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Angry at house seller?

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perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 17:17

Had our offer accepted, in the middle of the legal process and we’ve had got the fixtures and fittings form from the vendors.

They are taking with them all the column radiators (will be replacing with basic ones), all light fixtures - they had these beautiful sconce marble light fixtures that they will be taking and they are have a fixed mirror in the bathroom, has Bluetooth and different lighting and they are taking that too.

My partner doesn’t seem bothered but I’m really upset, Aibu?

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Daftypants · 27/10/2025 08:56

Good god that’s not normal surely !? Removing radiators !!!
In the last 8 years we have sold homes and moved x 2 .
First time , I left not only light fixtures but also all ceiling light shades , all blinds and curtains ( an older property) + there was a large screen wall mounted TV plus full integrated sound system .
It would’ve caused damage to remove any of this so this was also included in sale .
The next house we sold we left all blinds and light fittings but did take some of the pendant light shades because they are easy to remove .
And I took one set of curtains but left all the curtain rail and the fixtures of course ( the new owners didn’t want the curtains )

FairKoala · 25/10/2025 21:09

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 19:39

It’s the boiler that’s significant in the EPC rating for the heating element of the rating. As long as the radiator controls are similar to the ones removed it’s not going to make a significant difference as long as theyre properly installed and tested.

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It very much relies on the type and size of radiator

eg if it was a 45cm wide x 2metres high column radiator, these give out more heat than a small 45cm wide x 1 metres high radiator that is narrow enough to fit in the space

Either these sellers don’t understand the selling process and costs involved in selling their home including having another EPC certificate done (which they will have to pay for before it actually can go ahead with the sale and if it slips down a band or 2 then there is the resulting purchase price down grade to reflect the poorer energy certification or

they think themselves so clever that they can get one over the buyer.

I really wouldn’t want to be reliant on these people if they are further down the chain you are in

What a stupid and waste of money thing to do

MrsPositivity1 · 25/10/2025 14:10

If they were shown in the brochure and it didn’t say they were taking them, then I don’t think they can

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 21:59

BIossomtoes · 24/10/2025 18:02

A house is only worth what someone will pay for it. An offer below asking isn’t taking advantage or ripping the vendor off. You have no God given right to whatever asking price you decide to put on your house. I feel extremely sorry for whoever buys your gaff.

I did repost saying I took back the "asking price" comment, just massively below would cause the situation in the Ops post. Don't go bringing God in to it!!

Silverbirchleaf · 24/10/2025 21:16

@perfectpotato Have you chased this up with the estate agents or solicitors? What’s the outcome?

OooPourUsACupLove · 24/10/2025 20:39

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 20:08

We renegotiated, but the solicitor advised that the seller wasn't bound to lower the price as he was replacing them. He advised that fixtures are part of the structure of the building and are relevant to the price of the house. These are the things which surveyors consider when valuing. Fittings, which is what radiators are, don’t impact the intrinsic value of the house and although surveyors will report on their condition and age, they dont form part of the valuation.

The valuation is just a guideline though. It has no legal status. Even if the roof came off the seller wouldn't be "bound" to lower the price if they happen to have a buyer daft enough not to walk away.

Aluna · 24/10/2025 20:27

Many fixtures that are considered part of the building are technically removable - boiler, loft insulation, doors, built in furniture like a kitchen etc. Doesn’t mean they’re not fixtures.

They’re assumed to be part of the sale by default unless excluded on the form.

Whereas fittings are assumed not to be part of the sale unless included on the form. Eg curtains, freestanding furniture, garden furniture etc.

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 20:24

Aluna · 24/10/2025 20:11

They’re part of the structure of the central heating system though.

The point that I was making is that you can negotiate to remove a fixture if you like there’s no rule that says you can’t if your buyer agrees, which you did. It must be clearly stated on the TA10 form though. Ideally the agent should tell you too.

I personally think this is where the EA should have to take more responsibility for the details in their brochures. We’ve bought homes where various features have been used in the EA brochures as selling points, only to find that as the sale progresses to the TA10 form, the seller is taking them, and backing out of the sale at that point just adds to the overall fees. We’ve never really had a satisfactory response to this as the EAs have always used caveat emptor as the get out.

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 20:16

Apparently not. They are removable so dont form part of the permanent structure of the building and have no effect on the value of it. There’s are thr only proviso is that they have to be replaced with standard ones with controls to achieve the same EPC rating,

Aluna · 24/10/2025 20:11

They’re part of the structure of the central heating system though.

The point that I was making is that you can negotiate to remove a fixture if you like there’s no rule that says you can’t if your buyer agrees, which you did. It must be clearly stated on the TA10 form though. Ideally the agent should tell you too.

