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Has everyone forgotten Jonathan Ross and Sachsgate?

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Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:50

I love traitors but i detest Jonathon Ross. I clearly remember his vile phone calls to Andrew Sachs about his grandaughter. Along with his accomplice Russel Brand - vile, laddish behaviour. How is he even still working? Does he have mates in high places - people's careers have gone under for much less.
Also he makes my skin crawl and is ruining a damn good show.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/10/2025 12:31

I never much liked JR anyway, but after the Sachs affair, I can’t stand him. Why Classic FM have given him a prime time prog. I don’t understand. His voice really grates on me, too.

CoffeeCantata · 22/10/2025 12:13

I’ve been thinking about this and I think my strong feelings on the subject are because I see that phone call as being what bullies do. I hate bullying and this was made so much worse by the very public humiliation of Sachs and his granddaughter. Pps have criticised his reaction but how many grandparents of his generation and background would be cool with their beloved granddaughter working as a burlesque artist and mixing with low-life like Russell Brand? Not many!

I detest bullying but the people who stand by, enjoy the fun and minimise these things are almost more culpable in my eyes. I read that the man who oversaw the fallout from the scandal actually remarked that both men showed little remorse for what they’d done other than for the damage to their own careers.

As I said upthread, I would imagine Ross has changed and has had time to reflect on his attitude to women since both his daughters have suffered ill health physically and mentally and have been subjected to cruelty themselves on social media. He must have learned some lessons.

Just explaining why this has triggered me - to use a rather dramatic over-used term!

PrincessSophieFrederike · 21/10/2025 23:29

nevernotmaybe · 21/10/2025 13:11

Yea, a stupid phine call means he should never work again.

Perfectly well adjusted society will come from that.

A phone call on public radio, not just a stupid phone call.

I agree he shouldn't be banned forever from working.

CoffeeCantata · 21/10/2025 22:10

PrincessSophieFrederike · 21/10/2025 00:00

That’s good to know. It doesn’t take much imagination to understand how much upset must have been caused by what happened.

(i can’t think of that creep Russell Brand without shuddering. The fact that he got to be where he was shows how bad things were at the BBC. I really hope they’ve finally learned something.)

LivelyMintViper · 21/10/2025 21:41

I think there's a difference between stupid and downright cruel and crass

nevernotmaybe · 21/10/2025 13:11

Yea, a stupid phine call means he should never work again.

Perfectly well adjusted society will come from that.

Cinaferna · 21/10/2025 00:22

Puppylucky · 18/10/2025 20:31

Honestly this whole thread (assuming it's genuine and not a bunch of bots) is everything that's wrong with the world at the moment. The guy's a fairly middle ranking celebrity - on TV once a week in the UK only plus a weekly radio show. He acted like an overgrown schoolboy shouting down the telephone on a prank call 15(?) years ago - apologised, resigned from all his broadcasting responsibilities with the BBC and has kept his head down ever since. He is a family man with 3 kids and a wife he clearly adores and supports multiple charities. And still vicious posters on here want to attack and smear him with the usual default "perv" / paedo allegations. And before anyone accuses me of anything - I quite like him and find him watchable but it's more about being totally sick of seeing human beings being ripped apart on line.

No, this thread most definitely is NOT what is wrong with the world right now. What IS wrong with the world is hateful bullies in power with no moral compass and no compassion, throwing their weight around for shits n giggles. Wossy, Brand, Epstein, Trump - all cast from similar mould. That 'only having a larf' relentless power-gaming and putting others - especially women - down, and raising themselves up revolts me far more than ordinary women expressing disgust online at the endless promotion of these shits in the media.

PrincessSophieFrederike · 21/10/2025 00:00

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 19:55

I was just checking this and I think the estrangement was temporary - but clearly a result of the behaviour of those 2 idiots. You have to take the newspaper report with a pinch of salt, but to me it speaks of how deeply the Sachses were affected as a family and I find it very sad. A thoughtless, moronic act which hurt innocent people badly.

