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Motherfucking fireworks

238 replies

Sandrine1982 · 20/10/2025 22:27

How is this allowed past 8pm, I don't understand.

Cat is terrified, kid took 2 hours to get to sleep only to be woken up 10 min ago by more frigging fireworks.

how on earth is this still allowed??

I hate this time of year.

It's f** triggering. These twats should go and help in Gaza, I'm sure they would not be firing frigging fireworks after that experience !!

thanks for listening :( :( :(

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OonaStubbs · 22/10/2025 22:01

IMO a lot of fireworks are set off by drug dealers signalling to their "customers" that a new shipment is in.

SaratogaFilly · 22/10/2025 18:50

I love fireworks and as long as they’re within the bounds of the law, then they should be allowed. Everyone these days just moans constantly & no one is allowed to have fun. You know the time of year it is, protect your animals & comfort them, don’t ruin everyone else’s fun just because you don’t like something.

grizzlyoldbear · 22/10/2025 18:39

Agree, totally anti social

suburburban · 22/10/2025 18:20

Maddy70 · 22/10/2025 00:44

Diwali?

It's lovely. Why so miserable? Do you celebrate bonfire night? New year's eve?

Yes but not every night and till late when people are trying to sleep

Evergreen21 · 22/10/2025 03:31

I understand that they will be lit for Diwali, bonfire night and Chinese new year. On those nights I can preempt the noise yet I still think they should be within a certain time frame and this should be enforced.

It's when they are unpredictable that it is worse. We have had fireworks set off in our small ex mining town since the start of October. We are in Scotland and there is known hooliganism/anti social behaviour around bonfire night but this has just started early. We are on an estate of new build houses where sadly most gardens back on to several others. There just isn't the space to do fireworks in your own garden safely here. We end up with loads of fireworks paraphernalia in our garden. Last year I found the neighbours cat shivering under my trampoline, as soon as I opened my back door she ran in and cowered under my kitchen table. For the last 3 weeks my 4 year old has woken up crying due to fireworks and has been too scared to sleep in her own room as they go on for at least 2 hours. We have an ex soldier opposite who is struggling too, I bought him and dd2 noise cancelling headphones and hopefully they will help somewhat.

I think there shoukd be a consultation around banning them outside of organised displays.

Firefly1987 · 22/10/2025 03:08

Every night here but very short-lived maybe only going off for 10 mins or so. Still annoying and super loud (we don't even have very close neighbours) but at least it's not for long. Problem is they'll be going off almost nightly for the rest of the year and it's really overkill. I'll be bloody sick of them by Bonfire night!

Maddy70 · 22/10/2025 00:44

Diwali?

It's lovely. Why so miserable? Do you celebrate bonfire night? New year's eve?

OonaStubbs · 22/10/2025 00:29

Fireworks should be banned except for organised displays.

SheSpeaks · 22/10/2025 00:12

I’m sitting in bed listening to the fireworks now and it’s past midnight, they started tonight at about 10pm.

All summer I think they are for weddings? Every day often during daylight?

As I say lots are just the noisemakers, no sparkles. I think they call them barrages?

corlan · 21/10/2025 21:25

Makeitstop2025 · 21/10/2025 21:14

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but Sikhs are celebrating Diwali today (Bandi Chor) whereas Hindus and Jains celebrated it yesterday.
(Runs out of thread and hides)

Yeah - we've had it again all evening. Sick of it now.

Makeitstop2025 · 21/10/2025 21:14

iloveyoghurt · 21/10/2025 21:03

5 days in a row? We still have thm tonight

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but Sikhs are celebrating Diwali today (Bandi Chor) whereas Hindus and Jains celebrated it yesterday.
(Runs out of thread and hides)

iloveyoghurt · 21/10/2025 21:03

sanityisamyth · 21/10/2025 19:40

First post nails it.

5 days in a row? We still have thm tonight

RitaFromThePitCanteen · 21/10/2025 20:12

I have fond memories of Bonfire Night fireworks and bonfires with my family as a child, back when 5th November was a bigger deal than it is now. We did the whole burning the guy thing that has mostly been done away with for being too weird.

I'd be sad to see Bonfire Night completely done away with, as at least one commenter has suggested. We barely have any national days in this country as it is.

I think only quieter fireworks should be sold. And public events organisers should consider investing in drone displays instead of fireworks if they have the funds.

sanityisamyth · 21/10/2025 19:40

XenoBitch · 20/10/2025 22:28

It is Diwali. It is a known date for fireworks, just like Nov 5th.

First post nails it.

suburburban · 21/10/2025 19:33

Everydayimhuffling · 20/10/2025 23:36

  1. It's Diwali, so there's a clear reason for them and you know when they'll be and can plan accordingly.
  2. The biggest public celebration (Leicester) was cancelled due to safety fears. So people can't just go to public celebrations. There are also far fewer of them.
  3. Because Diwali is a new year celebration, they can go until 1 am, just like all new year celebrations in this country.

If we're going to get rid of one of the fireworks days, I vote for New Year which only recently acquired fireworks or Bonfire Night which celebrates a failed attempt to kill the king in 1604 and is therefore far less culturally significant.

