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Angry at house seller?

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perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 17:17

Had our offer accepted, in the middle of the legal process and we’ve had got the fixtures and fittings form from the vendors.

They are taking with them all the column radiators (will be replacing with basic ones), all light fixtures - they had these beautiful sconce marble light fixtures that they will be taking and they are have a fixed mirror in the bathroom, has Bluetooth and different lighting and they are taking that too.

My partner doesn’t seem bothered but I’m really upset, Aibu?

OP posts:
vickylou78 · 18/10/2025 20:31

Taking radiators is really not on!!! The cost of changing and a plumber fitting all the radiators and rebalancing the heating must be pretty expensive. But essentially If I look round a house that I am buying I expect the heating situation to be the same as when I looked!!! I'd consider radiators as part of the fabric of the house!

The mirror is fine for them to take though.

SheSaidHummingbird · 18/10/2025 20:30

When my parents bought their current house (as a young couple with 2 babies), the seller took everything. I mean everything - including all the carpets and every lightbulb.

Yes, really.

LillyPJ · 18/10/2025 20:29

OooPourUsACupLove · 18/10/2025 20:12

Don't be daft. A house needing £ks of work to bring it up to the standard it was when the buyers offered on it is not worth as much as the same house needing no work. That's not "swayed by the fancy bits", that's just cold hard economics.

I agree! But that doesn't change the fact that the sellers can take those 'fancy bits' with them as long as they're honest about it. And the buyers can pull out or reduce their offer accordingly. I would be annoyed if it happened to me but I'd have to accept it and decide if I still wanted to go ahead.

Livelovebehappy · 18/10/2025 20:28

SurferRona · 18/10/2025 19:55

Hmmm. Have you annoyed them in any way @perfectpotato ? Sounds like they are subtly getting their own back….what is your purchase price like compared to asking price? 5% / 25k under, or more? If they had struggled to sell and have felt they had to accept a cheeky offer, this could be how they are rebalancing it in their minds?

Agree with this. I think if op has knocked money off, that the sellers are kind of getting their own back.

400rider · 18/10/2025 20:27

My son was advised to remove anything he wanted to take with him on the sell of his property before putting it on the market, so he removed his heated bathroom mirror and lighting system replacing with basic before viewings started.
My sister in law had a fireplace cowl, they told every viewer that it would be going with them when they moved out.
The day of signing contract the buyers threatened to cancel if the cowl didn’t stay.
Refuse to sign unless stuff that is fixed to a wall or ceiling stays.

BluntPlumHam · 18/10/2025 20:27

Op did you ask? At every viewing we asked what fixtures were staying. Then follow up with this in writing and then check the contract before exchange. You must do your own due diligence. There was one property and they were taking out 3 fixtures which made us not make an offer because their house was average without them.

perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 20:26

nosleepforme · 18/10/2025 17:53

The radiatiors are weird. But they are replacing.
the lights and Bluetooth mirror… I mean, why do you think they should leave those? That’s weird

The mirror is wired into the wall.

OP posts:
Livelovebehappy · 18/10/2025 20:25

Nearly50omg · 18/10/2025 20:16

I’d be taking £50,000 off the offer price to cover the replaying of everything that’s being removed and also the work and the upheaval and mess that it will cause!!

I agree in theory, but £50k is stretching it a bit….

MaurineWayBack · 18/10/2025 20:23

@MyHazelOtter who takes carpets and door handles?!?

Mantissatopower4 · 18/10/2025 20:23

The radiators are fixed, part of the house. If they were to be removed you should have been told before the offer was made. What next, they want to take the windows etc. have they got another house lined up where the radiators will fit … a bit unlikely. In the current market it’s a buyers market. “ in view of the incorrect information supplied at the time the offer was made (no mention of…….. being not included in the purchase) a revise offer of £xxxx lower than our previous offer is being made”

The radiators are difficult, to replace with radiators that have the SAME heat output, will mean replumbing, moving of pipes, perhaps to unsightly positions. Also you would need to insist onan insurance backed guarantee for the new plumbing work, should you agree.

its not just the aesthetics, iTs the technical side of things … the wrong replacement radiators might mean a cold house.

MaurineWayBack · 18/10/2025 20:22

Blinds or curtains, even lights are ok to take with you.
Radiators?!? That’s crazy.
And removing them might well create a hell of a lot of problems too - like damage to the wall/paint/wallpaper.
The bathroom mirror. I can see where they’re coming from. I can also this will mean you’ll likely need to redecorate the bathroom.