They did reconcile before Sachs' passing

uk.news.yahoo.com/georgina-baillie-made-peace-with-granddad-over-sachsgate-133550776.html

PrincessSophieFrederike · 20/10/2025 23:57

Baillie said in interviews that they found out post-interview that she'd acted in porn films and worked as a dominatrix, and that these things were particularly upsetting for them. It wasn't just that she was a burlesque dancer or had slept with Brand.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2008/nov/27/georgina-baillie-russell-brand&ved=2ahUKEwiDwvyL77OQAxVBT0EAHY3QDy8QFnoECGYQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0RrA-XXzx0EtFZdre6Bgex

I'm not excusing their estrangement. From their perspective though - it must have been a big shock.. the phone call etc etc My grandmother brought me up, she's about the Sachs' age. I don't think she'd disown me if I were acting in porn & working as a dominatrix, but she'd definitely be devastated. They did reconcile I think?

I feel most sorry for Baillie. It sounds like an initially happy childhood gave way to trauma and addiction according to the interviews she's given. She in a better place now, it seems.

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theguardian.com%2Flifeandstyle%2F2008%2Fnov%2F27%2Fgeorgina-baillie-russell-brand&usg=AOvVaw0RrA-XXzx0EtFZdre6Bgex&ved=2ahUKEwiDwvyL77OQAxVBT0EAHY3QDy8QFnoECGYQAQ

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 21:16

Rhaenys · 20/10/2025 20:32

Well it was at least 4 years, and it was an interview, not just a speculation article. It came directly from them.

Sure, but their words are reported. We don’t hear them speaking directly and journalists often twist things. Who knows whether those were her words, or what larger context they were in when she said them, or what question she was actually asked?

It’s all very regrettable.

EH1768 · 20/10/2025 20:43

Greedybilly · 18/10/2025 19:50

I love traitors but i detest Jonathon Ross. I clearly remember his vile phone calls to Andrew Sachs about his grandaughter. Along with his accomplice Russel Brand - vile, laddish behaviour. How is he even still working? Does he have mates in high places - people's careers have gone under for much less.
Also he makes my skin crawl and is ruining a damn good show.

Agreed. Never could stand him, always seemed creepy.

Rhaenys · 20/10/2025 20:32

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 19:55

I was just checking this and I think the estrangement was temporary - but clearly a result of the behaviour of those 2 idiots. You have to take the newspaper report with a pinch of salt, but to me it speaks of how deeply the Sachses were affected as a family and I find it very sad. A thoughtless, moronic act which hurt innocent people badly.

Well it was at least 4 years, and it was an interview, not just a speculation article. It came directly from them.

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 19:55

Rhaenys · 20/10/2025 19:04

I mean they hadn’t even noticed any of it before someone told them. I do feel that disowning a close family member because they’re in a burlesque group, take drugs recreationally and have casual sex is wrong, and the bit about spending lots of money on her seems very toxic.

I was just checking this and I think the estrangement was temporary - but clearly a result of the behaviour of those 2 idiots. You have to take the newspaper report with a pinch of salt, but to me it speaks of how deeply the Sachses were affected as a family and I find it very sad. A thoughtless, moronic act which hurt innocent people badly.

NotThisShitAgain121 · 20/10/2025 19:07

I used to like him but not since that. How would he feel if that had been one one of his daughters. What a wanker. Dunno wtf Jane Goldman sees in him!

Rhaenys · 20/10/2025 19:04

Americano75 · 20/10/2025 14:10

"...we spent a lot of money on her, educating her."

Yeah, I remember several interviews in a similar vein. If the Daily Mail hadn't made such a massive deal of it the chances of it being noticed at all were pretty much zero.

