaza, I'm sure they would not be firing frigging fireworks after that experience !!

thanks for listening :( :( :(

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Yamamm · 21/10/2025 06:51

If you had a voting button suggesting it was illegal to use them after 8pm I think that would be what most people can agree on.

Very S Asian community here and for some reason some family have decided to celebrate with a nightly mega mortar bomb thing at 00:30 for three night in a row. They must know they are waking up thousands of people around them. Selfish.

Dorisbonson · 21/10/2025 06:51

A few fireworks past 8pm on New Years Eve, Diwali, 5th November is really not that bad.

It's infrequent, it causes little to no harm, it doesn't damage others property and it doesn't cost you anything other.

CinnamonCrunch33 · 21/10/2025 06:30

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Tiebiter · 21/10/2025 06:29

We are so joyless as a country.

youmustbeshittingme · 21/10/2025 06:28

Bagsintheboot · 20/10/2025 22:37

If you know it's Diwali then surely you can take some preventative measures like calming tablets for the cat, white noise for the child.

Fireworks aren't every night. They are at certain predictable times of the year.

If they were going until 2am you'd have a point. Before 11pm though isn't ridiculous.

Here, they will probably go on for weeks now (or maybe after Halloween). Then kick off again before Christmas until the new year.

Every night, random times from different houses. No way to predict or manage. You can’t drug animals for weeks on end.

NJLX2021 · 21/10/2025 06:27

To the posters saying that only quiet fireworks should be allowed.. that is somewhat already the case. Comparatively.

Come to china on Chinese new year. The fireworks make the normal British ones seem silent. I've never seen massive roles of 200-500 fire crackers that sound like a machine gun of explosions going off in the uk.. or the banging fireworks that have no light and are just there to create as loud a bang as possible.

That being said, it is only for a small window here and they are as good as banned for the rest of the year. I'm ok with that, it's a reasonable compremise. Have a dedicated set of days, only a few, that you are allowed fireworks without a lisence. Any other time requires a licence. Then you will know that 2-5 days a year you'll have to deal with it, but outside of that it will be fine.

BMW6 · 21/10/2025 06:26

BedZed · 20/10/2025 23:29

It is Diwali, the festival of light...mothefucker.

So why the heart-stopping massively eardrum bursting BANG ............cunty chops

Bruisername · 21/10/2025 06:25

IvysMum12 · 21/10/2025 06:13

Have you tried a Thundershirt on him?
It's a "swaddle" in a light, breathable fabric.
Not all dogs like them, but it really helped my terrified dog.
I hope your dog is better soon.

Thanks. He’s not normally bothered by them although I too have noticed they are louder than in the past

the ones Last night were 2 gardens down and being let off randomly for about an hour - and they weren’t even very good ones!!

I don’t understand why thousands of people have their own shitty little displays rather than banding together to have a professional show in the local park or what not

TotallyUnapologeticOmnivore · 21/10/2025 06:16

sosorryimnotsorry · 21/10/2025 04:06

Which has fuck all to do with what I posted!!

And, unlike most of the responses, it's actually quite interesting.

IvysMum12 · 21/10/2025 06:13

Bruisername · 20/10/2025 22:58

My dog isn’t well and is in pain. Had his painkiller and was settling down when the sodding fireworks started and scared the living daylights out of him. He’s not normally bothered but I guess he’s sensitive tonight.

saturday night they were going off at 1am

noiseless fireworks are a thing - the noisy ones should be banned

Have you tried a Thundershirt on him?
It's a "swaddle" in a light, breathable fabric.
Not all dogs like them, but it really helped my terrified dog.
I hope your dog is better soon.

SparklyGlitterballs · 21/10/2025 06:08

They were going off way past 11pm near me (south east) and I thought it was mad with it being a Monday night. They've been going off here since Friday, so it's not just one day. Most likely we'll have random ones going off right up until bonfire night now and beyond. Then more around NYE.

The biggest issue in my opinion is how loud they make them nowadays. If they could go back to being more of a visual thing rather than replicating mortar bombs then I don't think so many people would get upset. I personally wish we had a government who had the balls to either ban them from general sale (restrict them to private displays only), or have a law that only the "silent" fireworks can be sold (I know they're not silent, but they're much quieter).

Maybe I'm yearning to go back to the simplicity of my childhood where we had jumping jacks, catherine wheels nailed to the tree and pathetic rockets that barely left the garden 🤣

Iocanepowder · 21/10/2025 06:05

I love seeing fireworks but I would totally support a ban on general sale after going to a bonfire funfair and having teenagers shoot them into the crowd.

Now having 2 young kids, I would also support a cap on the noise they can make, especially after bedtime.