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 20:08

OooPourUsACupLove · 24/10/2025 19:46

So the seller accepted an offer without saying upfront the rads weren't included and removed £000s of rads and you still paid the original price?

We renegotiated, but the solicitor advised that the seller wasn't bound to lower the price as he was replacing them. He advised that fixtures are part of the structure of the building and are relevant to the price of the house. These are the things which surveyors consider when valuing. Fittings, which is what radiators are, don’t impact the intrinsic value of the house and although surveyors will report on their condition and age, they dont form part of the valuation.

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 20:00

Aluna · 24/10/2025 19:48

They are fixtures as in fixed to the building and part of the central heating system.

You could negotiate to take a conservatory with you if you wanted, that doesn’t mean it’s not a fixture.

They are not fixtures as they're not part of the structure of the building as a conservatory is. They’re fittings. From personal experience our solicitor advised that when our seller removed the radiators, he had indicated he would, as long as he replaced them with standard ones comprising similar controls, made good any damage and provided the appropriate paperwork he was within his rights to do so. It was up to us to renegotiate if we weren’t happy.

Aluna · 24/10/2025 19:48

They are fixtures as in fixed to the building and part of the central heating system.

You could negotiate to take a conservatory with you if you wanted, that doesn’t mean it’s not a fixture.

OooPourUsACupLove · 24/10/2025 19:46

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 19:42

Radiators aren’t considered fixtures. They’re removable fittings and some models can cost thousands. I’ve had purchases where the seller has removed them and replaced with standard models.

So the seller accepted an offer without saying upfront the rads weren't included and removed £000s of rads and you still paid the original price?

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 19:42

peanutpancakes · 24/10/2025 18:47

Exactly, it’s fucking weird! Who takes radiators?!!

Radiators aren’t considered fixtures. They’re removable fittings and some models can cost thousands. I’ve had purchases where the seller has removed them and replaced with standard models.

Rosscameasdoody · 24/10/2025 19:39

FairKoala · 24/10/2025 19:34

You wouldn’t have to because the EPC is no longer valid it would have to be done again with the radiators they are selling with the house and the rating could well change .

It’s the boiler that’s significant in the EPC rating for the heating element of the rating. As long as the radiator controls are similar to the ones removed it’s not going to make a significant difference as long as theyre properly installed and tested.

FairKoala · 24/10/2025 19:34

Wasssuuuuup · 24/10/2025 12:40

There is a very simple solution. Don't accept offers under what you want🤷 It's not like they hold a gun to your head.
The idea of "I accepted your under x offer and now I will punish you for that" is really weird.
You are just risking sitting on a market for year+ like one seller near me because they want x price which is ridiculous for the area and state of the house.
And honestly if seller did what you just said to me, I would walk away.

You wouldn’t have to because the EPC is no longer valid it would have to be done again with the radiators they are selling with the house and the rating could well change .

peanutpancakes · 24/10/2025 18:47

perfectpotato · 18/10/2025 17:25

Because they are fixtures - who takes radiators with them?

Exactly, it’s fucking weird! Who takes radiators?!!

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 18:41

BigAnne · 24/10/2025 18:22

Your mother was clearly asking an unrealistic price. Did you value it for her as you don't seem to know how house valuations work. A house is only worth what someone is willing to pay.

Haha no I didn't, I probably should of said that 15k was knocked off half way through the sale not in the initial offer process which is why it left such a bad taste as everything was already underway. I'm a believer that in selling you need to find the seller for the house and that doesn't always happen straight away. All I'm saying it that this Op stinks of retaliation as yes taking radiators is madness but as I said I could be wrong only Potato can say.

Periperi2025 · 24/10/2025 18:40

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 17:58

It's such a situation dependant question, I'm saying this after seeing what my mum has gone through after trying to sell hers for a year, finally someone has made an offer 15k lower than asking and it's just left a bad taste as she has no option but to accept realistically. Her home has nothing of real value to remove but I said to my partner we are fortunate to not be in that situation and if that ever happens to us, I'd bloody well rip out our cast-iron radiators and expensive lights etc. The house in this Op sounds like a house that's had more than the average spent on it so that seller may be thinking the same. On the other hand I may be wrong but we don't know the full story and it doesn't t look like the OP is coming back to tell us. In a perfect world this conversation would never be had, the Scottish system is so much better as everyone always says.

If I needed to sell a house I'd put blood, sweat and tears in to (which I'd say was a given by the fixtures and fittings listed) and then a buyer came along and took advantage and ripped me off I'd want remove to the value they remove so 10% could be everything I could and the light bulbs! Haha. When we first bought we offered the asking price first offer and we were treated kindly for doing so, it made all the difference and made for a friendly transaction but you hear far more horror stories these days then good experiences sadly.