I mean they hadn’t even noticed any of it before someone told them. I do feel that disowning a close family member because they’re in a burlesque group, take drugs recreationally and have casual sex is wrong, and the bit about spending lots of money on her seems very toxic.

Raquelos · 20/10/2025 18:50

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 18:48

You sound an absolute delight, I must say!

It seemed like a fair response tbh

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 18:48

mydogisthebest · 20/10/2025 18:38

Oh do fuck off

You sound an absolute delight, I must say!

mydogisthebest · 20/10/2025 18:38

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 18:16

Yes - I can well believe it.

Yuk.

Oh do fuck off

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 18:16

mydogisthebest · 20/10/2025 13:49

I am in my 70's and DH is in his 60's and we both like him. Lots of my friends and family like him and they are all at least 60.

Yes - I can well believe it.

Yuk.

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 18:14

mydogisthebest · 20/10/2025 13:46

"Family tragedy"!!! Quite the drama queen aren't you? Ok it was not a nice thing to say about his granddaughter but Andrew Sachs and presumably his wife made the decision to cut her out of their lives. They didn't have to make a mountain out of a molehill

I wouldn’t like to be you.

You are tolerant of appalling behaviour which hurt real people - not fictional characters. Haven’t the succession of sexual scandals at the BBC made any impact on you? Where would you draw the line as to a code of behaviour for people paid telephone numbers and entrusted with the privilege of broadcasting to us?

I don’t know anyone IRL who shares your attitude. And I’m glad!

Americano75 · 20/10/2025 14:10

Rhaenys · 20/10/2025 13:13

It seems like they just cut her off for it.

I found this
https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/sachs-doesn-t-talk-to-granddaughter-6841884.html

but I seem to remember reading it as part of a larger article, and I remember thinking that they did not come across well at all in it.

"...we spent a lot of money on her, educating her."

Yeah, I remember several interviews in a similar vein. If the Daily Mail hadn't made such a massive deal of it the chances of it being noticed at all were pretty much zero.

wisestbee23 · 20/10/2025 13:59

Apologies if this has been posted before. I seemed to remember at the time the pre-recorded content was allowed to be broadcast on BBC Radio 2 that it was a woman at the head of the station - and it shocked me. How many others in the chain of management gave the go-ahead before it was finally aired? Anyway, the Wikipedia entry is worth a read. The Russell Brand Show prank calls - Wikipedia Russell Brand went some way to redeeming himself by paying for Georgina's rehab programme. Would she have needed it had the incident ever happened however?

The Russell Brand Show prank calls - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Russell_Brand_Show_prank_calls

Wordsmithery · 20/10/2025 13:58

I haven't forgotten the Andrew Sachs business. It was calculated spite that caused great distress to the Sachs family and how JR ever got back into TV is beyond me. What he did wasn't acceptable then and isn't acceptable now.

mydogisthebest · 20/10/2025 13:49

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 08:21

Just to add - I think pps are divided between possibly younger people who see this in isolation. I see it as being part of the whole sexual abuse scandal in which the BBC enabled a whole spectrum of sexual misconduct from Saville and Harris at one end, to Wallace and things like this tacky and bullying incident (and Ross’s behaviour in interviews with female celebrities) at the milder end.

Not cool at all and shouldn’t be minimised.

I am in my 70's and DH is in his 60's and we both like him. Lots of my friends and family like him and they are all at least 60.

mydogisthebest · 20/10/2025 13:46

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 07:47

I see that as a family tragedy caused by Ross and that wanker, Brand though. On the face of it, that sounds harsh, but I guess there must have been rows, back and forths and huge upset involved so things might have been more complicated than them just going nc with her.

How this sad outcome, all caused by a cruel, bullying ‘prank’ is OK with some people is beyond me.

"Family tragedy"!!! Quite the drama queen aren't you? Ok it was not a nice thing to say about his granddaughter but Andrew Sachs and presumably his wife made the decision to cut her out of their lives. They didn't have to make a mountain out of a molehill

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