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Has everyone forgotten Jonathan Ross and Sachsgate?

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Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:50

I love traitors but i detest Jonathon Ross. I clearly remember his vile phone calls to Andrew Sachs about his grandaughter. Along with his accomplice Russel Brand - vile, laddish behaviour. How is he even still working? Does he have mates in high places - people's careers have gone under for much less.
Also he makes my skin crawl and is ruining a damn good show.

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deadpan · 18/10/2025 20:59

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:54

@didntlikeanyofthesuggestions--well yes obviously but why? When others have been shot down for much less?

Because of when it happened, it was during a time when it still didn't really matter to the powers that be and he was a big name. If it happened now he wouldn't get away with it. Not that he should have got away with it then. Brand's so called comedy routines were way over the line but he was still given jobs ie: Celebrity Bake Off.

PeonyBulb · 18/10/2025 20:56

No I haven’t forgotten but it’s old news and I just don’t care

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 20:55

@PuppyluckyAm I a viscious poster then?
'Family man' ' keeps his head down' - what does that have to do with it? So he's got kids and hasn't done anything actively awful for a few years to save his own ass!
Give him a medal!
He's a slime ball - vile towards women - horrible harrassment of an old guy purely for his own entertainment.
I just think he's slipped through the net for a long time when other misogynistic behaviour has been called out.
He never really apologised he just realised he had to stop being a dick before he lost his career and that's a very different thing.
And if that's me/social media visciously tearing a strip off yet another over paid dick on TV then so be it.

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sarahw131 · 18/10/2025 20:55

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/10/2025 19:57

I mean, sexist comments about a woman usually go completely unpunished (especially back then!) so her being related to Andrew sachs meant justice was served 🤷‍♀️ and their show was cancelled

People in the media do far worse than that, even today, so I can let it go

You should watch some of Russell Howard's older stand up. And the first season of Would I Lie To You, i had a shock when I watched that, omg

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Did you mean Russell Howard or Russell Brand? Just curious I’ve never heard anything like this about Russell Howard?

incognitomouse · 18/10/2025 20:55

I agree with @Puppylucky and I also thought it was a huge overreaction at the time.

Yes it was an absolute shitty thing to do but come on. The fact that Andrew Sachs then didn't talk to his granddaughter for years over it - that was his own doing. She did nothing wrong, other than make some questionable life choices, but who hasn't done that.

They apologised, there was no real damage done - it wasn't pleasant but worse things have happened. Far far worse.

BoredZelda · 18/10/2025 20:54

Yes. And worse, a whole lot of people have blamed Sachs’ granddaughter for being attention seeking and having orchestrated the whole thing to get herself a career. Utterly shameful, but the narrative persists. It’s never the fault of the sleazy middle aged men, always their young target to blame.

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:54

Keepoffmyartichokes · 18/10/2025 20:49

I would love to be as perfect as most of the posters on here, he made a mistake. Yes it was absolutely awful what he did but it was almost 20 years ago. Some people on here need to get a grip.

It wouldn’t be possible for me to disagree with you more. Do you actually remember what happened?

And for what it’s worth, I think Andrew Sachs was a refugee from the Holocaust. He must have thought the country had gone downhill since his arrival.

SirRaymondClench · 18/10/2025 20:53

VivienneDelacroix · 18/10/2025 20:03

I agree. I feel the same way about Boy George. Disgusting men who in the real world would have been shunned by anyone with any sense.

I feel that way about BG. My old flatmate was a huge fan of his in the 90s and bought his autobiography.
I read it after him and was horrified by what a nasty little misogynist he is.

mydogisthebest · 18/10/2025 20:53

I really like him and always have. The only reason I am watching Traitors is because he is in it. I probably would not bother otherwise

Thortour · 18/10/2025 20:52

I haven't. He has two daughters who are part of the pro trans movement. The entire family seem ghastly.

Iwanttoliveinagardencentre · 18/10/2025 20:50

I have never forgotten it and agree he his behaviour should have been career ending.

He is repulsive.

I could never really see the point of him before that disgusting episode but I make sure to never watch anything with him in it since.

It showed his attitude to women and his cruelty disguised as so called humour.

A pair of overgrown teenage bullies.

He isn’t fit to lick Andrew Sachs boots.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 18/10/2025 20:49

I would love to be as perfect as most of the posters on here, he made a mistake. Yes it was absolutely awful what he did but it was almost 20 years ago. Some people on here need to get a grip.

PrancingBean · 18/10/2025 20:48

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:36

What ? A prank call?! Come on

You’re right. Just last night I called an elderly man and sniggered while my friend left sexual messages and then shouted “he fucked your granddaughter”

it was hilarious. Such a prank.

powershowerforanhour · 18/10/2025 20:48

"Also the sainted John Peel. He admitted to several encounters with underage fans in the 70s, but he died before the climate of sexual permissiveness changed."

Yeah, DH waxes lyrical over JP's contribution to new music and that whole Boat That Rocked type era. And I say, oh you mean the guy Tim Westwood seems to have modelled himself on? Statutory rape John Peel? That John Peel?

