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The wait for NHS test results is cruel and anxiety inducing

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Summortime · 20/10/2025 11:19

I had a routine NHS mammogram a week ago. Was told up to three weeks wait for the result. I cannot believe this is considered acceptable. In USA for example you can get the result within the next couple of days. My American colleague was shocked that here in the UK we are just expected to wait.

My anxiety is sky high. I appreciate this is a problem I need to get help with but if results were given in days rather than weeks my anxiety would not be so bad. It is the waiting that’s the worst.

How in a so called first world country is a long wait for test results considered acceptable?

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TheEllisGreyMethod · 20/10/2025 13:30

Summortime · 20/10/2025 11:28

Lade I don’t get my mammograms for free, like most working people national insurance is automatically deducted from my payslip. A huge amount of my pay is deducted every month! I’ve been working for 30 years!

Yes, you're not special in this. The majority of us pay in, I also pay in a significant amount.
It's free at the point of access.
God forbid you did have a cancer and it was work health insurance like the USA, you could need over a year off and it wouldn't cover all your treatment. What if you needed life long treatment and couldn't work anymore?
We're incredibly lucky in the UK, despite what certain people are trying to make us believe.
And for what it is worth, if there is something sinister they usually contact you much sooner.
Get help for your anxiety, and get over yourself.

Sleepysunrise · 20/10/2025 13:29

Coatsoff42 · 20/10/2025 12:46

What is an unspoken insider bit of knowledge is that if there are concerns on the scan they will phone you really quickly and get you in almost the next day to plan treatment etc.
But if they leave you waiting for weeks, it’s almost certainly fine.
Of course no-one tells you this, and given the state of the NHS you quite reasonably think you might have fallen through the net.
It is very stressful YANBU.

Erm... I am a breastscreening manager and this is absolutely not true.
ALL mammograms are read by 2 film readers in the same time scale and then escalated to arbitration if there is a clinical alert.
You will then receive an invitation to return for assessment within 14 days if we need to recall you.
It is not a code of practice to call anyone and we would not be able to call someone in to start "planning treatment " without carrying out further diagnostic tests.
This is rubbish.

ParmaVioletTea · 20/10/2025 13:29

If it's a routine mammogram, then why are you anxious? Every woman over 50 is invited to a routine mammogram, even if she's never reported symptoms.

In fact I've rarely had anything after a mammogram: I assume that's it's because they saw nothing. I assume they only follow up if they find something to follow up.

Friendlyfart · 20/10/2025 13:29

In my experience they’re back within a week or so. The worst wait was when I got a callback and had to go through to biopsy stage (all done at the breast clinic in one afternoon), then the week’s wait was torturous. I did get the all-clear thankfully.
You can get any test privately if you pay / I’ve done it a few times. I’d hate to be in a US system.

BIossomtoes · 20/10/2025 13:29

Meadowfinch · 20/10/2025 13:17

@RosesAndHellebores No, it isn't shot (or shit) for everyone. I'm sorry you think that.

I've had one emergency op, one childbirth and a mastectomy/chemo/radio etc.

The treatment I have received on the NHS has always been fast, professional, compassionate and effective. And totally lacking in paperwork.

I agree. Mine amounts to two births - one live, one otherwise - and gall bladder removal. Not bad in 72 years. It’s been a real eye opener seeing cancer treatment from a front row seat, it’s seriously impressive when a patient can report concerns in the morning and be seen in a world class cancer centre the same afternoon. I defy any healthcare system anywhere to better that.

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 20/10/2025 13:27

Summortime · 20/10/2025 11:28

Lade I don’t get my mammograms for free, like most working people national insurance is automatically deducted from my payslip. A huge amount of my pay is deducted every month! I’ve been working for 30 years!

@Summortime
Be grateful that routine mammograms are offered.
I had mine on 7th July and received a recall letter on 16th for a repeat, ultrasound and biopsy on 23rd. Results from that on 11th August. I then had to have one with contrast and got my final results on 1st September. Had surgery 5 weeks ago and starting radiotherapy in a couple of weeks. No complaints from me about the NHS.
Just think, in the US if you receive a breast cancer diagnosis any surgery, radiotherapy, chemo and medication would have to be paid for by you or your medical insurance (which will be costing much more if the US government doesn’t get back to work).
Be careful what you wish for.
I wouldn’t swap the NHS for the US system.

AlleycatMarie · 20/10/2025 13:26

Your US colleague will not be getting her mammogram for free! You had a routine screening, 3 weeks is nothing! Recently had the all clear from my routine smear test. Was told up to 4 weeks, got it back a week later. The NHS has its faults, but we are so lucky to receive such screening services without additional cost.

realhousewifeofoc · 20/10/2025 13:26

I have stage 4 cancer and I basically live scan to scan, every 3 months. It determines my treatment lines, which I have now exhausted. I regularly wait over 3 weeks for the results,despite them being used to determine what or if I can have further treatment.

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 13:26

Meadowfinch · 20/10/2025 13:17

@RosesAndHellebores No, it isn't shot (or shit) for everyone. I'm sorry you think that.

I've had one emergency op, one childbirth and a mastectomy/chemo/radio etc.

The treatment I have received on the NHS has always been fast, professional, compassionate and effective. And totally lacking in paperwork.

I shall not forget when my mother, aged 87, needed a blood test prior to a cardiology appointment for which she had to travel 80 miles. She really struggles with tech and couldn't make it on the computer system so telephoned phlebotomy to be told peremptorily, at a time when she was very anxious, "no, you can't make an appointment by phone. If you can't make it using the computer system, then you need to find someone who can to do it for you". It was a despicable way to treat an old lady with potential heart failure and a poor prognosis without the op.