We’ve had them very loudly around here for 2 nights and the white noise machines we have for the kid just don’t cut it.

Ironfloor269 · 21/10/2025 05:59

I think those who revel in loud fireworks are sadistic attention seekers. Can’t enjoy a lovely light display quietly, no, it has to be loud and draw attention to themselves. If it distresses others, that’s an added bonus.

Im surprised the government hasn’t banned the bastards yet.

iloveyoghurt · 21/10/2025 05:58

Its been going on every night since Friday where i live till very late,ridiculous

Zanatdy · 21/10/2025 05:54

Hate this time of year. Everyone will say you’re a kill joy etc, but people are just too much with them. My dog hates them and it’s made me really notice just how many of the blooming things there are. Cost of living crisis? People can still afford to set fire to a £50 note though.

nasalfluvaccine · 21/10/2025 05:52

Everydayimhuffling · 20/10/2025 23:36

  1. It's Diwali, so there's a clear reason for them and you know when they'll be and can plan accordingly.
  2. The biggest public celebration (Leicester) was cancelled due to safety fears. So people can't just go to public celebrations. There are also far fewer of them.
  3. Because Diwali is a new year celebration, they can go until 1 am, just like all new year celebrations in this country.

If we're going to get rid of one of the fireworks days, I vote for New Year which only recently acquired fireworks or Bonfire Night which celebrates a failed attempt to kill the king in 1604 and is therefore far less culturally significant.

Get rid of the British stuff then?

Whaleandsnail6 · 21/10/2025 05:52

I agreed with you op until you admitted you went to a party with fireworks the night before ...so basically fireworks are ok for you and your friends and family, but not everyone elses?!

A loud banging firework is still a loud banging firework at 7pm or 10pm

I'm surprised that now we have quiet fireworks they haven't got rid if the ridiculous banging ones.

I think they are dangerous and would be happy to see licenced displays only

Empress13 · 21/10/2025 05:52

I’m with you OP they go on for days I have even heard them when it’s dusk FFS! They should be banned and organised displays only on the one day not days on end the poor animals !

BatshitCrazyWoman · 21/10/2025 05:38

They are definitely much, much louder than they used to be. I think if possible they should be made quieter. I'd also prefer it if there was a cut off time for them, as I was woken up after midnight by another round of them 🙄

harveythehorse · 21/10/2025 05:38

Ironfloor269 · 21/10/2025 05:31

Exactly. Festival of LIGHT. Not festival of motherfucking LOUD BANGS, is it?

😂

A perimenopausal night of NO sleep at all had made me properly grumpy so thank you for making me chuckle this morning.

Ironfloor269 · 21/10/2025 05:31

BedZed · 20/10/2025 23:29

It is Diwali, the festival of light...mothefucker.

Exactly. Festival of LIGHT. Not festival of motherfucking LOUD BANGS, is it?

sosorryimnotsorry · 21/10/2025 04:06

HauntedBungalow · 21/10/2025 01:54

Lady Mary, otherwise known as Viscountess of the Honourable Guild of Shawners and Shaverners, was a charismatic if not notorious proponent of the "thunder seeding" theory which had a brief moment of political public debate during the 1930s. She was ultimately unsuccessful and died in a light aircraft accident.

Which has fuck all to do with what I posted!!

Bubblesoffun · 21/10/2025 03:31

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 23:08

True.... actually ... they should be banned altogether ... I find them awful and triggering at any hour. But especially when I put my child to bed and try to get them to sleep.

Yes because the world revolves around your two year old.

LookAtMeWithStarryEyes · 21/10/2025 03:26

I hate fireworks and there have been lots here for the last couple of weeks.

My friends son is autistic and he gets very upset if he hears them. Our dogs aren’t too bad with them usually, we’ve done all the stuff suggested to help them, but they have been so bad this week that one of them did start panting and shaking. 😔 I feel for animals, both pets and wildlife. We seem to have them a lot of nights from the start of October right through til January now and I do wish they would be banned.

harveythehorse · 21/10/2025 03:20

PalePinkPeony · 21/10/2025 00:58

Oh diddy diddums. So butt hurt by a few fireworks a few times per year.
Do you know what I think should be banned or at least licenced. Bloody dog owning. Dirty pooing out of control dogs pretty much everywhere I want to go, and now including shops, cafes and today the flipping swimming pool there was a dog (not medical: working dog either)
But no, those of us that don’t want dogs running up to us and trying to avoid dog shit haven’t got a choice do we. Fireworks have been going off for many a year. If you choose to get a dog, you know this.

Seriously, how many shops and cafes have 'dirty pooing out of control dogs'?

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