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Has everyone forgotten Jonathan Ross and Sachsgate?

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Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:50

I love traitors but i detest Jonathon Ross. I clearly remember his vile phone calls to Andrew Sachs about his grandaughter. Along with his accomplice Russel Brand - vile, laddish behaviour. How is he even still working? Does he have mates in high places - people's careers have gone under for much less.
Also he makes my skin crawl and is ruining a damn good show.

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NotbloodyGivingupYet · 18/10/2025 23:13

Never liked him before, but can't bear to watch him ever since that phone call. It wasn't just a bad taste joke, it was a nasty bullying derogatory phone call that dropped a bomb into a family relationship. And twenty years ago wasn't prehistoric. It was shocking behaviour then. I honestly don't know how anyone who remembers the phone call can watch him without recoiling.

Createausername1970 · 18/10/2025 23:01

I am in no way condoning JR. I thought that phone call was ridiculous.

But I will say what I said at the time. To the best of my knowledge his show wasn't live, so my understanding is that phonecall could have been cut, or the whole show pulled.

If that is correct then someone other than them passed it for broadcast. Whoever that was is just as culpable.

BigFatBully · 18/10/2025 23:00

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/10/2025 22:14

But the woman maintained that she racially abused her, along with violently attacking her because she tried to stop her stealing the lollipops she was selling

This isnt the same as the JR thing at all and is disgusting

How can we TRUTHFULLY know what or wasn't said in the toilets that night? The violence was despicable but I believe Cheryl complied with punishment(s) set out by the court and has moved on with her life.

Should everyone who gets involved in a scuffle on a night out be banned from working for life? That'd be a heck of a lot of UC to be paid out!

DarkRootsBlue · 18/10/2025 23:00

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:29

The past was certainly a different country!

I remember JR embarrassing several female guests with his crude sexual remarks and suggestions - Michelle Pfeifer was one. I felt ashamed of British TV on her behalf. She was clearly shocked.

Also, his brother Paul was on a reality show of some kind with the glamour model Abi someone..can’t remember her surname but she was very famous 15 years ago - and he just kept bullying her about her ‘beaky’ nose until she was extremely uncomfortable. His point was that she wasn’t the vision of perfection he thought she should have been. He was very, very far from an oil painting himself.🙄

I hope those times are gone.

What did he say to Michelle Pfeiffer? She seems to have been on his shows a few times, when was it?

Paul Ross is talentless and sleazy, I’ll give you that one.

NetZeroZealot · 18/10/2025 22:58

Thank you OP for reminding me why I dislike him so much.

OwlBeThere · 18/10/2025 22:54

If We’re going to judge JR for his actions and his friendship with RB. Surely it’s only fair that we also judge Andrew Sachs for his refusal to speak to his granddaughter after the incident and his friendship with John Cleese who is hardly a nice man.

and surely we should talk about the character of Manuel and how it is extremely derogatory to Spanish people, which Andrew sachs was not? Not sure that would fly today.

see? We can twist just about any narrative to make it fit our world view if we want to.

personally I think RB is an awful human being, John Cleese is also a dick, Jonathan Ross and Andrew Sachs I can’t really bring myself to care about much either way.

MsJinks · 18/10/2025 22:47

I remember it, and mention it about Ross at times if others don’t seem to - though it hardly comes up regularly. I did mention it when more stuff came out about Brand, but it has sort of paled for him with the rest of his vile behaviour.
I thought Ross got away with it more at the time, ie got back to TV faster, as he apologised and Brand didn’t.
Still it was a disgraceful thing to do and I don’t know why anyone wanted to keep watching him or employing him in his roles, not so much now as I don’t think what he did 20 years ago should necessarily be held against him but how he kept going and getting better and better gigs after a very brief spell off air - like he’d been caught shoplifting or smoked a joint or something. He just should have had to stay off screen or very minor stuff in my opinion.
I hear ‘it was different back then’ but it was the 21st century not the 1950s or even 1980s - we expected better by that time, and if we look back and think we didn’t as an excuse for this sort of thing it will never end.
I didn’t know his wife was so young, seems he is just a genuine sleazebag with more chances than many to act on it - great - we can look back in 20 years time and say oh it was different in the 2020s I guess 🤢

Yousay55 · 18/10/2025 22:46

I think of this every time I see him, op. Some people just get away with awful things.

Krylek · 18/10/2025 22:40

It happened, it wasn’t nice, he apologised, and I’m sure he regrets it.

What do you want to happen? Prison? Him to walk the streets self-flagellating to atone for his sins?

Shit happens and people make mistakes.

captainoctopus · 18/10/2025 22:38

He isn't good with paperwork. He likes old cars. That's all I know about him.

mydogisthebest · 18/10/2025 22:31

DarkRootsBlue · 18/10/2025 22:22

I’d rather defend someone than make up baseless shit. He made the phone call. We all agree it was appalling. That is pretty much the only fact.

You can almost hear the salivating at calling him a pervert, making up memories of how he was awful to Charlotte Church, that he didn’t apologise to Georgina, that it was on live TV, that Sachs was a holocaust survivor (he wasn’t), that he was ‘almost 30’ when he met his wife. All untrue.

Oh the saintly haters are not going to let the truth stand in the way of their nastiness

OwlBeThere · 18/10/2025 22:27

PrincessSophieFrederike · 18/10/2025 21:11

I do agree he shouldn't be shunned by those who know him. I won't ever watch him, but that's different.

