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Has everyone forgotten Jonathan Ross and Sachsgate?

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Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:50

I love traitors but i detest Jonathon Ross. I clearly remember his vile phone calls to Andrew Sachs about his grandaughter. Along with his accomplice Russel Brand - vile, laddish behaviour. How is he even still working? Does he have mates in high places - people's careers have gone under for much less.
Also he makes my skin crawl and is ruining a damn good show.

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godmum56 · 18/10/2025 20:38

I haven't forgotten it but I disliked him before that and still do.

ShesTheAlbatross · 18/10/2025 20:36

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:22

Not a fan of either.
At the time, Stephen Fry had JR on his shoe to, in Fry’s words, help him off the‘naughty step.’ Yep, their behaviour was trivialised to that extent.
David Bowie never appeared on Ross’ show again, despite Ross persistently asking him to. Now there was a Star, May he Rest in Peace.

Ah yes, the heartening moral self righteousness of someone who slept with underage children.

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:36

PrancingBean · 18/10/2025 20:33

Oh, come off it. Most of us don’t have sonething quite this disgusting in our twenty-years-ago stories.

What ? A prank call?! Come on

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:35

Christwosheds · 18/10/2025 20:28

Yes. 14 year olds I think ?

Also the sainted John Peel. He admitted to several encounters with underage fans in the 70s, but he died before the climate of sexual permissiveness changed.

The lesson from this is a depressing one: some powerful men will do whatever they want if allowed, and also the behaviour of famous people is very much influenced by the moral climate fostered by broadcasters such as as the BBC. While the BBC was tolerant of all kinds of misogyny, they took advantage of. And the BBC very much enabled such as Saville and Harris.

PrancingBean · 18/10/2025 20:33

FuzzyWolf · 18/10/2025 19:55

I can’t stand him but I also dislike the way people judge somebody for something that happened almost 20 years ago. People in the public eye can’t escape their mistakes but I bet most of us have something somewhere in our backgrounds that wouldn’t look great when published in the media and our flaws highlighted to everyone.

Oh, come off it. Most of us don’t have sonething quite this disgusting in our twenty-years-ago stories.

ShesTheAlbatross · 18/10/2025 20:32

VivienneDelacroix · 18/10/2025 20:03

I agree. I feel the same way about Boy George. Disgusting men who in the real world would have been shunned by anyone with any sense.

I’m no particular fan of Ross’s but I’m not sure it’s completely reasonable to compare him to someone convicted of assault and false imprisonment.

I also think you have an odd view about the real world if you think that someone would be widely shunned for a horrible “joke” they made nearly 20 years ago.

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:32

@Christwosheds - was not aware of that.

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:31

Honestly this whole thread (assuming it's genuine and not a bunch of bots) is everything that's wrong with the world at the moment. The guy's a fairly middle ranking celebrity - on TV once a week in the UK only plus a weekly radio show. He acted like an overgrown schoolboy shouting down the telephone on a prank call 15(?) years ago - apologised, resigned from all his broadcasting responsibilities with the BBC and has kept his head down ever since. He is a family man with 3 kids and a wife he clearly adores and supports multiple charities. And still vicious posters on here want to attack and smear him with the usual default "perv" / paedo allegations. And before anyone accuses me of anything - I quite like him and find him watchable but it's more about being totally sick of seeing human beings being ripped apart on line.

thepariscrimefiles · 18/10/2025 20:31

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:57

@FightingFishmmistake? Wow!
More than that in my book. Nasty misogynistic behaviour - he was far too old for all that.

I agree. I mentioned Sachsgate to my daughter when she asked me if I liked Jonathan Ross on Celebrity Traitors. Obviously, we didn't know about all the allegations of sexual misconduct against Russell Brand at that point, but it was disgusting behaviour and Jonathan Ross was egging him on like a naughty school boy hanging out with the cool kids.

powershowerforanhour · 18/10/2025 20:31

Never liked Jonathan Ross. He was a good enough interviewer when interviewing men but with women, it might start ok tl then in about 2 minutes he would just be letching all over them and not really listening to them or asking good questions to elicit interesting answers, just teeing up the next sleazy double entendre, if he could be bothered to even do that.

CoffeeCantata · 18/10/2025 20:29

The past was certainly a different country!

