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Do I tell him?

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Anyusernamewilldo2025 · 20/10/2025 17:24

Had sex with a guy I met after chatting for a while and agreeing fwb. A few days later he gave some bullshit reason why he could no longer be fwb, honestly I'm pretty sure he got back with his ex/they hadn't actually split up (i was not aware or suspicious of this until after we hooked up)

Now discovered I'm pregnant, yep stupid I know. I can't continue the pregnancy and have made the appointment but do I give him the courtesy of telling him?

YABU he has a right to know/tell him

YANBU given the decision is made no point in telling him

OP posts:
bugalugs45 · 20/10/2025 17:29

No need to tell him , you’ve made your decision. I’d also get myself tested for STIs at the earliest opportunity

MidlandsGal1 · 20/10/2025 17:27

I wouldn’t tell him.

Comedycook · 20/10/2025 17:25

I wouldn't tell him. Hope you're ok.

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