I did it for her of course but what she experienced is the attitude I experience 50% of the time when using the NHS.

HPFA · 20/10/2025 13:25

MrsFantastic · 20/10/2025 12:19

When Millais became president of Argentina he brought in a rule that the words "taxpayer funded" had to be used for government services instead of "free". I think that's a good idea. It makes it clearer where the money comes from.

Will the USA give us a £40 billion handout if we bust our economy a la Millei as well?

crowsfeet57 · 20/10/2025 13:21

I had this on Thursday and was told 4-5 week wait for the results. Realistically that's pretty good for a routine mammogram that we don't even have to pay for.

underthecokesign · 20/10/2025 13:20

AppleStrudel16 · 20/10/2025 12:04

What we get is far cheaper than what we should be paying for it though. I had a surgery that was £10k minimum private, for a very low cost monthly!!!

Point taken, that is very true. I got really annoyed with a friend some years back for constantly moaning about delays with the diagnostics and treatment she received for a rare condition. I remembered wondering if she'd thought how much the whole thing would have cost her to go private.

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 13:20

Meadowfinch · 20/10/2025 13:04

Because the mean salary in the UK is £31,600, and NI paid on that is £2,284. Over 50 working years that's £114,000 which doesn't cover the cost of a state pension, never mind NHS treatment.

To be a net contributor in any year, you have to earn somewhere north of £50k which means the majority of people cost more than they contribute.

The NHS and many other services are also funded from taxation.

I shall never stop paying tax, just as my 89 year old mother and mother in law ha e not stopped paying tax. You name it, we've paid it over the years, including: IHT, CGT and stamp duty.

It is perfectly reasonable that everyone who uses the NHS is treated well because they are all paid for.

Lactosan83 · 20/10/2025 13:19

Are you all aware that US is not the only country to compare healthcare to?
It's really like saying "well it's better than being dead isn't it", which is a very lousy argument.

crazeekat · 20/10/2025 13:18

Now you really are attention seeking.

Meadowfinch · 20/10/2025 13:17

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 13:13

💯

We have a home in France and it's beyond comparison. Here it's shot for everyone and nine times out of ten delivered with very little basic courtesy.

@RosesAndHellebores No, it isn't shot (or shit) for everyone. I'm sorry you think that.

I've had one emergency op, one childbirth and a mastectomy/chemo/radio etc.

The treatment I have received on the NHS has always been fast, professional, compassionate and effective. And totally lacking in paperwork.

Seelybe · 20/10/2025 13:16

@Summortime I don't have the patience to read the whole thread, but I think your attitude needs some adjusting.
There is a wait for the results for NHS mammograms because they factor in what will be needed next if more tests etc are needed. So they don't tell people something has come up but then they have weeks to wait for the next step.
And yes, NI does pay for the NHS but it also pays for state pensions and benefits. You could always emigrate to somewhere where everything is private?

WFHforevermore · 20/10/2025 13:16

What a moaner you are 😂

Doveyouknow · 20/10/2025 13:16

The USA spends 17% of it's GDP on healthcare, the UK spends 11%. Add in the fact that much of that 17% will be spent on those who are able to afford good insurance and you can see why they can have great turn around times for tests. If we want a similar service for all our population, we would need to pay a lot more tax.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/10/2025 13:14

I'll add that some tests are no longer available at all in Fife - Fife no longer does leg vein scans.

I finished up paying to have mine done...by the chap who used to do them for Fife. (Turns out that I'm missing some valves in one leg...They were never there in the first place, which explains a lot.)

MrsDoubtfire1 · 20/10/2025 13:14

You need to go to a private consultant in a city if you want quick results. The NHS is free for people so you don't have to pay. In the US you would have to pay which you can also do privately in the UK. If you have concerns then you must contact the relevant department or a specialist nurse.

Neemie · 20/10/2025 13:14

It is only free if you don’t pay any tax. If you do pay a tax you have to cover the cost of everyone who doesn’t pay tax and that is an awful lot of people in the UK. That is why the nhs is not great.

Charlotte120221 · 20/10/2025 13:14

National Insurance is just another tax though - notionally it pays for NHS and benefits and pensions but clearly it doesn't cover all of that.

Americans are paying their taxes AND health insurance. Failure to have health insurance can mean you go bankrupt. Our system is in no way comparable. If you like the US system so much then by all means get your own health insurance here.

MrsCookieCat · 20/10/2025 13:13

@Summortimei am so sorry this is making you anxious and i completely understand why. It’s shit.

I work in NHS screening and if there was anything nasty or unusual found you would generally hear much sooner. These cases get prioritised, the negative ones which is the majority then have to wait to be signed off hence the three week turnaround.

I know it’s super hard but try not to worry, if there’s anything you need to know hopefully you’ll hear soon

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 13:13

Lundier · 20/10/2025 13:07

I agree the French system is wildly better. They do have copayments and an insurance model, but not the sort of Hunger Games approach of the US. I wish we could get out from under the shadow of the nightmarish US healthcare system and look instead at how our nearer neighbours handle things.

France spends a little bit more than us, about 1% more, and the mutuelle on top is maybe another £50 a month. So for most people it's like a water bill, not a mortgage. And the difference in care is amazing.

💯

We have a home in France and it's beyond comparison. Here it's shot for everyone and nine times out of ten delivered with very little basic courtesy.