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Angry at house seller?

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perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 17:17

Had our offer accepted, in the middle of the legal process and we’ve had got the fixtures and fittings form from the vendors.

They are taking with them all the column radiators (will be replacing with basic ones), all light fixtures - they had these beautiful sconce marble light fixtures that they will be taking and they are have a fixed mirror in the bathroom, has Bluetooth and different lighting and they are taking that too.

My partner doesn’t seem bothered but I’m really upset, Aibu?

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Tagyoureit · 18/10/2025 18:04

sciaticafanatica · 18/10/2025 17:51

So dd2 had her seller try this bullshit 2 years ago.
They basically were waiting for her to start offering money for them.
i told her no!
instead she insisted and instructed that all damage and holes be fully repaired and left in decorated state that matched property when she viewed it.
slso new gas safety certificate and guarantees for new radiators and electrical work to replace what they were removing.
they never took any of it!

This with bells on!!

Personally, id pull out of it.

But if you are going continue then this is solid advice. Also, id be pushing for your solicitors to hold on to some of the money for at least 6 months to ensure that any plumbing problems with the radiators can be paid for and not by you.

Be awkward back.

The mirror I wouldnt be fussed.

Having google the lights, they're not my cup of tea but are pricey so again, ensure the lights are suitably replaced with no visible damage to the walls and a electric safety certificate is supplied.

AncoraAmarena · 18/10/2025 18:03

No way would I buy this house without seeing the new radiators in situ.

In fact I wouldn't proceed if they took them.

FrodoBiggins · 18/10/2025 18:03

PrincessofWells · 18/10/2025 17:33

From a legal perspective if the photos of the house show the radiators and/ or they are mentioned then they are fixtures and they should be included with the house purchase. If they're not then I think you have a good argument that the estate agents details were misleading.

As a general rule if you turn the house upside down, anything that falls out is not included in the sale.

I would be arguing with the vendors tbh. It depends how much you love that particular house and whether the radiators and bathroom fittings were an intrinsic part of what made the house desirable from your perspective.

Eh? When my house was on the market my bed was in the pictures but wasn't included lol

FlibbertyGibbitt · 18/10/2025 18:03

SwedishEdith · 18/10/2025 17:34

And if you do make an offer to buy the lights and the mirror, remember that they are now second hand so don't be seduced into over paying unless that works for you.

Taking the radiators is weird but, I suppose, if they had them before the viewings, would that have changed your offer? Maybe think of it like that.

I hate vendor pettiness. One of mine took the light bulbs.

Had one who took all the carpets - except stair carpet. Fitted wardrobe doors,
All the light bulbs. This was in the days before you had to do a list. They smashed a window in the front door and left a load of dog crap in the garden so that was nice !

PrettyPickle · 18/10/2025 18:02

Yeah, the radiators are fixtures and the replacements could be of a lesser design feature or decor could be damaged when they swop them out and on this basis, I would suggest you get your solicitor to either ask for a reduction in price or that they are still part of the deal.

Light fittings and bluetooth bathroom mirror are a bit of a push as its not unreasonable to take them.

Enjoy your new home.

LlynTegid · 18/10/2025 18:02

Seek legal advice.

My non-legal opinion is that it is deception of sorts. Perhaps if the government does get round to changing the law in England and Wales for house sale and purchase, it can state what is presumed to be included unless explicitly stated otherwise in all advertising.

Bruisername · 18/10/2025 18:01

Unless stated in the particulars then nothing wrong with taking the light fittings and mirror

radiators are a bit odd though so I would push back on those

when I look around a house I expect everything ‘decor’ to go but expect integral items (bathroom fittings, radiators, boiler, white goods etc) to stay unless mentioned

I once saw a house where the owner had hand built a beautiful wooden kitchen and they were taking everything. They declared it up front so fine.

verycloakanddaggers · 18/10/2025 18:01

YANBU, you can work out how much they're worth and consider an adjusted offer - radiators would usually be left. Expensive light fittings would be expected to go I think.

MrsPositivity1 · 18/10/2025 18:00

I don’t think they can take radiators

Fibrous · 18/10/2025 17:57

stingy fuckers. i had the same with my house, they made me pay for the victorian fireplace surrounds. really pissed me off.

FeliciaFancybottom · 18/10/2025 17:57

Taking the radiators is really weird, but I don't see a problem with the lights and mirror. The Bluetooth bathroom mirrors aren't all that expensive, so you could replace it easily.

autienotnaughty · 18/10/2025 17:56

I’d be concerned about holes in wall / messy walls. Are they planing to fit new radiators (presumably standard shape) and repipe/plaster/repaint and the same for the space where the mirror is. I’d speak to your solicitor it needs clarification

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/10/2025 17:55

user927464 · 18/10/2025 17:28

Theres a legal difference between fixtures (things like radiators, kitchen cabinets etc) and fittings (fridge freezer, curtains etc).