Do you not have to get up for work and till 1 a.m. on a working night is very selfish imo

WildLimePoet · 21/10/2025 19:29

Staringintothevoid616 · 21/10/2025 12:33

Actually we don’t, we just know someone making big explosions in the sky, in the most recent case to celebrate some made up stories is more important than the lives of sentient beings.

ok, so you half get it. Well, better than not getting it at all then.

Ontobetterthings · 21/10/2025 19:26

We had it last night. Really loud fireworks til 1am. My kids couldn't sleep they were that loud. They were exhausted this morning for school. I think its so inconsiderate esp as its not a weekend.

XWKD · 21/10/2025 19:18

I'm in Ireland, and Halloween is the big fireworks night, but the weeks leading up to it have fireworks as well. The ones this year sound like bombs going off. Fireworks are banned here, but it doesn't make any difference.

Whaleandsnail6 · 21/10/2025 19:12

Staringintothevoid616 · 21/10/2025 18:39

its not just pets though is it? It’s wildlife.wildlife is necessary. Pets exist in this country and for the vast majority of people are part of the family. Fireworks cause issues for pets and wildlife. It causes stress and death. Fireworks have no feelings. If someone thinks constant fireworks in the sky, at a wedding or minority religious festival are more important than and animals health and life that’s not someone I want to have any contact with - we are a nation of animal lovers

I agree with this

Also you can buy quieter or low sound fireworks...there is no need to have the huge bang to enjoy the display other than selfishness

Crazycatladywithnocats · 21/10/2025 19:03

SheSpeaks · 21/10/2025 12:57

Fireworks are a feature of daily life. Every day and every night there are fireworks going off here. Could be 3pm or 3am seems to make no matter. Someone is having a display every single evening, it’s often better now as they are often between 8-10pm whereas when it doesn’t get dark until 10pm they are often let off 11pm-2am. Many of them are just the noise ones so nothing to actually see, too,

Hearing and seeing them every day is so normal and unremarkable that I wonder each time I see these threads complaining about one evening. I didn’t notice any unusual fireworks this week, just the standard amount.

It does seem to calm down a bit in the spring, I’ll admit. Feb to April is only occasional but always every day/night all summer, autumn and Christmas/new year season.

Sod that! I’d hate to live in your town. It would tip me over the edge!

Staringintothevoid616 · 21/10/2025 18:39

Tiebiter · 21/10/2025 09:32

Fireworks and pets are equally 'unnecessary'. Fireworks and pets both bring joy. Fireworks and pets both cause injury.

its not just pets though is it? It’s wildlife.wildlife is necessary. Pets exist in this country and for the vast majority of people are part of the family. Fireworks cause issues for pets and wildlife. It causes stress and death. Fireworks have no feelings. If someone thinks constant fireworks in the sky, at a wedding or minority religious festival are more important than and animals health and life that’s not someone I want to have any contact with - we are a nation of animal lovers

Staringintothevoid616 · 21/10/2025 18:29

Clearlynow · 21/10/2025 14:12

Those of you nobs that reply with 'but-but it's only one night or it's Diwali', can you please explain how people coped celebrating Diwali and Guy Fawkes Night before ear drum shattering mortar bomb fireworks were invented?????

Is it really fucking necessary to upset so many people and animals just because you're bored? No. It's not. And most of the twats setting off fireworks buy them and set them off because they fucking well can, not because they give a shit about religion or tradition. I doubt most of them have even heard of Guy Fawkes. God this country is full of twats. Rammed full of them.

I don’t mind organised events for guy fawkes night as it is a national celebration and important part of our history, we do need to make sure everyone understands what it’s about - and yes the fireworks should be scaled back - kids maybe encouraged more “penny for the guy etc”. - but it’s important we have national and local traditional events. But it’s a big no for weddings and minority religious celebrations

LessOfThis · 21/10/2025 17:22

Boomer55 · 21/10/2025 07:29

Well, animals don’t have the right to live fireworks free either. 🤷‍♀️

Humans are above pets really, nuisance though it may be.

You have a dreadful attitude.

Elbowpatch · 21/10/2025 17:16

BMW6 · 21/10/2025 16:11

I was born in 1958 and remember the fireworks were nothing like as loud as they are nowadays!

I love the look of them but the really loud bangs add nothing to a celebration of Light. They should be banned and leave in the really spectacular visual ones.

I’m a similar age. While I’ll agree that the really loud fireworks were not as common, I do remember them from organised displays both in the UK and abroad.

I like them. That said, I think that fireworks should only be on sale to the general public for the week before Bonfire Night like they used to be.

BMW6 · 21/10/2025 16:11

Elbowpatch · 21/10/2025 14:14

Those of you nobs that reply with 'but-but it's only one night or it's Diwali', can you please explain how people coped celebrating Diwali and Guy Fawkes Night before ear drum shattering mortar bomb fireworks were invented????

I doubt anyone alive can remember that far back. It was a very long time ago.

I was born in 1958 and remember the fireworks were nothing like as loud as they are nowadays!

I love the look of them but the really loud bangs add nothing to a celebration of Light. They should be banned and leave in the really spectacular visual ones.

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