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To have cried at Dr not to send me home

231 replies

Whatsthematterwiththebatinthecave · 16/10/2025 17:54

For 3 weeks I’ve had left flank pain that’s slowly been getting worse, coupled by loss of appetite and loss of weight for past 2 months (unintended). 3 days ago things really went down hill which ruined my work projects and the pain becoming so bad I started vomiting from the pain and passing out; this prompted me to see the GP who sent me straight to A&E.

29hrs later I’ve finally been told my blood test and urine test suggest something underlying but my CT scan came back clear so I can go come. He said maybe it’s an infection but my temperature isn’t that high.

I just burst into tears at the thought of going home in this pain with no meds to fix anything. He was taken back by my reaction and asked if I felt I needed to stay, I explained what’s been going on and he was surprised as he hadn’t realised how long it had been going on for (I had said on arrival and it was in my GP letter). I then begged to not be sent home and he has agreed but now I feel silly.

OP posts:
Soontobe60 · 16/10/2025 18:00

A friend of mine was sent to A+E the other day by her GP due to similar symptoms you’re experiencing. After all her test results, she’s being treated for a UTI and now feels so much better. Her pain has almost gone. Are you on antibiotics?

ldnmusic87 · 16/10/2025 17:59

Not at all, get well soon x

DiscoBob · 16/10/2025 17:56

Well, it worked and you're still there. So don't worry. I hope you are better soon x

elrider · 16/10/2025 17:56

Not at all. You are quite justified and they need to find out what's causing it. I hope you get some answers soon.

mygrandchildrenrock · 16/10/2025 17:56

Oh bless you, I hope they give you something for the pain. Being in pain is just rotten and clouds everything else that’s going on. Don’t feel silly, sometimes crying is the only way to let someone know how bad things are.
I hope you feel better soon and get some answers for your symptoms.

CuriousKangaroo · 16/10/2025 17:56

You poor thing. Don’t feel silly, it sounds like a perfectly reasonable and normal reaction to me. I hope you feel better soon, OP.