I do think it being a 'joke' on live TV makes a difference though.

It wasn’t on tv. Live or otherwise.
it was a pre-recorded radio show.

FirstCuppa · 18/10/2025 22:25

DarkRootsBlue · 18/10/2025 22:22

I’d rather defend someone than make up baseless shit. He made the phone call. We all agree it was appalling. That is pretty much the only fact.

You can almost hear the salivating at calling him a pervert, making up memories of how he was awful to Charlotte Church, that he didn’t apologise to Georgina, that it was on live TV, that Sachs was a holocaust survivor (he wasn’t), that he was ‘almost 30’ when he met his wife. All untrue.

I don't like him because he is clearly a sexist knobend. He shows it very openly in his shows and I find his humour childish and rude. You can try to gaslight me that he is an angel but I will use my life experience to know misogynistic behaviour when I see it broadcast to the country.

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 22:25

Calling out lies is not the same as shutting women (or men for that matter) up.

Raquelos · 18/10/2025 22:24

Yeah, life goes on. He did something stupid and unpleasant a few years ago, which garnered some truly hysterical overreactions, nicely inflamed by those sections of the press that enjoy moral high-ground type feeding frenzies on celebrities. I wasn't very impressed by what he did at the time, but it was all very overhyped imo. I haven't seen a repetition of that behaviour, so I got over it. I quite like JR's TV personality; he's entertaining, and I think he's pretty good value in Traitors (although surely he must get rumbled soon).

I really can't be arsed with this, condemn for all time attitude for people I don't know personally tbh, (I make an exception for the sex pests), for a start, I could never keep track of all of the dickhead celebrity behaviour over the years.

Stephen Fry, on the other hand, is both dull and overpimped by everyone in there. I really find their weird, awestruck treatment of him quite odd. I really don't see any evidence of his much vaunted massive brain; he's just got a posh accent with a good memory and a tendency to drop quotes from the classics. I have yet to see any original thought from him tbh.

FirstCuppa · 18/10/2025 22:22

BatchCookBabe · 18/10/2025 22:10

This. ^ Imagine feeling the need to drag something up from nearly 2 decades ago, that was dealt with at the time, and has been dead and buried since the noughties, and posting a thread about it!

The OP must be really bored tonight. 😆

You're the one defending a stranger on your Sat night despite hundreds of women saying they don't like him while you try to shut them all up.

DarkRootsBlue · 18/10/2025 22:22

FirstCuppa · 18/10/2025 22:03

The votes say otherwise. But carry on defending a slimey man you don't know if that's what you want to do with your Saturday night.

I’d rather defend someone than make up baseless shit. He made the phone call. We all agree it was appalling. That is pretty much the only fact.

You can almost hear the salivating at calling him a pervert, making up memories of how he was awful to Charlotte Church, that he didn’t apologise to Georgina, that it was on live TV, that Sachs was a holocaust survivor (he wasn’t), that he was ‘almost 30’ when he met his wife. All untrue.

BigFishLittleFishy · 18/10/2025 22:18

Completely agree! What does he have over tv producers to keep giving him prime tv roles?!

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/10/2025 22:16

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 18/10/2025 22:15

Russell Howard pushed in front of me in a queue once and then proceeded to speak VERY loudly so that everyone knew who he was.

It may have been over 15 years ago but I also don't forget!

See - quite the nasty little prick back then!

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AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 18/10/2025 22:15

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/10/2025 21:02

Well i'm glad you brung it up cos Ive been dying to talk about it!

I remember one of Russell Howard's sexist rants about childhood obesity being along the lines of:

'One woman said her kid doesnt want eat healthy food - well i think "ban your fanny until you can control what comes out of it"'

And another - 'there's a group of hens, all wearing velor trousers bejewelled with words like 'sexy' or 'nice arse'. Then there's their one fat friend who has 'nice eyes' written on them, bahahahaha'

Just nasty stuff. Hes since rebranded but the North remembers.

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Russell Howard pushed in front of me in a queue once and then proceeded to speak VERY loudly so that everyone knew who he was.

It may have been over 15 years ago but I also don't forget!

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/10/2025 22:15

MyBoldGreyPoet · 18/10/2025 22:05

Don't you mean Russell Brand, not Howard?

Noo I mean Russell Howard! Some of his old stand up was shockingly sexist and nasty to women!

If he can rebrand, so can Jonathan Ross tbh

OwlBeThere · 18/10/2025 22:15

OnlyOnAFriday · 18/10/2025 20:23

She was 16 when they met though. He may have been 26 rather than 30 but at her age that’s a big age gap. But guess it must have been love as they’re still together aren’t they?

Yes it is. So there isn’t any need to try and make it sound bigger by saying he was ‘almost 30’. By that logic she was ‘almost 20’. It doesn’t make sense

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/10/2025 22:14

BatchCookBabe · 18/10/2025 21:51

She was cleared of any charges of racism. But don't let facts get in the way eh?!

But the woman maintained that she racially abused her, along with violently attacking her because she tried to stop her stealing the lollipops she was selling

This isnt the same as the JR thing at all and is disgusting

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TooBigForMyBoots · 18/10/2025 22:13

PrancingBean · 18/10/2025 21:50

Oh, I think I’d be the subject of a furious AIBU? thread at the very least.

Nearly 20 years later?🤯

I doubt it.

Bikergran · 18/10/2025 22:12

I've always found him revolting and creepy, and no, I haven't forgotten.