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Angry at house seller?

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perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 17:17

Had our offer accepted, in the middle of the legal process and we’ve had got the fixtures and fittings form from the vendors.

They are taking with them all the column radiators (will be replacing with basic ones), all light fixtures - they had these beautiful sconce marble light fixtures that they will be taking and they are have a fixed mirror in the bathroom, has Bluetooth and different lighting and they are taking that too.

My partner doesn’t seem bothered but I’m really upset, Aibu?

OP posts:
eatingandeating24 · 19/10/2025 17:59

Never known anything as "low" as this!! My seller took away the installed water softener!!

Blablibladirladada · 19/10/2025 17:57

Draytoncb · 19/10/2025 17:52

You should ask about things like that. We moved into a house owned by a woman who had had a bitter divorce, She took all the light bulbs!

That is not allowed normally (in UK). There should be light bulbs for when you arrive…

Blablibladirladada · 19/10/2025 17:56

Viviennemary · 19/10/2025 17:55

Not allowed. It should be absolutely clear what is staying and what's going. Radiators being taken. No. Not so sure about light fittings.

Absolutely they can. As long as it is replaced. Op is upset coz they take the nice ones…

Blablibladirladada · 19/10/2025 17:55

Tamfs · 18/10/2025 17:19

It's totally normal that they want to take these things. YABU.

You can always buy the same things to put in the house.

That,

if you want something, you need to say it and also offer a price for it. The sale includes the house, not the fittings…

newnamehereonceagain · 19/10/2025 17:55

Speak to lawyer about this asap.
it doesn’t bode brilliantly tbh

Viviennemary · 19/10/2025 17:55

Not allowed. It should be absolutely clear what is staying and what's going. Radiators being taken. No. Not so sure about light fittings.

Lyraloo · 19/10/2025 17:54

SummerEve · 18/10/2025 17:22

Why would you be angry at someone taking items that they own?!

I think showing your house with one type of radiator and then swopping them, is highly unusual. I’ve bought and sold a lot of houses and have never ever seen anyone take radiators.
light fittings are quiet common to be taken, but a mirror that’s hard wired into an electric supply is also unusual to remove.

Moii · 19/10/2025 17:53

It's unusual to be taking radiators, I'd question that.

Draytoncb · 19/10/2025 17:52

You should ask about things like that. We moved into a house owned by a woman who had had a bitter divorce, She took all the light bulbs!

DaisyDaisy133 · 19/10/2025 17:52

I sold a house many years ago and the buyer rang me to ask where the rotary dryer (washing line) had gone. I said I had taken it with me and she said “but the sale details stated “gardens as stocked””. When I explained that meant the plants, bushes, trees she said I should have left the washing line too. Must have assumed I planted a washing line seed and grew it !

Scarfitwere · 19/10/2025 17:52

Get your solicitors opinion on this. Its not as straightforward as they can strip the house of everything. There's a difference between fixtures and chattels and it relates to the degree of annexation (how integrated and 'fixed' to the house they are). House sales usually assume that fixtures are included and chattels (personal belongings not fixed to the property) are not. Get solicitor advice and maybe seek a discount for the asking price of the amount these things are worth.

Allergictoironing · 19/10/2025 17:52

housethatbuiltme · 19/10/2025 17:17

Ive seen that it was common to take carpets in the past too but it is bloody weird. Unless you are moving into an identical floor plan house they wont fit.

Like even where I grew up where semi detached neighboring houses where near identical they still wouldn't fit as the layout was mirrored so 'reversed'.

Many years ago my friends parents did a council house swap, everything like carpets, curtains, blinds, light fittings etc... where suppose to be left but they showed up to a completely gutted house and because they had been told that stuff must be left they had nothing to replace them and where really low income so for ages had no curtains and just bare bulbs etc...

Not sure about years ago, but the current policy (at least in councils i know about) is that anything like carpets etc is stripped out before new tenants move in in case of disease, fleas, contamination etc.

However I do find it annoying that they tend to even strip hard flooring like laminate or vinyl, and remove fitted shelves etc as a matter of course - the people I deal with are vulnerable young adults and they need to fit out the entire house. They do get an allowance to help with that, but by the time you've bought a cooker, fridge, other kitchen essentials, a bed and a sofa there isn't much left for flooring. We had one young mother very distressed as she got to the house to find her baby was expected to be crawling on bare splintery floorboards (we sorted out an emergency payment so she could at least have rugs)!

Wincher · 19/10/2025 17:51

And of course the new ones didn’t fit in the same places so of course we have holes in the wall, and no time to make good and decorate before we fitted the new ones as we urgently needed hot water and had a houseful of boxes! At least it was summer!

Signalbox · 19/10/2025 17:50

Lol, I can't believe that someone is taking the radiators. That is not normal. I can't believe so many people think it is!

ByDearBear · 19/10/2025 17:50

YABU. You bought their house not their belongings. Stylish radiators can be super expensive and hard to find. I’d definitely be taking them and replacing with basic when I moved.

Tessabelle74 · 19/10/2025 17:50

That's why you have the fixtures list. Ask the vendors where they got the things you liked from

Wasssuuuuup · 19/10/2025 17:50

Wincher · 19/10/2025 17:48

Possibly outing self here, but when we moved house the vendor took several of the radiators and light fittings - and didn’t replace them. We couldn’t have hot water until we had frantically sourced new rads and had them fitted, as the boiler couldn’t be turned on until they were replaced. He also took plumbing fittings and left a houseful of crap! We are planning to sue.

That is abysmal. Good luck!

angela1952 · 19/10/2025 17:49

Laboheme78 · 19/10/2025 17:40

Some of the fixtures and fittings in my house, including lights and switches from places like Jim Lawrence have cost me a fortune. If I ever sell I would take them all with me and replace with basic.

Yes we also had Jim Lawrence fittings but some (such as curtain rails) were made to fit the house so it would be pointless to take them. Lights I can understand, but replacing switches is time consuming.

Wincher · 19/10/2025 17:48

Possibly outing self here, but when we moved house the vendor took several of the radiators and light fittings - and didn’t replace them. We couldn’t have hot water until we had frantically sourced new rads and had them fitted, as the boiler couldn’t be turned on until they were replaced. He also took plumbing fittings and left a houseful of crap! We are planning to sue.

angela1952 · 19/10/2025 17:47

I'd be irritated too if this happened @perfectpotato
When we sold a few years ago we were planning to take light fittings and the buyer wanted them so we just left them, we were happy to do that so we could avoid disagreements. If they're taking out radiators and mirrors there will be a lot of making good for them to do on the walls, do make sure that your solicitor points this out to them.
Obviously they're perfectly within their rights, but I can't imagine why they'd want to take radiators, presumably they'll have to take out and replace the radiators in their new place? A lot of work.

Ratracerunner · 19/10/2025 17:47

I'd be irritated. It's just more hassle to purchase and fit replacements. Another headache you don't need when moving house. I wonder if they are developers and take the nice stuff around different properties to 'dress' them? Weird

Sparkies2012 · 19/10/2025 17:46

That’s bonkers, make sure you stipulate that any screw holes, wall damage etc is made good in this process.

Angiekl · 19/10/2025 17:45

I am in America and it’s obviously very different here. Anything attached to the home (even things like curtain rods) come with the home unless specifically stated in the listing before you make an offer. So, this would be WILD to me

Zov · 19/10/2025 17:45

Sooooo @perfectpotato What are you going to do?

Laboheme78 · 19/10/2025 17:40

Some of the fixtures and fittings in my house, including lights and switches from places like Jim Lawrence have cost me a fortune. If I ever sell I would take them all with me and replace with basic.