Speak to your solicitor

This

Some seem to come on AIBU just to be contrary, but it definitely isn't normal or expected for vendors to take things like radiators, and frankly if you go ahead I'd wonder what else you'll find missing

Typo

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/10/2025 17:55

Taking the radiators is absolutely ridiculous, imo 🙄

ickky · 18/10/2025 17:54

I with you OP.

Even if they replaced the radiators, there might be a mark on the wall where the original ones were, sunlight over time darkens some paper and paintwork.

The wall light fittings, I would also expect to stay as any replacement might not exactly fit. Mirror, I could live with and replace.

I would seriously consider pulling out as the sellers have strange ideas about fixtures and fittings.

Anything that doesn't fall out if you were to turn the whole house upside down should be left.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 18/10/2025 17:54

I've honestly never heard of anyone taking radiators with them when they move house. That's ridiculous and I would be pissed off too.

Loloj · 18/10/2025 17:54

Very unusual to take radiators.

Light fittings I can kind of understand but I still think it is stingy.

Did you knock them down significantly on price? Maybe that is why?

I always went by the rule of if something is fixed permanently to the walls/ plumbed in then it would be staying. So things like fitted furniture, light fittings, kitchen cupboards, radiators etc should stay.

nosleepforme · 18/10/2025 17:53

The radiatiors are weird. But they are replacing.
the lights and Bluetooth mirror… I mean, why do you think they should leave those? That’s weird

ChristmasFluff · 18/10/2025 17:53

Nah, not normal to take radiators, and the walls will need redecoration to cover the mess cos the replacements will be different shapes.

Dealbreaker for me. I don't mess about with sellers like this. Once they start this sort of palaver, they always end up being complete CFs who keep moving the goal posts in one way or another. They rely on people being held to ransom by sunk costs, but it's usually cheaper to pull out early doors and find a different place, because the CFery never ends once it's begun.

LemonJellyLegs · 18/10/2025 17:53

DisforDarkChocolate · 18/10/2025 17:27

I'd expect the advert to say if they were taking things that have to be unplumbed etc. I've regularly seen listings with things like the range cooker isn't staying. Radiators is taking the piss and I'd pull out because more shit like this will follow.

They should have changed the rads first really

MrsOvertonsWindow · 18/10/2025 17:53

Umbrellasinthesunshine · 18/10/2025 17:47

Of course YANBU! Who on earth takes the radiators?! In what world are these not fixtures? I’d be contesting this or wanting a reduction if they are being replaced with really basic ugly ones. The vendor of my house didn’t leave anything at all - all mirrors, shelves etc ripped out. The issue is that the walls are then left in a dreadful state and immediately you have to redecorate (and not just painting, often holes / damage to plaster/tiles etc.) Radiator pipes for column rads will be at different widths to bog standard rads - will that leave pipe holes in the carpets? What about bracket holes? YANBU for being cross.

This.
Every light fitting replaced is likely to leave marks / missing paint etc and as for replacing radiators! The house could look completely different.

I'd certainly reduce my offer but would consider pulling out in the face of such fuckery

sciaticafanatica · 18/10/2025 17:51

So dd2 had her seller try this bullshit 2 years ago.
They basically were waiting for her to start offering money for them.
i told her no!
instead she insisted and instructed that all damage and holes be fully repaired and left in decorated state that matched property when she viewed it.
slso new gas safety certificate and guarantees for new radiators and electrical work to replace what they were removing.
they never took any of it!

namechangetheworld · 18/10/2025 17:51

LemonJellyLegs · 18/10/2025 17:51

We have column rads, and they aren't very good! You've probably missed a bullet there!

Agreed, we have one in our kitchen and it's utter shite.

LemonJellyLegs · 18/10/2025 17:51

perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 17:17

Had our offer accepted, in the middle of the legal process and we’ve had got the fixtures and fittings form from the vendors.

They are taking with them all the column radiators (will be replacing with basic ones), all light fixtures - they had these beautiful sconce marble light fixtures that they will be taking and they are have a fixed mirror in the bathroom, has Bluetooth and different lighting and they are taking that too.

My partner doesn’t seem bothered but I’m really upset, Aibu?

We have column rads, and they aren't very good! You've probably missed a bullet there!

namechangetheworld · 18/10/2025 17:51

Taking the mirror and light fittings is perfectly normal. The radiator thing is slightly odd but they're not technically doing anything 'wrong.' I'm assuming you didn't buy the house solely for the radiators.