ByMintLion · 18/10/2025 20:47

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:22

Not a fan of either.
At the time, Stephen Fry had JR on his shoe to, in Fry’s words, help him off the‘naughty step.’ Yep, their behaviour was trivialised to that extent.
David Bowie never appeared on Ross’ show again, despite Ross persistently asking him to. Now there was a Star, May he Rest in Peace.

David bowie, 🤯🤔👀

DarkRootsBlue · 18/10/2025 20:47

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:31

Honestly this whole thread (assuming it's genuine and not a bunch of bots) is everything that's wrong with the world at the moment. The guy's a fairly middle ranking celebrity - on TV once a week in the UK only plus a weekly radio show. He acted like an overgrown schoolboy shouting down the telephone on a prank call 15(?) years ago - apologised, resigned from all his broadcasting responsibilities with the BBC and has kept his head down ever since. He is a family man with 3 kids and a wife he clearly adores and supports multiple charities. And still vicious posters on here want to attack and smear him with the usual default "perv" / paedo allegations. And before anyone accuses me of anything - I quite like him and find him watchable but it's more about being totally sick of seeing human beings being ripped apart on line.

I agree with you. I like him, I always have.

He acted like a complete dick 20 years ago, his show was cancelled, justice done. I’m not aware of any sleazy stories about him, he has been with his wife since 1986 and is supportive of his children.

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/10/2025 20:45

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 20:16

@afalorenbloody hope so. Has he got grandchildren i wonder? What would he make of such a prank I wonder? Once a dick always a dick in my book.

I've seen many wonderful, inspirational, kind, intelligent people be dicks.

Everybody's a dick at some point.🤷‍♀️

Teaforthetotal · 18/10/2025 20:45

stomachamelon · 18/10/2025 20:44

’To err is human, too forgive is divine’

He made a mistake, he apologised, gave up his commitments and moved on. So should we. If he repeated his behaviours then that’s different but honestly this cleansing of anyone who doesn’t meet a perceived ‘good enough’ is just odd to me and where does it leave people who do commit mistakes? No ability to rehabilitate? Ever?

I am happy to just not like people and choose to not watch what they are in. I hate ‘cancelling’. If we get it wrong it destroys peoples whole livelihoods.

Do you work at the BBC by any chance?

DiscoBob · 18/10/2025 20:45

I can't say I'm still fussed about it tbh.

stomachamelon · 18/10/2025 20:44

’To err is human, too forgive is divine’

He made a mistake, he apologised, gave up his commitments and moved on. So should we. If he repeated his behaviours then that’s different but honestly this cleansing of anyone who doesn’t meet a perceived ‘good enough’ is just odd to me and where does it leave people who do commit mistakes? No ability to rehabilitate? Ever?

I am happy to just not like people and choose to not watch what they are in. I hate ‘cancelling’. If we get it wrong it destroys peoples whole livelihoods.

Teaforthetotal · 18/10/2025 20:44

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:40

Prank call!!?

To call an elderly grandfather on national TV and tell him you’ve fucked his granddaughter? And have a good old snigger about it?

Prank call?

What nightmare world are you living in?

It was shockingly disgusting even by the standards of back then.

powershowerforanhour · 18/10/2025 20:42

"I remember JR embarrassing several female guests with his crude sexual remarks and suggestions - Michelle Pfeifer was one. I felt ashamed of British TV on her behalf. She was clearly shocked."

He was the same with Gwyneth Paltrow. Puke. He was actually at his best playing an interview completely straight and seriously, because he could come across quite nice and get a guest to relax and talk, but with any remotely attractive woman he just defaulted to sleaze like they are just fuck toys not human beings. What was the point of even asking them any questions, he could have just walked them on set, got them to do a twirl, slavered over them for a bit and sent them on their way. It would have had the same effect.

Mind you the benchmark nation's favourite proper chat show host at the time was the beloved Parky. Smug git and a self satisfied, shit interviewer of both sexes but especially women.

Teaforthetotal · 18/10/2025 20:42

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:35

Also the sainted John Peel. He admitted to several encounters with underage fans in the 70s, but he died before the climate of sexual permissiveness changed.

The lesson from this is a depressing one: some powerful men will do whatever they want if allowed, and also the behaviour of famous people is very much influenced by the moral climate fostered by broadcasters such as as the BBC. While the BBC was tolerant of all kinds of misogyny, they took advantage of. And the BBC very much enabled such as Saville and Harris.

I hate it every month when 6 music do a tribute to the paedo.
I also abhor JR in light of the Andrew Sach incident. I think it still has shock value today. He also seems talentless?

opencecilgee · 18/10/2025 20:41

Ohh I had forgotten he was involved with that. Of course!

why wasnt he cancelled?

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:40

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:36

What ? A prank call?! Come on

Prank call!!?

To call an elderly grandfather on national TV and tell him you’ve fucked his granddaughter? And have a good old snigger about it?

Prank call?

What nightmare world are you living in?