MyHazelOtter · 18/10/2025 20:22

We viewed a beautiful house and were told the curtains carpets light fittings even fancy door handles were be left for us. Each time we spoke they said one thing after the other was not be left after all. We asked our solicitor to write to theirs and get a list of what was being taken. When the solicitor posted the list to me I could have cried. They were leaving us with four walls. I phoned our solicitor and said we wanted to pull out and he said it was the right decision. One day before exchange. They made all sorts of offers but we felt so cheated

Lbet · 18/10/2025 20:21

I would just pull out, bet they will soon change their mind.

Aluna · 18/10/2025 20:20

Aluna · 18/10/2025 20:13

The cost of removing them from one house, replacing, and reinstalling in new house @ £90 ph for a plumber probably won’t come out any different from buying new ones.

And don’t forget to include making good costs to the decoration, as they won’t be installing radiators exactly the same size, so there will be marks on the wall that need redecoration and potentially issues with the flooring too.

Tiswa · 18/10/2025 20:19

I think the problem is that the legal position is no you can’t take them because a house needs radiators and if you do it is your responsibly to replace them

the problem here is of course that they are going to replace them with radiators

it is about having a working central heating system which they are also going to do they are legally obliged to do that but I don’t think they are saying they aren’t

lynnebenfieldshandbag · 18/10/2025 20:18

It is beyond weird and stingy to take radiators with you. YANBU.

Nearly50omg · 18/10/2025 20:16

I’d be taking £50,000 off the offer price to cover the replaying of everything that’s being removed and also the work and the upheaval and mess that it will cause!!

Lbet · 18/10/2025 20:16

viques · 18/10/2025 20:14

I can understand them wanting to take things they have chosen and loved. If you think you feel the same about the items then I think I would make a decent offer so that they can replace the items in their new house without going to the bother and expense of removing and replacing them.

They shouldn’t have to offer a price for radiators that was there at the viewing, radiators are part of the fixtures. Blinds, curtains etc yes.

viques · 18/10/2025 20:14

I can understand them wanting to take things they have chosen and loved. If you think you feel the same about the items then I think I would make a decent offer so that they can replace the items in their new house without going to the bother and expense of removing and replacing them.

Nearly50omg · 18/10/2025 20:13

Radiators are classed as fixtures as they are part of the central heating system!!

Aluna · 18/10/2025 20:13

housethatbuiltme · 18/10/2025 19:45

I assume you mean the vintage metal radiators that are VERY expensive and the new fad?

If they recently had them fitted they aren't going to want to pay again at the new house. While it might seem a faff to some at that cost it will likely be worth it too them as it could easily be many thousands of pounds worth of goods.

Marble sconces are about £100-£200 each and the bluetooth mirror about the same again.

There have been threads about people taking the bath and the log burner/fire place before.

You can query it through the solicitor, say your offer was based on the state of the house being 'luxury' and you want a discount if thats no longer the case but legally they can take what they want.

The cost of removing them from one house, replacing, and reinstalling in new house @ £90 ph for a plumber probably won’t come out any different from buying new ones.

OooPourUsACupLove · 18/10/2025 20:12

LillyPJ · 18/10/2025 20:01

It's the same house. Buyers ought to be looking at the house, not the extras, but unfortunately we are swayed by the fancy bits. That's why sellers tidy up, redecorate, put out vases of flowers etc.

Don't be daft. A house needing £ks of work to bring it up to the standard it was when the buyers offered on it is not worth as much as the same house needing no work. That's not "swayed by the fancy bits", that's just cold hard economics.

SpaceRaccoon · 18/10/2025 20:12

LillyPJ · 18/10/2025 20:01

It's the same house. Buyers ought to be looking at the house, not the extras, but unfortunately we are swayed by the fancy bits. That's why sellers tidy up, redecorate, put out vases of flowers etc.

It's not "the extras", it's part of the house and the difference would be measured in thousands or tens of thousands, and an offer made accordingly. Houses in good decorative order are worth more than those that aren't, all else being equal.

Lbet · 18/10/2025 20:09

I would imagine it is against the contract to change radiators anyway.

Zov · 18/10/2025 20:06

LillyPJ · 18/10/2025 20:01

It's the same house. Buyers ought to be looking at the house, not the extras, but unfortunately we are swayed by the fancy bits. That's why sellers tidy up, redecorate, put out vases of flowers etc.

??? How can you possibly compare vases of flowers to radiators?! 😂