I remember JR embarrassing several female guests with his crude sexual remarks and suggestions - Michelle Pfeifer was one. I felt ashamed of British TV on her behalf. She was clearly shocked.

Also, his brother Paul was on a reality show of some kind with the glamour model Abi someone..can’t remember her surname but she was very famous 15 years ago - and he just kept bullying her about her ‘beaky’ nose until she was extremely uncomfortable. His point was that she wasn’t the vision of perfection he thought she should have been. He was very, very far from an oil painting himself.🙄

I hope those times are gone.

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:29

@OnlyOnAFriday - never heard of the stories, I know he was a father and a husband and his declining the invitation showed respect for women, to me at least

Christwosheds · 18/10/2025 20:28

OnlyOnAFriday · 18/10/2025 20:24

Bowie? There’s some not nice stories about him and underage groupies isn’t there?

Yes. 14 year olds I think ?

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:27

@FuzzyWolf - some people deal with others behaviour for fal longer than twenty years while the person responsible walks away and flourishes.
Others, when they make a mistake actually apologise to the people they hurt, whether they can affect their career or status or not.

powershowerforanhour · 18/10/2025 20:26

"David Bowie never appeared on Ross’ show again, despite Ross persistently asking him to. Now there was a Star, May he Rest in Peace."

Ummm...

OnlyOnAFriday · 18/10/2025 20:24

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:22

Not a fan of either.
At the time, Stephen Fry had JR on his shoe to, in Fry’s words, help him off the‘naughty step.’ Yep, their behaviour was trivialised to that extent.
David Bowie never appeared on Ross’ show again, despite Ross persistently asking him to. Now there was a Star, May he Rest in Peace.

Bowie? There’s some not nice stories about him and underage groupies isn’t there?

OnlyOnAFriday · 18/10/2025 20:23

OwlBeThere · 18/10/2025 20:19

They are less than 10 years apart in age, it’s not possible he was ‘almost 30’ when she was 16. It’s a big age gap, so there’s no need to exaggerate it for effect,

She was 16 when they met though. He may have been 26 rather than 30 but at her age that’s a big age gap. But guess it must have been love as they’re still together aren’t they?

covilha · 18/10/2025 20:22

Not a fan of either.
At the time, Stephen Fry had JR on his shoe to, in Fry’s words, help him off the‘naughty step.’ Yep, their behaviour was trivialised to that extent.
David Bowie never appeared on Ross’ show again, despite Ross persistently asking him to. Now there was a Star, May he Rest in Peace.

OnlyOnAFriday · 18/10/2025 20:22

I was talking to a friend about this very topic today. She can’t stand him. I don’t mind him on Traitors, he comes over like a nice enough guy but I did say I was very shocked and disappointed by what he did over Sach’s granddaughter. so is he an ok guy who made a stupid error of judgement or is he a really nasty bit of work who hides it well most of the time?

I think he probably thought it was banter and him and Brand (who is a scumbag on another level) egged each other on. I don’t think it was banter, I think it was nasty. But I get that doesn’t necessarily make him nasty. I don’t think he’s a predator but I was more disappointed with him because he had daughters. And also that he’s never properly apologised.

OwlBeThere · 18/10/2025 20:19

Whappy · 18/10/2025 20:04

It was awful and I have not forgotten. I am also surprised that there is little comment in the da t he started dating his wife when she was 16 and he was nearly 30. I seem to recall he made some bizarre comment about him being a bit of a dad to her. Makes me shudder.

They are less than 10 years apart in age, it’s not possible he was ‘almost 30’ when she was 16. It’s a big age gap, so there’s no need to exaggerate it for effect,

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 20:18

@lemonraspberry-- I agree he's got a nasty edge to him. The truth will out. I hope.

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LivelyMintViper · 18/10/2025 20:17

He is a vile little man and should have been cancelled . Russel Brand is no better. Both are disgusting

FirstCuppa · 18/10/2025 20:17

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:16

Well so should a lot of us - it's not a crime!

Well, as with Epstein's buddies, who knows?

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:16

FirstCuppa · 18/10/2025 20:16

He should choose his friends more wisely then, clearly.

Well so should a lot of us - it's not a crime!

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 20:16

@afalorenbloody hope so. Has he got grandchildren i wonder? What would he make of such a prank I wonder? Once a dick always a dick in my book.

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