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Working class men are the most attractive

283 replies

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 12:21

And there's no convincing me otherwise.

AIBU?

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 19/10/2025 08:43

Bloozie · 17/10/2025 15:09

I mean, that's not an imaginary combo. Keep the faith.

I do. And drool after any that I see. But they're always taken so...

suburberphobe · 19/10/2025 03:44

Whatever floats your boat OP.

TrishM80 · 19/10/2025 03:36

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 17/10/2025 12:30

You're not wrong.

Middle to upper class men (to me) look like sappy wet lettuces who couldn't fight their way out of a paper bag.

So, violent men turn you on?

MyCrushWithEyeliner · 19/10/2025 02:18

Westfacing · 18/10/2025 19:31

There was a thread not long ago where some posters admitted to having the hots for Rees-Mogg! 😄

Good Grief!! 😁

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 19/10/2025 02:04

This is obviously w wind up

From a troll?

GET A LIFE

User3365237 · 18/10/2025 23:21

When have I said that? @Naanspiration. You guessed wrongly.

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brunettemic · 18/10/2025 23:17

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 12:39

Tom Hardy (and dare I day it, Danny Dyer).

Ah yes, Tom Hardy…that well known working class guy 😂

Naanspiration · 18/10/2025 23:15

OP is working class, basically.

Nothing wrong with that, but that's why you are more attracted to working class blokes.

Thefsm · 18/10/2025 23:14

I’ve never really considered class as a factor in dating but I am drawn to bookish intellectual types over physical manual labour types so I guess a strong muscles plumber or builder wouldn’t do it for me while a gawky librarian or a scientist does.

User3365237 · 18/10/2025 22:54

Yes! @RememberBeKindWithKaren I remember that ad. Wink

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RememberBeKindWithKaren · 18/10/2025 22:12

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Wimin123 · 18/10/2025 21:50

Much prefer the more rugged, practical types. The wimpy drips at the office did nothing for me - they looked down on the ‘tradies’ who were working there from time to time but us women were lusting after them 😉

User3365237 · 18/10/2025 20:46

Well, only if we're being ridiculously pedantic about it @Zov.

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Zov · 18/10/2025 20:01

Fiddy1964 · 18/10/2025 19:48

You didn't ask it as a question. You posted it as a statement.

That's how I read it. That's why I said YABU to @User3365237 'Working class men are the most attractive' is an opinion, not a fact.

Westfacing · 18/10/2025 19:59

For those who like a Tradie I think a Pimlico Plumber is the way to go. not Charlie Mullins obviously

I saw one yesterday, trousers with all the pockets etc., sorting out his tools at the back of the van. He was a very fit 40-something, and being a PP no doubt had a few bob!

Fiddy1964 · 18/10/2025 19:48

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 12:25

I'm interested in what other people think. This is a discussion forum is it not?

You didn't ask it as a question. You posted it as a statement.

Uricon2 · 18/10/2025 19:38

Westfacing · 18/10/2025 19:31

There was a thread not long ago where some posters admitted to having the hots for Rees-Mogg! 😄

May God have mercy on their souls 😂

Westfacing · 18/10/2025 19:31

MyCrushWithEyeliner · 17/10/2025 14:44

OP, are you saying you wouldn’t want a piece of this?

There was a thread not long ago where some posters admitted to having the hots for Rees-Mogg! 😄

User3365237 · 18/10/2025 18:48

Yes, tough on the outside, soft inside @JJWT.

I'm not actually in the market, so to speak @JJMama.

OP posts:
JJMama · 18/10/2025 18:40

OP are you looking for a downtown man??

JJWT · 18/10/2025 18:28

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 12:39

Tom Hardy (and dare I day it, Danny Dyer).

Totally understand where you are coming from. TH yep yep yep. DD not so much for me. I think you're leaning towards buff/hunk/a touch rough but hopefully gentle!!! (Too far?!) I lean towards troubled and hot! (Or do i mean trouble, without the d?!) For example my favourite council estate boy is Noel G... Oh. My. God. School of hard knocks boys. Understand life. Oh yes. Fun thread.

User3365237 · 18/10/2025 11:34

Illegally18 · 17/10/2025 22:52

ah, Sean Bean! mmmmmnnnn

Now, Sean is a good example of wc totty.

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Yohoho3 · 18/10/2025 10:19

I didn’t think I’d ever had a preference until i worked in a prep (independent) school. The silver spoon ex-boarder male colleagues were bizarre! Skinny (think ankles the size of a wrist), brightly coloured trousers with “jazzy socks”. They were also overly dramatic and highly misogynistic.

ChesterDrawz · 18/10/2025 10:16

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 18/10/2025 10:07

Nah tanned from all the holidays we can afford. 😂😂

The holidays he can afford.

SomeConstellation · 18/10/2025 10:13

cinquanta · 18/10/2025 10:09

I’ve never thought of him as posh and I don’t think he has a posh accent.

I suppose it depends on who you are comparing him to.

He’s not at all ‘posh’. Standard-issue MC, I’d have said.

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