Nobody ever gets ripped off at the offer stage. Buyer offers what they consider property is worth based on location, market, and state of property as listed/ photographed/ viewed, and seller decides to accept it or not.

The only ripping off comes later if vendors start removing fixtures and fittings not stated as for removal on the listing, or buyers unreasonably (out of line with any survey results) start reducing their offer at a later stage threatening a chain.

If you want to take your precious radiators remove them and store them before marketing the property.

BigAnne · 24/10/2025 18:22

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 17:58

It's such a situation dependant question, I'm saying this after seeing what my mum has gone through after trying to sell hers for a year, finally someone has made an offer 15k lower than asking and it's just left a bad taste as she has no option but to accept realistically. Her home has nothing of real value to remove but I said to my partner we are fortunate to not be in that situation and if that ever happens to us, I'd bloody well rip out our cast-iron radiators and expensive lights etc. The house in this Op sounds like a house that's had more than the average spent on it so that seller may be thinking the same. On the other hand I may be wrong but we don't know the full story and it doesn't t look like the OP is coming back to tell us. In a perfect world this conversation would never be had, the Scottish system is so much better as everyone always says.

If I needed to sell a house I'd put blood, sweat and tears in to (which I'd say was a given by the fixtures and fittings listed) and then a buyer came along and took advantage and ripped me off I'd want remove to the value they remove so 10% could be everything I could and the light bulbs! Haha. When we first bought we offered the asking price first offer and we were treated kindly for doing so, it made all the difference and made for a friendly transaction but you hear far more horror stories these days then good experiences sadly.

Your mother was clearly asking an unrealistic price. Did you value it for her as you don't seem to know how house valuations work. A house is only worth what someone is willing to pay.

BIossomtoes · 24/10/2025 18:02

A house is only worth what someone will pay for it. An offer below asking isn’t taking advantage or ripping the vendor off. You have no God given right to whatever asking price you decide to put on your house. I feel extremely sorry for whoever buys your gaff.

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 17:58

Wasssuuuuup · 24/10/2025 17:14

Ok, I got what you meant.
Again I would walk away though because it gives difficult seller vibes.
And I am not even talking about light fittings and such. Out of curiosity if I offered you 10% under what would you then exclude?

It's such a situation dependant question, I'm saying this after seeing what my mum has gone through after trying to sell hers for a year, finally someone has made an offer 15k lower than asking and it's just left a bad taste as she has no option but to accept realistically. Her home has nothing of real value to remove but I said to my partner we are fortunate to not be in that situation and if that ever happens to us, I'd bloody well rip out our cast-iron radiators and expensive lights etc. The house in this Op sounds like a house that's had more than the average spent on it so that seller may be thinking the same. On the other hand I may be wrong but we don't know the full story and it doesn't t look like the OP is coming back to tell us. In a perfect world this conversation would never be had, the Scottish system is so much better as everyone always says.

If I needed to sell a house I'd put blood, sweat and tears in to (which I'd say was a given by the fixtures and fittings listed) and then a buyer came along and took advantage and ripped me off I'd want remove to the value they remove so 10% could be everything I could and the light bulbs! Haha. When we first bought we offered the asking price first offer and we were treated kindly for doing so, it made all the difference and made for a friendly transaction but you hear far more horror stories these days then good experiences sadly.

Wasssuuuuup · 24/10/2025 17:14

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 13:50

Which is why i said i would be up front about that information unlike the seller in the scinario. I think that's acceptable to say "thank you for your offer, I will accept however under the condition that I will be removing X, Y and Z. I agree its silly to do that after the fact as that risks wasting everybody's time. I agree with the "don't accept offers under what you want" but the bartering process in England means it's likely you will be given an offer rather than a "yes please here's the money" so that's where the barter comes in, it obviously has to go both ways. The EPC is where they may come unstuck, food for thought for myself, If I ever come to sell.

Ok, I got what you meant.
Again I would walk away though because it gives difficult seller vibes.
And I am not even talking about light fittings and such. Out of curiosity if I offered you 10% under what would you then exclude?

BrightJadeTiger · 24/10/2025 14:09

You know the more I think about it, forget the asking price, I know that's rarely given but I'd still say in this case the seller is pissed about having been knocked down far more than they would like but also their hand is being forced for whatever reason to sell, so this is the retaliation. Much like the taking of light bulbs and the like others have posted about. Not all sales end up in a bunch of flowers and a bottle of wine sadly.

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